7 Unscripted Questions from My Bonus Son – A Special Fatherhood Episode with Abe the Positive Kid-Audio

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What happens when a child takes control of the podcast mic? In this special episode of 15 Minutes with Dad, the tables are turned as my bonus son Abe (the Positive Kid) interviews me with seven questions I hadn't seen beforehand. No scripts, no preparation—just raw, honest conversation between father and son.
Our discussion quickly moves beyond surface-level pleasantries into profound territory. When asked what family means to me, I share how true family relationships transcend blood ties, centering on loving someone for who they want to become rather than just who they are today. Abe's brilliantly simple definition—someone who cares about you and who you care about in return—reminds us that sometimes children grasp life's most complex concepts with striking clarity.
The most unexpected revelation comes when I explain how Abe himself has helped me heal parts of my own childhood. Through parenting him since he was seven, I've reconnected with my inner child who experienced trauma and fear at the same age. Seeing Abe's light, joy, and exploratory spirit has allowed me to nurture the childhood self I wish I could have been—a healing journey I wasn't emotionally prepared for in previous relationships.
Using the metaphor of a tether rope from a space game we once played, I explain how healthy families provide the crucial anchoring that keeps us grounded while giving us freedom to explore the world. When Abe asks how I feel about being his stepfather, I share that it's one of life's greatest honors. His response—that he sees me as his "real father" because I care about him and set boundaries for his protection—brings our conversation full circle, demonstrating that meaningful family bonds aren't created by DNA but through consistent love, presence, and mutual growth.
Whether you're a stepparent, biological parent, or someone stepping up for a child who's not biologically yours, this conversation celebrates the power of chosen family and the profound connections we can build through honesty, vulnerability, and simply being available. Subscribe to hear more conversations about real fatherhood and personal growth, and check out Abe the Positive Kid on YouTube for his insightful content for children and adu

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Chapters

1. 7 Unscripted Questions from My Bonus Son – A Special Fatherhood Episode with Abe the Positive Kid-Audio (00:00:00)

2. Episode Introduction (00:01:42)

3. What Family Means To Us (00:02:59)

4. Learning Through Financial Struggles (00:06:01)

5. Opening Doors of Opportunity (00:11:07)

6. Why Family Keeps Us Grounded (00:15:46)

7. Being A Plus Dad (00:19:07)

8. A Son's Honest Perspective (00:22:29)