FATHA TORCH is the podcast to help you cope with the anxiety and stress of fatherhood so that you can be the dad you always wish you had. Each episode is an open discussion about fatherhood and the struggles we face as Black men in America. Topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry after incarceration. Hosted by Rah, a father of nine children, artist and founder of Abimilechh Found ...
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Welcome to The HDSNCRWPODCAST , where amazing things happen. 2 guys between NJ and NY separated by the Hudson River give their take on interesting or not so interesting topics. .
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Matthew 6:3: A New Perspective for Fathers Seeking Approval and Praise
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27:33Ep. 28 Unravel the mysterious phrase "Never Let Your Left Hand Know What Your Right Hand Is Doing." From parenting to interpersonal dynamics, we'll discuss how it encourages trust, open communication, and a balance between individual autonomy and shared responsibilities. Discover the origins of this phrase, rooted in the biblical teachings of the G…
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Ep 9 Fear-based assumptions can lead to a parent-child relationship of pain, drama and heartache for all involved. As fathers we often lash out at our kids in order to protect them from the unknown, or to prevent them from getting involved with something that we don't understand but are afraid to admit it. In this episode let's explore another way …
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Stop Being Your Child’s Friend, Start Being Their Leader
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29:20Ep. 17 This episode is a must-listen for parents seeking guidance on discipline and communication with their children. In today's society, many parents walk around on eggshells, and it seems like fathers have no authority when it comes to raising the kids. As an advocate for traditional fatherhood, I have dedicated myself to helping other parents l…
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Toxic Masculinity, Rap and Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses
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36:52Ep 6 Does toxic masculinity impact on a man's mental health? Carl Binger and Joel Lesses have some theories. In this episode you'll learn 1. How men and women experience and cope with depression differently 2. The influence of rap music on mental health and depression 3. The importance of nature and wilderness in mental health and depression 4. Who…
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Honor Thy Grandparent: How to Embrace the Wisdom of Elders to Raise the Youth
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23:42Ep. 18 This episode is a tribute to my grandparents who have shaped my life as Fatha Torch, a beacon of light for the next generation. As a father, I believe it is important to honor our elders and learn from their wisdom, especially in these challenging times. In this episode, you will learn: How honoring your elders is a way of embracing and upli…
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Discipline, Control + Power: Awareness for Black Men, Young Fathers
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22:42Ep. 27 We must recognize that many of us lack self-awareness and struggle to comprehend the repercussions of losing control, and the importance of practicing self-discipline. To establish a healthy relationship with oneself and others, one must exert self-control and manage one's thoughts, which various emotional and developmental factors can influ…
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Relationships 101: Starting With the Man in the Mirror
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32:34Ep. 26 Relationship 101 provides us with the hope that our values and worth will be acknowledged by someone. It is equally crucial to deeply understand ourselves and the aspects we hold in high regard. It is important to make sure that these values are respected by our partners. Otherwise, we risk compromising our own sense of self-worth and integr…
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Fatherhood Unveiled: Rights, Duties, and Emotional Resonance
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32:17Ep. 25 The concept of fatherhood is a joke to many people and systems that govern our society. We have the right to procreate, but our rights to nurture, discipline and guide our children is slipping away every day. In this episode Fatha Torch will help you reclaim your power and authority as a man and be the dad you wish you had. 1: Fathers' Right…
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Ep. 24 The idea of taking responsibility and being accountable can be intimidating for men who struggle with abandonment issues and commitment-related traumas. Some simply don't care about life or its lessons and behave poorly as a result. It is necessary to break these negative patterns and move on with life, taking responsibility for one's action…
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Discipline Children While There is Hope, Otherwise You Will Ruin Their Lives
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34:38Ep. 23 Being a father requires possessing proper guidance, self-control, and discipline. Discipline should be viewed as a tool to impart knowledge to children about making better decisions in the future rather than punishment. Communicating expectations and consequences calmly, firmly, and consistently is essential to ensure the child comprehends. …
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The Truth About Forgiveness: How to Make Peace with Yourself and Be Better for Your Kids
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31:26Ep. 22 Translating forgiveness can be a challenging process, especially when grappling with emotions such as regret, anger, and confusion. It's crucial to clearly understand oneself to avoid getting lost in a world of pain. Taking the time to forgive is important in accepting the situation and moving forward in your journey to be the dad you wish y…
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Realistic Expectations: Key to Successful Fatherhood
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40:17Ep. 21 Growing up without a father I found myself setting unrealistic expectations on other men in my life, trying to fill the void my father left. But there were always disappointments because those men simply could not give me the things my soul longed for. It wasn't until I learned to set realistic expectations for myself, my partner and my chil…
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I Am FATHA: Fathers are the Highest Authority (It’s time we act like it)
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32:34Ep. 20 As fathers, it's imperative that we possess a deep understanding of ourselves. The archaic notion of relying on guesswork to ascertain our worth and capabilities is a thing of the past. We must be cognizant of our duties and rights as fathers, and we shouldn't have to be reminded of this simply because we are fathers. Because we are men, it …
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Passing the Torch: Embracing Growth & Maturity as Men
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30:06Ep. 19 Do you want to leave a positive legacy by shaping and guiding the next generation? As 'young elders' we can empower and inspire the youth to reach their full potential and become the leaders of tomorrow. In this episode of Fatha Torch, I, Rah, delve into the topic of the importance of becoming an elder and sharing wisdom with younger generat…
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Redefining Masculinity: Balance and Empathy in Relationships
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32:45Ep. 16 Sitting in our favorite pizza joint, Create a Pizza, I felt a sense of peace as we shared a vegan meatball pizza. Little did I know, I was about to embark on a journey that would forever change my understanding of masculinity and empathy. As I conversed with my wife, I realized I had to adapt my behaviors to be a better husband and father. B…
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Ep. 15 Your dad was an asshole, alcoholic, abuser or just not around to teach you how to be a good man right? So it's up to us the be the change we wish to see in the next generation of fathers. I was surrounded by men who were a waste of time, women who blocked the teaching of fatherhood, and people who were more excited to see a stranger than me.…
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Ep 14 Men fear being unable to provide, being questioned as fathers, and being unable to protect our loved ones. Men often express fear in destructive ways such as aggression and anger, instead of vulnerability. As men we must be mindful of how we express our fear, as it can stifle the growth of relationships and cause resentment. Instead of relyin…
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Are You a Good Father? It All Comes Down to This
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33:51Ep. 13 I was once plagued by the question, "Am I a good father?" I asked myself if I was a good man and what it meant to be a good father. After much thought and research, I realized that being a good father means having principles and characteristics such as protecting, loving, reasoning and being patient. It also means being willing to learn and …
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Developing Healthier Relationships with Kelly Marie of Healthy Illness Podcast (Part 2)
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38:42Ep. 12 In part 2 of his conversation with Kelly Marie, we embark on a journey of self-discovery, learning how to embrace anger, forgive those who have hurt you and relinquish guilt while navigating the complexities of relationships with parents, siblings and even other people who are living with mental health conditions. In this episode we discuss:…
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Finding Purpose and Reclaiming Fatherhood in 2023
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27:04Episode 11: About last year.... Have faith in yourself. Believe in your abilities to make ends meet, to strive. Lower your pride and lower your ego, that you may do better this year. In this episode, you will learn the following: What are the double standards men face in today's social climate, and what can fathers do to help themselves and their c…
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Emotional Exhaustion: Coping with the Stress of Fatherhood
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20:01Ep. 10 Emotional exhaustions amongst men can lead to depression and suicide. It is essential to recognize our mental exhaustion and make sure we are taking care of ourselves and our loved ones who are suffering in silence. I am here to offer support and to listen to my brothers and sisters. I want to help them find healthy outlets to cope with anxi…
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Overcoming the ”You Ain’t Shit” Narrative in Co-Parenting
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33:33Ep. 8 As the father of nine children, I've been through a lot. From being told I'm not worth the skin I'm in to having my child kept from me. I'm constantly reminded of how I'm not a "real man" or that I'm not going to amount to anything. Here's what I cover in this episode: 1. What are the consequences of a father being told "You Ain't Shit" by th…
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Ep. 7 Young men today are depressed, lonely, low self-esteem, withdrawn, angry, confused. I was talking to my son this morning about his self-esteem, and he told me that he thinks he's average. I had to explain to him that he is worthy of my love and that he is not a mistake. In this episode, you will learn: 1. The importance of talking to your chi…
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The Other Side of Depression with Carl Binger and Joel Lesses
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40:32Episode 5 Depression doesn't discriminate - even successful, high-functioning people like Carl Binger and Joel Lesses suffer from it. In this episode of Fatha Torch, they open up about their experiences with depression and how they've found ways to cope and thrive. "Is he just dumb or is it something deeper?" Depression is a serious issue that many…
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Spiritual Side of Fatherhood / Unraveling Religion with Joel Lesses
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49:19Episode 4 Unraveling Religion podcast host Joel Lesses sits down with Rah to discuss the personal life of fathers and the spiritual side of parenting. Rah expresses his deep desire to improve the quality of life for fathers, and children and the true meaning of 'Fatha Torch.' Get Involved!Interact with Fatha Torch LIVE on PodbeanLeave a review on P…
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The Father’s Role in a Child’s Development
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29:59Episode 3 I'm an advocate for fathers. I think it's important that we be more available to our children and make an effort to bond with them. Our role in their cognitive, social and emotional development is crucial, and we need to be more present in their lives. Unfortunately, many fathers are absent, either physically or emotionally. But when we a…
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Qualities of a Father with an Ungrateful Child
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25:41Episode 2 If you are a father of an ungrateful child who is trying your best to keep your cool, this episode is for you. As the man of the house, you should be honored and respected, but we all know that doesn't always happen in this social climate. In this episode Ra explains some of the most important qualities of being a father and under which c…
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Is Fatherhood Broken? A Father’s Confession
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33:34Episode 1 If you're looking for a way to be self-aware, become more emotionally available to your children and heal from a broken relationship with your own father than the Fatha Torch podcast is for you. Rah discusses how the concept of being "broken" can lead to a path of self-destruction and how to avoid pitfalls of fatherhood. Through his story…
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F.A.T.H.A. T.O.R.C.H. is an acronym meaning: fathers are the highest authorities teaching of rooted cultural heritage. Host Rah is on a mission to help you be the dad you wish you had. Weekly topics include self-love, raising sons vs daughters, the child support system, emotional trauma from toxic relationships, societal injustices and reentry afte…
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Welcome to the 57th ep, join the CRW as they Welcome the one and only Ant Lava. One of the top skaters from Newark NJ. Join as Ant take us on a stroll through his life and love for skating. Featured music: Song: San Jose Artist: Zig Luve Album/ Ep: Luve & Drugs
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Welcome to the 56th EP. Join the CRW as they get back to the couch to recap the last month and more. And it wouldn't be the CRW if they didn't tackle some great topics, album reviews and more with a blend of honesty and humor and pure RAW reactions. FEATURED MUSIC: Artist: Soulfull Song: YOUsual Album: With love from the eastside…
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Welcome to the 55th EP. Join the CRW in welcoming back one of the hottest MC's Malc and he brought a few friends along. It's a NIGHT IN THE BAY!!!!!!
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Corner of The World Take Over pt.2 SXSW edition. Joint the CRW as they welcome the hottest label coming out of Passaic NJ. Sitting down with the CRW before they tore down the stage during SXSW weekend. We get to see some familiar faces and new face from the label. From marketing to road mangers and everything in between. And of course, it wouldn't …
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Corner of The World Take Over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Joint the CRW as they welcome a familiar face and some new faces to the podcast.
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Welcome to the 52nd EP. Join the CRW as they tackle some great topics, album reviews and more with a blend of honesty and humor and pure RAW reactions. FEATURED MUSIC: Artist: Noah Ashton Song: Do what I do Get MORE of The HDSNCRW Podcast: ► CATCH UP on What You Missed: https://open.spotify.com/show/5CRBI9L4kzlTqouuknPuLp?si=LzQGetNERIKCc6qxboatsw&…
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Welcome to the 50th EP. Join the CRW as they take a moment to reflect on Virgil Abloh's passing and his effect of Hip hop culture as a whole. Prayers to all of those who are affected and condolences to Virgil's family and close friend.
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Welcome to the 49th EP. Join the CRW as they tackle some great topics, album reviews and more with a blend of honesty and humor and pure RAW reactions. FEATURED MUSIC: Artist: Ellery Bonham Song: I cant love you anymore Album: Quarterlife Blur
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This is Why you don’t CHEAT on your BARBER
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1:12:42Welcome to Part 1 of the 48th EP, Join the CRW in welcoming the top barber in Irvington, Newark and all of New Jersey Jeff. As he take detail his path to success and growing pains while doing so. And of course it wouldn't be the CRW if they tackle some great topics and more with a blend of honesty and humor and pure RAW reactions.…
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Welcome to the 47th EP. Join the CRW in welcoming one of the hottest MC's in New Jersey, Malc. As he take us on a road to how he found his love for music and and what shaped his to be the artist he is today. And of course it wouldn't be the CRW if they tackle some great topics, album reviews and more with a blend of honesty and humor and pure RAW r…
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Welcome to the 46th EP. Join the CRW as they tackle some great topics, album reviews and more with a blend of honesty and humor and pure RAW reactions. Time Stamps; (3:32) Rah Test Positive, (15:42) Donda, (29:45) Soulja Boy rant, (47:30) Drake CLB, (51:38) Kendrick Lamar, (1:00:13) Jake Paul , (1:01:00) Brownsville Bully (1:03:40) Sha'carri comes …
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Welcome to the 44th EP !!!!! Join the CRW as they tackle some great topics, album reviews and more with a blend of honesty and humor and pure RAW reactions. Get MORE of The HDSNCRW Podcast: ► CATCH UP on What You Missed: https://open.spotify.com/show/5CRBI9L4kzlTqouuknPuLp?si=LzQGetNERIKCc6qxboatsw&dl_branch=1 ► FOLLOW us on Instagram: https://www.…
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(3:54) Metal health, (6:19) Unconscious bad teachings, (13:03)car running on henny, (21:15) Child support,(27:23) welfare, (32:50) Men's mental health/ presence,(36:07) Being a father/Dad,(46:43) to succeed you must fail, (53:19) youth want jobs and education not marriage and kids, (1:02:12) Jackie Chan/Understanding your purpose, (1:18:12) Rated R…
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(5:16) Ownership, (6:35) Financing women lifestyles, (21:32) Chris Brown & Tory Lanez joint album, (27:05) Drug use in Music, (35:02) Slime Language album Review , (40:14) Big Draco influence on Music , (44:29) Kamila Harris speaks on racist nature of the country, (46:22) Dr. Umar outlandish views, (59:49) South Africa Gentrification/ Miner…
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Welcome to the 41st EP of the Hdsncrw Podcast. Join the CRW as the tackle a range of topics including reliving some of there memories of DMX and arsenal of others. THANK YOU ALL FOR YOU SUPPORT Featured Music: https://www.instagram.com/jody_mackk/ Artist: Jody Mackk Song: Sweet Love https://www.instagram.com/eeezypapi/ Artist: Eeezy Song: UNRELEASE…
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The CRW back to drop the 40th installment to the podcast. We hope ya'll enjoy. Featured Music: https://www.instagram.com/bigkn0ts_/ Artist: Big Kn0t$ Song: Mustang https://instagram.com/notoriouskiamo?igshid=pknep1u2dldy Artist: Kiamo Song: Unpredictable https://instagram.com/unknown_6lack_official?igshid=1ryptsbvn9q44 Artist: Unknown_6lack Song: r…
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Feature Music: Artist: CurcialBGR Song: Take off! Album: Big Bad 3! Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hdsncrwpodcast/ Catch us on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5CRBI9L4kzlTqouuknPuLp
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(4:38)Tom Brady (15:11)back from injury's too soon (20:05) Rigged Super Bowl (23:35) half time performances (27:15) Fatboy OnlyFans (36:49) Spank Bank (40:30) Paying for puxxy (44:24) toxic women Feature Music: Artist: 5an Song: S&D Album: Chrome Dreams
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It is 2021 a new year but the CRW keep it business as usual. Join the CRW as they give their views on some of the most hot topics and defend their view points. Thank you all for the continuous support. Music Artist: Darryl J. Song: Real love PT.1
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(2:59)Rah Covid Scare, (14:24) Vaccines, (28:20)Growing up in projects, (36:13)NLE Choppa, (38:53) Violence in Music, (48:37) Jeezy vs Gucci, (53:22) Nate Robinson, (1:09:20) No Ceilings 3, (1:22:08) Young Thug, (1:35:08) Birdman Mussy, (1:51:05) Dave Chapelle Music Artist: Unknown_6lack Song: Strange Feelings Artist: EEEZY Song: Sometimes Album: T…
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