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it’s the spice of life.

— (1:25) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center
— (6:10) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality
— (7:56) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center
— (14:25) Frustration doesn’t give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having
— (16:58) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships
— (24:13) Everyone’s shitting on the thing they most want
— (31:57) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion’
— (39:27) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you’re not a person if you don’t hate something
— (42:16) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone’s personhood
— (52:57) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies
— (55:13) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms
— (1:00:50) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction

Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, 8w7 vs 8w9, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

Help us fund new equipment here:
venmo - @bighormone
https://paypal.me/bighormone

Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

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it’s the spice of life.

— (1:25) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center
— (6:10) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality
— (7:56) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center
— (14:25) Frustration doesn’t give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having
— (16:58) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships
— (24:13) Everyone’s shitting on the thing they most want
— (31:57) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion’
— (39:27) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you’re not a person if you don’t hate something
— (42:16) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone’s personhood
— (52:57) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies
— (55:13) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms
— (1:00:50) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction

Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, 8w7 vs 8w9, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:
https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

Help us fund new equipment here:
venmo - @bighormone
https://paypal.me/bighormone

Call the nota4 hotline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

  continue reading

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