S26E2: Why We Need Community More Than Ever and How to Start Building One

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Hey lady! It’s strange times filled with a lot of uncertainty but one thing we know for sure is that we will get through all of this with strong community. This week Dr. Dom and Terri discuss some of the factors that got us to reckon with the fact that there is an uprising of people reporting feelings of loneliness and being alone. While those are natural feelings from time to time you can mitigate them long-term with a strong diverse community. We’re not talking about people you can post on Instagram, although that can be a part of it, we’re talking about the relationships that you intentionally cultivate that fit perfectly with your life. Are you a budding yogi and find it a central part of your self-care practice? There is someone out there with the same interest. Do you crave differing perspectives and rigorous debate about ideology? There’s a community out there waiting for you to join them.
The truth is while loneliness may be on the rise, there are people out there for you. And, as the world continues to reel from massive changes finding people that get you and care about you will be all the more necessary. Do yourself a favor a tune in to today’s episode for practical tools on building your community. Some of these may stretch you or push you or feel edgy, but that is the work. It’s putting your authentic self out there so that your people can find you. If you’re ready to dig deeper you won’t want to miss the opportunity to get Dr. Dom and Terri’s precise questions to help you dream up and call in the relationships that will fulfill you. They are in our Patreon. Are you a member yet? Girl, if you aren’t you are missing out! We connect as an online community with not only exclusive content, but access to members only resources and first dibs on community events. Join us! We’re cultivating a space for us while building them in our real lives! We love you, sis!

Seven Ways to Build or Deepen Community
1. Join something you genuinely love
Real talk: The easiest way to find aligned people is to go where your joy lives.

2. Reconnect with someone from your past
Real talk: Some of the most beautiful friendships are waiting for a simple “hey, I miss you.”

3. Try something new—even if it feels awkward
Real talk: The most aligned people are often waiting just outside your comfort zone.

4. Start something small—but intentional
Real talk: Community doesn’t have to be a big production. Start where you are.

5. Be the person who reaches out first
Real talk: Waiting on someone to invite you might mean missing out on the connection you need.

6. Build connection into your rhythm
Real talk: If you want community, you have to make room for it.

7. Don’t underestimate the power of one
Real talk: You don’t need a huge friend group. You need one aligned connection to start your community.

Quote of the Day:
"Community is much more than belonging to something. It's about doing something together that makes belonging matter."
– Unknown
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Goal Map Like a Pro Workbook
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

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