From Helicopter to Mentor Evolving Your Parenting Approach
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Ever wondered what happens to your role as a dad when your kids turn 18 and start their own lives? It's a question that many fathers grapple with as their children transition into adulthood. In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Rob Finlay, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and author of "Hey Dad: Everything You Should Have Learned About Life But Didn't," to explore the evolving landscape of fatherhood beyond the traditional 18-year mark.
Rob shares his insights on navigating this new phase of parenting, drawing parallels between high school and professional football coaching to illustrate the shift in approach. We dive deep into:
The Transition from Dependent to Independent
Discover why the end of the "magic carpet ride" of childhood can be challenging for both parents and young adults, and how to support your kids through this crucial phase.
Balancing Guidance and Independence
Learn how to strike the right balance between offering advice and allowing your adult children to make their own decisions and mistakes.
Preparing for Life Beyond Parenting
Explore the importance of maintaining your own identity and purpose as your children become more independent.
Whether you're a dad with young kids looking ahead or already navigating the waters of parenting adult children, this conversation offers valuable insights on how to evolve your role while maintaining a strong, supportive relationship with your kids.
Remember, being a great dad doesn't stop at 18 - it just takes on a new form. Are you ready to embrace this next chapter of fatherhood? Listen now and discover how to stay connected and relevant in your children's lives, no matter their age.
Connect with Rob Finlay:
https://www.facebook.com/people/Robert-J-Finlay
https://www.instagram.com/robjfinlay
https://www.linkedin.com/in/robjfinlay
https://www.youtube.com/@Robjfinlay
Chapters
00:00:00 - Introduction and Rob's Favorite Dad Moment
00:12:17 - Cultivating Relationships with Adult Children
00:24:34 - The Importance of Being Present and Having a Purpose
00:36:51 - Advice for Dads on Parenting Beyond 18
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