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Lessons from an Unexpected Season: Stories of Hope with Mary Beth Powers
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Mary Beth Powers never expected to become a caregiver during what should have been her freedom-filled empty nester years. Instead, she found herself stretched between caring for her husband with Meniere's disease at home and her mother-in-law who lived 45 minutes away. The physical distance created practical challenges that were amplified during COVID when quarantine protocols meant she couldn't return home after providing care.
The breaking point came when both loved ones needed 24-hour care simultaneously. In a raw moment of desperation, Mary Beth found herself in a laundry room, sobbing and questioning God about the fairness of her situation. It was there she heard His gentle voice: "I just need you to be my hands and feet in this moment." This divine encounter didn't remove her challenges but gave them profound meaning, transforming her perspective from self-focused frustration to purpose-driven service.
One of the most beautiful moments emerged when Mary Beth, who had once dreamed of becoming a hairdresser, found herself styling her mother-in-law's soft white hair. This simple act created an unexpected bridge between them, deepening a relationship that had previously been somewhat distant. Meanwhile, Mary Beth watched in amazement as her adult children—all newlyweds beginning their own families—stepped up to support both her and their grandmother in remarkable ways.
The greatest wisdom Mary Beth gained was recognizing that caregiving was never about her comfort or convenience. She learned that running to Jesus first, being honest about difficult emotions without placing blame, and focusing on the person needing care rather than personal inconvenience made all the difference. Mary Beth encourages caregivers to give themselves grace while remembering that God meets us perfectly in our imperfections. Connect with Mary Beth at marybethpowers.com or follow her on Instagram @girlbestill to learn more about her ministry.
Chapters
1. Lessons from an Unexpected Season: Stories of Hope with Mary Beth Powers (00:00:00)
2. Navigating Dual Caregiving Responsibilities (00:01:08)
3. Challenges and Emotional Struggles (00:02:16)
4. The Hair Salon Moment (00:05:16)
5. Family Support and Surprises (00:09:27)
6. Finding God in the Laundry Room (00:13:52)
7. Living Without Caregiving Regrets (00:17:02)
8. Advice for Fellow Caregivers (00:20:53)
217 episodes
Manage episode 477555277 series 2859854
Mary Beth Powers never expected to become a caregiver during what should have been her freedom-filled empty nester years. Instead, she found herself stretched between caring for her husband with Meniere's disease at home and her mother-in-law who lived 45 minutes away. The physical distance created practical challenges that were amplified during COVID when quarantine protocols meant she couldn't return home after providing care.
The breaking point came when both loved ones needed 24-hour care simultaneously. In a raw moment of desperation, Mary Beth found herself in a laundry room, sobbing and questioning God about the fairness of her situation. It was there she heard His gentle voice: "I just need you to be my hands and feet in this moment." This divine encounter didn't remove her challenges but gave them profound meaning, transforming her perspective from self-focused frustration to purpose-driven service.
One of the most beautiful moments emerged when Mary Beth, who had once dreamed of becoming a hairdresser, found herself styling her mother-in-law's soft white hair. This simple act created an unexpected bridge between them, deepening a relationship that had previously been somewhat distant. Meanwhile, Mary Beth watched in amazement as her adult children—all newlyweds beginning their own families—stepped up to support both her and their grandmother in remarkable ways.
The greatest wisdom Mary Beth gained was recognizing that caregiving was never about her comfort or convenience. She learned that running to Jesus first, being honest about difficult emotions without placing blame, and focusing on the person needing care rather than personal inconvenience made all the difference. Mary Beth encourages caregivers to give themselves grace while remembering that God meets us perfectly in our imperfections. Connect with Mary Beth at marybethpowers.com or follow her on Instagram @girlbestill to learn more about her ministry.
Chapters
1. Lessons from an Unexpected Season: Stories of Hope with Mary Beth Powers (00:00:00)
2. Navigating Dual Caregiving Responsibilities (00:01:08)
3. Challenges and Emotional Struggles (00:02:16)
4. The Hair Salon Moment (00:05:16)
5. Family Support and Surprises (00:09:27)
6. Finding God in the Laundry Room (00:13:52)
7. Living Without Caregiving Regrets (00:17:02)
8. Advice for Fellow Caregivers (00:20:53)
217 episodes
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