Making Distinctions & Defining Terms

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Tools we compare in this episode -- specifically to know the “how” and “what” certain words mean to them:

Making Distinctions - differentiating between two things; comparing two concepts or ideas.

e.g., leadership vs. being a leader; community vs. relationship

Defining Terms - how the client describes a concept, term, etc.; e.g., “What do you mean by that?” or “Tell me more about that…”

Removing the “barnacles” or fillers: the extra words, context, or “scratchy bit,” that might get in a way of your question; e.g. “Help me understand...” {insert question}
Do these context pieces or summarization direct/lead our clients?
Does empathy look different in a coaching relationship?
How much can our coaching clients take in with these questions?
Bottom line: Shut up, and just ask the direct question
Mirroring behavior: “Emotions are real!”
Setting the tone with coaching clients to bring them up/down/even
Bottom lining: when a client is giving too much context, etc. to redirect the client
Checking in with clients: Just to say “Hi, How are you?”
Peeling back the onion in the “murky middle” of a coaching session
Put on your “opportunity overalls” -- let’s get to work!
Self-reflection tool for making distinction
Do we not spend enough time thinking about words?

Book:

Finding Your Why by Simon Sinek

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Want to learn more about coaching? Have a question or topic we should discuss? Let us know!

Follow the pod on Twitter: @CoachingThruIt & Instagram: @CoachingThruIt

Email us at: coachingthroughit@gmail.com

Connect to the hosts: @laurapasquini & @julieclarsen

Music credit: The song reCreation by airtone has been remixed under a CC-BY license.

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#Careers #Business #Podcasting Education #Laura Pasquini & Julie Larsen #Coaching #Learn #Coaching And Training #Reflections #Practice

Making Distinctions & Defining Terms

Coaching Through It

published 5 years ago

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Tools we compare in this episode -- specifically to know the “how” and “what” certain words mean to them:

Making Distinctions - differentiating between two things; comparing two concepts or ideas.

e.g., leadership vs. being a leader; community vs. relationship

Defining Terms - how the client describes a concept, term, etc.; e.g., “What do you mean by that?” or “Tell me more about that…”

Removing the “barnacles” or fillers: the extra words, context, or “scratchy bit,” that might get in a way of your question; e.g. “Help me understand...” {insert question}
Do these context pieces or summarization direct/lead our clients?
Does empathy look different in a coaching relationship?
How much can our coaching clients take in with these questions?
Bottom line: Shut up, and just ask the direct question
Mirroring behavior: “Emotions are real!”
Setting the tone with coaching clients to bring them up/down/even
Bottom lining: when a client is giving too much context, etc. to redirect the client
Checking in with clients: Just to say “Hi, How are you?”
Peeling back the onion in the “murky middle” of a coaching session
Put on your “opportunity overalls” -- let’s get to work!
Self-reflection tool for making distinction
Do we not spend enough time thinking about words?

Book:

Finding Your Why by Simon Sinek

-----

Want to learn more about coaching? Have a question or topic we should discuss? Let us know!

Follow the pod on Twitter: @CoachingThruIt & Instagram: @CoachingThruIt

Email us at: coachingthroughit@gmail.com

Connect to the hosts: @laurapasquini & @julieclarsen

Music credit: The song reCreation by airtone has been remixed under a CC-BY license.

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#Careers #Business #Podcasting Education #Laura Pasquini & Julie Larsen #Coaching #Learn #Coaching And Training #Reflections #Practice

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In this @CoachingThruIt episode, Julie and Laura chat about pivoting from advising, helping, and mentoring to not be a problem-solver. We unpack the phrase we are told in our coach training: “Coach the Client, Not the Problem.” We join our coaching clients on their journey -- so we talk about our triggers that might “helper” tendency, to listen to how we are thinking about coaching clients to empower them to reach their own answers and identify their own solutions. The “How can I help?” question allows coaching clients to talk out needs & support Avoid giving the hack or solution to the client How much more powerful is the solution or direction if the client says it themself? Allowing clients to talk out loud ideas, issues, and actualizations Every coaching session “success” metric might look different or show up later Allow for reflections & takeaways from the client at the end of each session Change Talk: “What if …?” and “What would this look like?” Motivational Interviewing (episode to come) Removing Barnacles: get rid of the context and just ask the short and direct question. “Just so I understand…” or “Out of curiosity…” Powerful questions for family, friends or peers: “What would you do to solve this right now?” or “What do you want the outcome to be?” or “I have some ideas… but what do you think we should do first?” Empowering others to solve their own problems Coaching Presence: Holding space: coaches are “team you” to sit with clients during the decision-making process and tough conversations around your goals/interests/ideas “Sit on Your Hands” to allow for patience Coach responses: “Hmmmm” or “Mmmmm” + head tilt or nod Books & Learnings: The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier Start Finishing by Charlie Gilkey Tell Me More by Kelly Corrigan NPR Life Kit https://www.npr.org/lifekit ----- Want to learn more about coaching? Have a question or topic we should discuss? Let us know! Follow the pod on Twitter: @CoachingThruIt & Instagram: @CoachingThruIt Email us at: coachingthroughit@gmail.com Connect to the hosts: @laurapasquini & @julieclarsen Music credit: The song reCreation by airtone has been remixed under a CC-BY license.…

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