Our Home, Our Chores: when Caring means Sharing

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Feeling like you're carrying the mental load in your relationship? From scheduling doctor's appointments and driving the kids to school, to remembering birthdays and sending cards, the invisible labor of managing a household can create resentment and impact relationship satisfaction.

You're not alone. This week, we talk with licensed couple therapist Kate Engler about this often-unseen burden and why it's so prevalent. She'll explain how couples can work together to create a more equitable division of all household responsibilities – physical, mental, and emotional.

Learn how to move past defensiveness and towards real solutions that improve communication and strengthen your bond. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a more balanced and fulfilling partnership.

Topics:

Invisible labor, mental load, relationship resentment, equitable division of labor, communication in relationships, assessing household responsibilities, addressing defensiveness, creating accountability, improving relationship satisfaction, scheduling, childcare, medical issues, birthdays, holidays, gift giving, household management

Find Kate here: https://threepointsrelationships.com/

Video link https://youtu.be/nwwYSHb0BF0

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