208. The Transfer of Power: A Smart Strategy for Stepparents Left in Charge

Blended Family Breakthrough

In this episode, we share a practical and powerful strategy to help step-parents confidently navigate solo time with their stepchildren.

Whether you're a biological parent or a step-parent, this episode is for you! You'll discover how preparation, communication, and teamwork can transform tension into opportunities for connection.

The key? A simple but often overlooked strategy called the Transfer of Power. You don't want to 'wing it' when flying solo with step-kids — instead, be smart and plan for success.

You'll Discover:

• Why solo time can trigger anxiety, fear, or dread for step-parents
• How the "Transfer of Power" can set the step-parent up for success - and the critical role of the bio-parent
• Steps to prepare beforehand: Anticipate tension, plan for fun, and discuss expectations
• How to manage yourself and the kids during solo time — without power struggles
• Simple strategies to stay calm and set kind, clear boundaries
• How to reflect as a couple and make improvements for next time

Resources from this Episode:

• Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's Kids
• Episode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting: Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1 of 2)
• Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1 of 2)
• Episode 158. An Effective Stepparenting Approach Focused on What Works - and What Doesn't
• Episode 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and Hurt
• Episode 85. How to Uniquely Build More Love and Connection in Your Blended Family [with Ron Deal]
• Episode 37. Why do kids struggle to accept their stepparent?
• Episode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Stepkids

Ready for some extra support?

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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