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When Seeing the Good in Others Becomes Self Abandonment
Manage episode 482366702 series 3371936
If you’ve ever obsessed over someone’s potential while ignoring the patterns and reality, this episode is for you.
We’re unpacking a hard truth today: sometimes, “seeing the good” is a trauma response and self-abandoment...and it causes more rumination!
In this episode, I break down:
- Why abuse survivors are wired to overlook red flags and overanalyze behavior
- How attachment wounds wire you to be okay with inconsistency and crumbs
- How “people can change” keeps you trapped in cognitive dissonance
- The subconscious link between your childhood wounds and adult rumination
- Why your brain clings to answers and why those answers won’t actually set you free
Listen through and I'm giving you a powerful reframe to shift out of this cycle, and one practice you can start using today to come back to clarity and self-trust.
✨ Want to go deeper? Grab my Break Free from Rumination course for just $15. It’s a bite-sized, high-impact tool to stop obsessive thinking and start feeling peace finally. Get it here -- https://www.radiatenrise.com/break-free-from-rumination-online-course
Email: [email protected]
Join Radiate and Rise Together - Survivor Healing Community for Women
Complementary Consultation to see if my coaching programs are a fit for you
To send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on
Instagram and Facebook
https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
To learn more about my Programs visit the website
www.radiatenrise.com
*Formerly (The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast)
166 episodes
Manage episode 482366702 series 3371936
If you’ve ever obsessed over someone’s potential while ignoring the patterns and reality, this episode is for you.
We’re unpacking a hard truth today: sometimes, “seeing the good” is a trauma response and self-abandoment...and it causes more rumination!
In this episode, I break down:
- Why abuse survivors are wired to overlook red flags and overanalyze behavior
- How attachment wounds wire you to be okay with inconsistency and crumbs
- How “people can change” keeps you trapped in cognitive dissonance
- The subconscious link between your childhood wounds and adult rumination
- Why your brain clings to answers and why those answers won’t actually set you free
Listen through and I'm giving you a powerful reframe to shift out of this cycle, and one practice you can start using today to come back to clarity and self-trust.
✨ Want to go deeper? Grab my Break Free from Rumination course for just $15. It’s a bite-sized, high-impact tool to stop obsessive thinking and start feeling peace finally. Get it here -- https://www.radiatenrise.com/break-free-from-rumination-online-course
Email: [email protected]
Join Radiate and Rise Together - Survivor Healing Community for Women
Complementary Consultation to see if my coaching programs are a fit for you
To send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on
Instagram and Facebook
https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
To learn more about my Programs visit the website
www.radiatenrise.com
*Formerly (The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast)
166 episodes
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