98: What Your Jealousy Says About the Life You’re Not Living

Choose To Become With Lindsey Cacy

Let’s talk about her—the woman who triggered you on Instagram. The one living the life you say you want but secretly side-eye. In this episode of Choose To Become, we’re getting real about jealousy—not to judge it, but to mine it. Because jealousy? She’s not the villain. She’s the mirror. And what she reflects are the parts of you that are craving more… but you’ve been too afraid to admit it.

We’re unpacking why your nervous system feels threatened by someone else’s shine, and how to stop making your envy mean you’re behind, broken, or bad. Instead, I’ll show you how to turn it into fuel—for embodiment, empowerment, and bold-ass self-permission.

This is your wake-up call to stop playing small and start listening to what your jealousy is actually asking for: more of you.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Jealousy and Self-Reflection

02:47 Understanding Jealousy as a Mirror

06:09 The Role of the Nervous System in Jealousy

09:11 Tools for Transforming Jealousy into Curiosity

12:02 Reclaiming Your Power and Permission

15:05 Invitation to Personal Growth and Masterclass

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Keywords

jealousy, self-reflection, personal growth, empowerment, self-awareness, emotional healing, nervous system, transformation, self-permission, comparison