Living a Life of Joy // It's Time to Start Enjoying Your Life, Part 4

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Jesus promised us His complete and perfect and abundant joy. Problem is – there are so many things that want to rob us of that joy.

A Man of Sorrows

I’m not sure what you’re doing today or what you have planned for the next half hour or so, but right now I want to encourage you to spend some time with me because this week on the programme we are going to look at what it is to live a life of joy. And I truly believe that it’s no coincidence that you and I together right now.

I know a least one person who doesn’t want you to hear what God has to say about "joy" today, because it could transform your life and that’s the last thing the devil wants for you. There is real power in God’s Word; real power. So why don’t you join me in this last programme in a series that I’ve called, "It’s Time to Start Enjoying My Life".

Joy can be a difficult concept to come to grips with. Most people in their lives have pressures and strains and some relationships that hurt and perhaps some money problems. I had an email recently from a woman who had been in a difficult situation for a number of years and as much as she had prayed, God simply hadn’t changed the situation. We all have stuff in our lives and somehow that stuff seems to rob us of our joy and we seem powerless to do anything about it.

We can look right across every part of our lives and things may be going really well everywhere except in this one little area, maybe our health is great, maybe family’s good, works all good except we have money worries or everything is good except this teenager in our family is giving us grief. You know what I mean! My point is that each one of us can point to something in our life today and say, "See, that’s why I don’t have any joy in my life."

Today, as I said, we are looking at the last message in a series of four programmes called, "It’s Time to Start Enjoying My Life". This message is a rather "hits the road" message – it’s about living the life of joy. This half hour may be one of the best investments in your life that you will ever make.

Over the last three weeks, we’ve been joining the Apostle Paul in his Roman dungeon on death row. He wrote a letter to his friends, the Philippians. It’s a book in the New Testament, only a few pages long. It’s a letter of great encouragement, encouraging them in their faith. And the central thing, the whole point of this letter is about joy – that deep, abiding joy that Jesus promised and died to give us. And yes, I know that can be hard to come to grips with when we have something in our lives that seems to be robbing us of joy.

Last week I shared with you the promises that Jesus made on His last night with his disciples before He was crucified – the promises He made about joy. Now let’s just go there again and read them and let the Spirit of God write those promises on our hearts today.

On that last evening together with His disciples before He was to be crucified, He talks so much about joy. What an odd time and place to do that! He is about to die, His disciples are afraid and Jesus talks about joy. Have a listen. John chapter 15:11:

I have told you this so that My joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

And again, John chapter 16, beginning at verse 20:

I tell you the truth; you will weep and mourn while the world rejoices. You will grieve but your grief will turn to joy. A women giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come but when the baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. So it will be with you.

Now is your time for grief but I will see you again and you will rejoice and no one will take away your joy. In that day you will no longer ask Me anything. I tell you the truth, My Father will give you whatever you ask in My name. Until now you have not asked for anything in My name. Ask and you will receive and your joy will be complete.

And in His final prayer before He is crucified He prays “Father, I am coming to you now but I say all these things while I’m still in the world so that they may have the full measure of My joy within them."

Jesus is talking about joy not about the sort of warm and fuzzy we get when we go to the shop and buy some nice new thing. There is a clear distinction between the happiness of this world and the joy of the Lord and as if to draw a clear line between the two, He talks so much about the joy of God so close to his brutal crucifixion. And you know, it’s interesting in the same way, Paul talks about joy in the midst of his sorrows as if to underscore the point that Jesus was making: that the joy of the Lord isn’t something that depends on our circumstances. Have a listen to the very human words of Paul from his letter to the Philippians chapter 2, beginning at verse 25. It’s really a very human letter. He says:

I think it’s necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus, my brother, fellow worker and fellow soldier who is also your messenger whom you sent to care for my needs. He longs for all of you and is distressed because you heard he was sick. Indeed he was, he almost died but God had mercy on him and not only on him but me too – to spare me sorrow upon sorrow. Therefore, I am all the more eager to send him to you so that when you see him again you may be glad and may have less anxiety. Welcome him in the Lord with great joy and honour men like him because he almost died for the “work of Christ, risking his life to make up for the help you couldn’t give me. Finally, my brothers, rejoice in the Lord.

See, I love this passage. Paul is a guy, he is in jail, he’s got friends he is writing to, he has this friend, Epaphroditus, who almost died but God spared the man’s life and spared Paul sorrow upon sorrow. You know, it’s easy to idealise Paul and think, ‘WOW, you know, this guy wrote almost half of the New Testament but in his life he had sorrow upon sorrow. People tried to kill him, there were riots when he preached, he had disappointments when he was prevented from going to places he wanted to go, he was ship wrecked, he was beaten, now he is imprisoned on death row, people are taunting him – other Christians. This man had sorrow after sorrow and yet still he writes, "Rejoice in the Lord, my brothers."

I think God’s trying to tell us something through Paul: that our circumstances are no excuse for not experiencing God’s joy. But how do we overcome those? Well, we are going to take a look at what God has to say about that next.

Rejoice in the Lord

Now let’s pick up here with Paul in the dungeon and look at what it means to live a life of joy. The passage we are about to look at is perhaps one that you know really well. This passage is about making the rubber hit the road. This passage tells us how it is that we can have the joy of the Lord no matter what circumstances we find ourselves in. This passage is a jewel. Open your Bible, come with me to Philippians chapter 4, beginning at verse 4. Come, let’s have a read:

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again, I say rejoice. Let your gentleness be known to all. The Lord is at hand. Don’t be anxious about anything but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God and the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

It’s a wondrous passage – just four little verses. We are going to look at each one separately now; really unpack this. You know I think the more familiar we are with a passage, well, the more we kind of just skim over it. "Oh yea, I know that one, I’ve read it before." Well, let’s not do that this time; let’s see what the Holy Spirit is saying to each one of us here in His Word. Let’s look at the first verse, Philippians chapter 4, verse 4:

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice.

Have you ever wonder about the difference between the two words "joy" on the one hand and "rejoice" on the other? Well, "joy" is the thing that Jesus bought for us on the cross; joy is the thing that Jesus wants to give us. But "rejoicing" is what we do with that "joy" when we enter into that joy; when we take the decision that says, “YES, His promise is for me. You know something? I am going to live in that joy and I am going to rejoice. I am going to praise Him, I’m going to thank Him.”

See, this verse is the punch line of the whole Book of Philippians. It’s what Paul is saying, in a nutshell, from his dungeon. "I am going to enter into God’s joy always in all circumstances, rejoice in the Lord always. And I’m deciding right here and right now, that I am going to live a life of joy always." And just in case we missed it, he said it twice:

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice.

Wake up! Jesus promise of joy is for you and for me. But how do we rejoice? Well, the next verse opens the door to joy. It’s a verse about humility. We talked last week on the programme about how our sin, particularly the sin of pride and scheming and all that stuff we know is wrong, robs us of the joy of the Lord. Verse 5, chapter 4 of Philippians, Paul writes:

Let your gentleness be known to all for the Lord is near.

The Greek word that sits aback of that word "gentleness" means "moderation, patience" – it’s a word of humility. No humility, no joy!

We go racing around full of ourselves – self-centred, self-seeking, self-absorbed, treading on people to achieve our ends. There can be no joy in that. Come on! If we have Jesus in us, the Lord is near. There’s fruit that comes out of that – love, joy peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control – let that fruit grow. Why? Because Jesus is in this place. It’s time to let the Spirit of God have sway in our lives – complete control – because He has arrived.

If we don’t get this bit … this bit is about obedience, there will be no joy. I can’t live my life my way and then expect Jesus to show up and bless me with His joy. "Oh, ok, ok, Berni," I hear you thinking to yourself, "but how do I live in that joy when there are so many things out there that want to rob me of the joy? I can hear the theory: the joy of the Lord doesn’t depend on my circumstances, but how do I actually live that? How do I actually experience that?"

Well, the next verse tell us, verse 6:

Do not be anxious about anything but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

I don’t know, it seems too simple to be true. Take it to God in prayer, ask Him and thank Him, “Present your requests to God”. See, the temptation is to look for a solution everywhere else other than with God.

You know, when I get up in the morning, my normal routine – I get up reasonably early – and my first thing is, after I have a shower, a cup of tea, I sit down with the Lord and I pray and I read the Word and just spend time with Him. You know what the temptation is? The temptation is to go and check my emails and see who has emailed me from around the world.

This is where the rubber hits the road. We need to take our lives to God first. Any problem, any issue, any need, don’t be anxious about it; don’t run around in a flap about it but “in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, take your requests to God."

Let’s say your husband or your wife is going through a difficult patch – there’s a blind spot; they can’t see it but you can and so it’s affecting your relationship; it’s affecting both of you but every time you talk about it, it ends up in an argument. What do you do? Give them the cold and silent treatment? Go and talk to a friend? Just try and sweep it under the carpet?

OR, every day, do you spend time with the Lord? "God, thank You for putting me is this position. Lord, thank You so much that I can pray and thank You that I can be faithful to my wife or my husband and just love them through this. Lord, give me the strength and the wisdom, give me the gentleness; show me how I can change. Lord, bless my wife; Lord, bless my husband, open their heart by Your Spirit."

Do you get the point? Every day, faithfully, giving thanks, rejoicing that the Lord is in that place with you and then the answer comes. Here it is. Here God tells us how it is that we can live in His joy, despite what is going on – verse 7:

And the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

You see, the joy and the peace of God are not something you and I conjure up; they’re not something that we fabricate. They’re not positive thinking; they’re not some clever "double think", where on the one hand I have troubles over here and on the other I trick my mind and emotions into a state of joy. They are none of those things – the peace and the joy of God are His gift to us. The Spirit of God comes and places His angels around our heart so that the pains and the fears that were piercing pierce it no longer.

How does that happen? Paul says, "I don’t know", it transcends all human understanding. It’s beyond human comprehension but what I can tell you is that when we decide to take God at His Word, it just happens.

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice. Let you gentleness be evident to all because Jesus is here. Don’t be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, take your requests to God and the peace of God, which passes all understanding will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

It’s just how it works!

Thinking and Doing

"WOW", isn’t God’s Word powerful and wonderful? The truth is often so simple and you and I know when we hear the truth of God’s Word it just, well, it rings true in our hearts.

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I’ll say it, rejoice. Let your gentleness be known to all for the Lord is near. Don’t be anxious about anything but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, take your requests to God and the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

But here’s so often what happens. We hear the truth and it rings in our hearts and inside we say, "YES, yes, this is what I have been looking for!" And tonight we go to bed and tomorrow we face the same old problems and issues and fears and anxieties that gnaw away in our heads. You see it takes time to change our minds; it takes time to renew our minds. And it’s when our minds are renewed that God changes our lives.

That’s what Paul writes in Romans chapter 12:1-2. He writes that we will be transformed by the renewing of our minds. See, we need to change our minds from the old way of thinking – "Oh, there is no way out. Jesus promise of joy isn’t for me. Things are never going to change" – to the new way of thinking ...

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say rejoice.

You know what I’m talking about, right? You hear this message; you get fired up; you say, "YES! It’s for me", and then all of a sudden reality sinks in and it’s like the message evaporates and it’s like, "I can’t change anything." So how do we step into this new way of thinking? How do we live life in faith according to the Word of God? How do we take the joy that Jesus promised us?

Well, just in the next few verses in Philippians, the Holy Spirit tells us. He tells us how to stop these attacks in our mind. Philippians chapter 4, beginning at verse 8:

Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure or lovely or admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about those things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me, put it into practice and the God of peace will be with you.

In other words, think about the good things from God. Thinking is how our mind spends its time. Hear that again – thinking is about how our mind spends its time – where it goes, what it does. And it’s easy to keep going round and round and round the same old mulberry bush, especially when we have something in our lives that is eating away at us. What I have decided to do in those circumstances is to take God at His Word. I’m just not going to let my mind go there.

You know, my mind is capable of grumbling and complaining and blaming people and thinking ill of them. I can get angry and wallow in self pity and when I feel my mind going there, I decide, "No, I’m just not going there, I’m going to think about Jesus. I’m going to think about the wonderful things He has done for me in my life. I’m going to think about that Scripture verse the Holy Spirit laid on my heart yesterday: There is no sense in the peace of God guarding my heart and my mind and me wandering off outside that peace and ruining my day!"

Every day I’m just going to do my best to put His Word into practice; not perfectly, mind you, just my best and I am going to rest my mind in His goodness and His Word and little by little joy and peace are going to come, no matter what is going on in my life.

The Apostle Paul learnt this through a life time of sorrows and trials and discovering the joy of the Lord in the midst of all of those. Listen to how he puts it in a nutshell. Philippians chapter 4, beginning at verse 10:

I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you have been concerned but you had no opportunity to show it. I’m not saying this because I’m in need, because you know something? I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need and I know what it is to have plenty and I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want, I can do everything through Him who strengthens me.

See, Paul is saying here that my joy does not depend on my circumstances because I have discovered when I take my needs and my fears and my hurts to God and I thank Him and I pray and I just put them at the foot of the cross, the Holy Spirit comes along and puts a joy in my heart that I just understand how it is there. It defies comprehension but God does that and He guards my heart and He guards my mind so that the attacks don’t come.

Listen to me, there’s only one place to get the joy of the Lord and it is from Him – it’s not from a friend, it’s not from something we buy, it’s not from how we work – it’s just from knowing Him and being with Him and listening to Him and letting Him do His stuff.

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again, I say rejoice!