BeTempered Episode 64 – Why Vulnerability Changes Everything

BeTempered

Strength isn't pretending everything's fine—it’s having the courage to be real about what’s hard.
On Episode 64 of BeTempered, hosts Dan Schmidt and Ben Spahr open up about how this podcast has become a journey of transformation through vulnerability—for themselves and for the community it’s building.

From a young age, especially as men, we’re taught to suppress emotion, to “man up,” and to keep going no matter what. But that kind of emotional isolation can be a heavy burden. In this episode, we challenge that narrative head-on—because the truth is, vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s a doorway to healing, connection, and real strength.

We dig into powerful biblical truths like Galatians 6:2 ("carry each other’s burdens") and 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 ("when I am weak, then I am strong"), and we share stories that prove how honesty changes lives—from Kevin Love’s mental health advocacy to a recent men’s rite of passage event where Dan witnessed how 18 men sharing their stories led one man to seek help and enter rehab.

If you’ve ever felt unsure about opening up—or wondered if your story matters—this conversation is for you. Your vulnerability might just be the permission someone else needs to begin their own healing journey.

Learn more at www.betempered.com
Let’s keep choosing courage over comfort—together.

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Chapters

1. Introduction to Be Tempered (00:00:00)

2. Vulnerability vs. Weakness (00:01:49)

3. The Healing Power of Sharing Stories (00:05:39)

4. Biblical Perspective on Vulnerability (00:08:51)

5. Real-Life Examples of Brave Vulnerability (00:11:43)

6. Final Challenge and Sign-off (00:16:01)