Episode 65: Communication as a Dance Rather Than an Algorithmic Formula

Behind Beliefs, Behaviors and The Brain: Your Communication Podcast

In this episode, I’ll walk you through simple yet powerful tips on how to truly listen with your body, understand your emotions, and communicate more clearly. I’ll share how communication is much like a dance, where listening, emotional awareness, and flexibility play a huge role in creating trust and connection. Tune in and learn how small changes in how you communicate can make a big difference in how you connect with others.

Key Takeaways:

Communication is like dancing – In salsa dancing, both people have to trust each other, listen closely, and stay in sync. The same goes for having a good conversation. It’s not about one person leading all the time. It’s about working together, paying attention to each other, and adjusting your steps along the way.

Listening is more than just using your ears – When we think of listening, we usually think about hearing words. But real listening means using more than just your ears. It means watching someone’s face, their hands, and how they move to how they say things.

There’s no perfect script for talking – Following rigid steps can make communication feel robotic. The best way to communicate is to be yourself, stay present, and respond naturally to the moment. That means paying attention to how the other person is feeling and adjusting how you speak based on what’s happening right now.

Helpful Resources:

• What makes you a better communicator? – Being emotionally smart When you can recognize and understand your own feelings, it helps you talk in a way that builds trust and connection, especially when things get tense. This is called emotional intelligence.

• A bigger vocabulary leads to better conversations – Knowing more ways to ask questions and express thoughts helps keep conversations open and respectful. It allows you to guide tough conversations without shutting others down.

Notable Highlights:

"Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize what's going on in our body. It gives us a bit of behavioral flexibility inside of the communication."

"The most effective communicators actually dance inside of the interaction."

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