Building Your Personal Village: A New Approach to Aging Solo

Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula

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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, I’m joined by Steve Gurney, founder of the Positive Aging Community, for a practical conversation about what it means to age solo and why none of us are truly alone in this journey.

More and more people are navigating aging without a spouse, children, or close family nearby. But solo aging isn’t just about who’s in your life; it’s about how you prepare, connect, and create a circle of support that reflects your values. Steve introduces the concept of a “personal village,” and we talk about how building this kind of intentional community can bring care, meaning, purpose, and peace of mind.

Together, we explore:

• Why the idea of “solo aging” affects more of us than we think
• How to take small but powerful steps to build your support system
• What to consider when choosing a healthcare or financial proxy
• The role of aging life care managers and how they can help
• How life planning can deepen, not dampen, how we live now

This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered, “Who will be there for me?” and those ready to answer that question with care, clarity, and courage. Whether you’re aging alone, caregiving for a parent, or simply rethinking your own future, I hope this conversation offers you encouragement and tools to move forward with confidence.

Links/Resources

• Guest: Steve Gurney – https://www.retirementlivingsourcebook.com
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website – https://www.comfortingclosure.com
• Aging Life Care Association – https://www.aginglifecare.org
• Co-housing Communities – https://www.cohousing.org

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