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50. How Do I Handle Well-Meaning (but Hurtful) Comments About Being Childless?

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In today's episode, we dive into an important topic many childless women face: how to handle well-meaning but hurtful comments about not having children. From classic lines like “Don’t worry, it’ll happen” to “Who will take care of you when you’re old?”, these remarks—though often made with good intentions—can still sting deeply.

I share my personal perspective on how to respond with grace, compassion, and self-awareness, depending on who the conversation is with—be it an older relative, a close friend, or someone simply being insensitive.

What you'll learn:

  • Why people say things that unintentionally hurt—and how cultural norms often play a role
  • How to tailor your response based on the person and the situation
  • Practical phrases to use when you don’t want to explain your entire story
  • The importance of setting emotional boundaries while staying grounded in self-compassion
  • A powerful mindset shift: why your reaction to comments often reflects your own emotional state
  • How to turn hurtful moments into an opportunity for self-reflection and healing

Connect with Elizabeth:

IG: @bychanceavenue

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63 episodes

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Content provided by Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

In today's episode, we dive into an important topic many childless women face: how to handle well-meaning but hurtful comments about not having children. From classic lines like “Don’t worry, it’ll happen” to “Who will take care of you when you’re old?”, these remarks—though often made with good intentions—can still sting deeply.

I share my personal perspective on how to respond with grace, compassion, and self-awareness, depending on who the conversation is with—be it an older relative, a close friend, or someone simply being insensitive.

What you'll learn:

  • Why people say things that unintentionally hurt—and how cultural norms often play a role
  • How to tailor your response based on the person and the situation
  • Practical phrases to use when you don’t want to explain your entire story
  • The importance of setting emotional boundaries while staying grounded in self-compassion
  • A powerful mindset shift: why your reaction to comments often reflects your own emotional state
  • How to turn hurtful moments into an opportunity for self-reflection and healing

Connect with Elizabeth:

IG: @bychanceavenue

Stay connected & up to date with all things By Chance

Want to share your story? Apply to be a guest!

  continue reading

63 episodes

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