Overthinking, Perfectionism, and the Pressure to Be Enough with Mary Marantz

Confidence and Coffee

This week on Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with bestselling author Mary Marantz to talk about what it really means to stop playing small, face your fears, and trust God and yourself. 💥

Mary opens up about her story—from growing up in a single-wide trailer to attending Yale Law School—and how her latest book Underestimated helps women finally stop self-sabotaging and start walking boldly in their God-given calling.

We talk about:

• Why fear is a boring liar with the same recycled lies
• The hidden dangers of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and imposter syndrome
• Why trusting God also means learning to trust yourself again
• How trauma creates false safety in chaos—and how to rewrite that
• What it means to build capacity for more when you’ve believed you’re not ready

You’ll laugh, cry, and probably re-listen. This is the conversation for every woman who's ever felt underestimated by others—or by herself.

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