027 | Rashelle L - Who Even Am I Anymore?

Can We Fkn Talk?

In this episode of Can We Fkn Talk?, I sit down with the incredible Rashelle Leahy - mum of three, business owner, and owner of Intuitive Mummas. Rashelle shares her powerful journey of becoming a parent at 22, navigating life overseas, and the identity shifts that come with Motherhood. We get real about letting go of expectations, feeling lost, and finding ourselves again beyond the "Mum" label.

We explore how identity evolves, the pressures of societal norms, and why it’s crucial to give yourself permission to do things your own way. Rashelle opens up about her own turning point, the power of boundaries, building a village (even if it looks different), and how reclaiming joy outside of Motherhood transformed how she shows up in every area of her life.

If you've ever thought, "Who even am I anymore?" or struggled with Mum guilt when prioritising yourself - this episode will feel like a warm, judgement-free hug. You’re not alone. This is your permission slip to explore who you are beyond parenting.

Connect with Rashelle:

https://www.instagram.com/intuitivemummas/

https://intuitivemummas.com.au/

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Chapters

1. Intro & Welcome Rashelle (00:00:00)

2. Identity Loss & The Pressure of Expectations (00:01:12)

3. Finding What Works (00:03:41)

4. Redefining Your Village (00:07:06)

5. Turning Points in Identity Rediscovery (00:15:54)

6. Nervous System, Stress & Self-Regulation (00:28:35)

7. Being Authentic in Family Life (00:33:31)

8. Values-Based Decision Making (00:35:23)

9. Intuitive Mummas & Supporting Mums (00:41:43)

10. Closing Thoughts (00:47:38)