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This episode is for every man who feels stuck, ashamed, or exhausted by the cycle of sin and silence. You’ll walk away with practical tools to sit in discomfort, recognize your escape habits, and move toward healing and integrity in Christ.

What You’ll Learn:

Why escaping pain fuels habitual sin in Christian men
How to recognize subtle behaviors that lead to deeper compromise
What it means to sit in discomfort instead of numbing out
The power of presence, meditation, and prayer for spiritual growth
Why truth-telling must be the foundation of healing
How to identify your personal “escape mechanisms” (like social media, work, food, or fantasy)

Resources & Links :

Inner / Middle / Outer Circle framework for sin and coping
Jerrad’s 156-day truth-telling streak
Scripture Reference: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the Kingdom
Tools from addiction recovery and trauma therapy
Upcoming “Garage Groups” and online healing spaces (in development)
Dad Tired fundraising needs & support at dadtired.com/donate

470 episodes

Why You Keep Falling Into the Same Sin (And How to Break Free) |465

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published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

What You’ll Learn:

Why escaping pain fuels habitual sin in Christian men
How to recognize subtle behaviors that lead to deeper compromise
What it means to sit in discomfort instead of numbing out
The power of presence, meditation, and prayer for spiritual growth
Why truth-telling must be the foundation of healing
How to identify your personal “escape mechanisms” (like social media, work, food, or fantasy)

Resources & Links :

Inner / Middle / Outer Circle framework for sin and coping
Jerrad’s 156-day truth-telling streak
Scripture Reference: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the Kingdom
Tools from addiction recovery and trauma therapy
Upcoming “Garage Groups” and online healing spaces (in development)
Dad Tired fundraising needs & support at dadtired.com/donate

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No Secrets, No Shame: Building a Marriage That Heals | Gabe Lyons 469 36:01

5 days ago36:01

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Watch this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/WDK9O0VZ7lo What if your marriage wasn’t just surviving—but actually healing you? In this powerful episode, Jerrad sits down with author and speaker Gabe Lyons ( The Fight for Us ) to talk about the real work of building a thriving marriage—especially when life throws curveballs like special needs parenting, trauma, and unspoken pain. They unpack: The power of radical honesty (and why most couples never get there) How to stop nursing wounds in silence and start creating real intimacy Why “no secrets” might be the most life-changing marriage rule What to do when you feel emotionally disconnected How confession and emotional leadership can radically change your marriage and parenting If you’ve ever felt stuck in your marriage or unsure how to lead your family spiritually—this conversation is for you. 📘 Check out Gabe’s new book: The Fight for Us: Overcome What Divides and Build a Marriage That Thrives Today's Sponsor: Classical Conversations Homeschooling…

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Why Men Feel Spiritually Stuck (and How To Break Free) | Kyle Idleman 468 52:30

12 days ago52:30

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Why do so many men feel stuck—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—even while doing all the “right” things? In this vulnerable conversation, Kyle Idleman talks about the inner battles men face in silence. He explains why many men hide behind performance and productivity, how healing begins with connection (not accomplishment), and what it really looks like to take every thought captive. Kyle and Jerrad dig into thought patterns that keep men stuck, the mental load of leadership, and why confessing weakness isn’t whining—it’s spiritual obedience. If you’ve ever felt alone, overburdened, or ashamed of not “being further along,” this conversation will help you breathe again. What You’ll Learn: Why men around age 40 often face unexpected internal crisis How emotional connection—not productivity—defines your health What it looks like to take every thought captive in practical terms The healing power of confession and friendship How to recognize and break negative thought patterns Morning routines, prayer habits, and spoken truth as tools for renewal Mentioned in the Episode: Every Thought Captive (Kyle Idleman’s new book) Galatians 6: “Bear one another’s burdens” The power of saying Scripture aloud to renew your mind Healthy male friendships and confession as healing rhythms The “+/- 3 of 40” principle: why men change between 37–43 Tools like ClearSpace, prayer closets, and daily scripture meditation…

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The Subtle Sins We All Ignore & Building a Life of Integrity| 467 38:56

19 days ago38:56

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What do you do when something isn’t technically sin—but still doesn’t feel right? In this episode, Jerrad shares a vulnerable story from his week that left him convicted, even though no clear line was crossed. He unpacks the concept of “inner, middle, and outer circle behaviors”—a tool from recovery circles—and challenges Christian men to evaluate the subtle patterns that quietly lead to sin, disconnection, or hidden shame. If you’re a husband or father wrestling with old habits, emotional isolation, or unspoken compromise, this episode gives practical language to your inner conflict—and a gospel-centered path toward integrity and healing. What You’ll Learn : How to identify subtle behaviors that lead to sin The difference between self-care and numbing Why “middle circle” habits matter for Christian men Practical steps for radical honesty in marriage How to confess without spiraling into shame Why healing starts with small, honest steps—not perfection Mentioned in the Episode: The “Inner, Middle, Outer Circle” tool from recovery work Confessing non-sinful but compromising behavior to a spouse Using practical boundaries (e.g. standing while eating, social media use) to spot emotional disconnection Dad Tired Retreat (September – signup at dadtired.com) Kids' News Sponsor -World Watch News…

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How to Rebuild Your Rocky Marriage and Lead with Love|466 55:22

26 days ago55:22

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What do you do when your marriage feels broken—but you don’t know how to fix it? In this episode, Dave and Ann Wilson share their story of nearly losing their marriage at year 10, and how God brought them through bitterness, performance, and unmet expectations into healing and intimacy. With over four decades of marriage experience and years of leading marriage ministries, they speak candidly about wounds from the past, what happens when a wife feels unseen, and why husbands often withdraw instead of engage. You’ll also hear practical tools for renewing your mind, healing emotional wounds, and building each other up instead of tearing each other down. What You’ll Learn: What to do when one spouse has “lost all feelings” How past trauma affects your marriage today Why healing starts with individual repentance and soul work The power of affirmation and the damage of chronic critique How to speak life to your spouse (instead of yelling) What it means to be an “azer kenegdo” and partner in the spiritual battle Why most men feel unloved and unliked in their marriage—and how to change that Links and Resources: Vertical Marriage and How to Speak Life to Your Husband by Dave & Ann Wilson Biblical Reference- Romans 12:2 – the daily renewing of your mind. Pre-order link: Amazon – How to Speak Life to Your Husband…

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Why You Keep Falling Into the Same Sin (And How to Break Free) |465 32:10

5 weeks ago32:10

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Why do so many christian men fall into the same sinful patterns over and over? Jerrad reveals how habitual sin is often rooted in emotional escape—in attempts to numb pain, stress, or fear. Drawing from his own experience in intensive counseling and a growing commitment to truth-telling, he helps men understand how to face uncomfortable emotions rather than flee from them. This episode is for every man who feels stuck, ashamed, or exhausted by the cycle of sin and silence. You’ll walk away with practical tools to sit in discomfort, recognize your escape habits, and move toward healing and integrity in Christ. What You’ll Learn: Why escaping pain fuels habitual sin in Christian men How to recognize subtle behaviors that lead to deeper compromise What it means to sit in discomfort instead of numbing out The power of presence, meditation, and prayer for spiritual growth Why truth-telling must be the foundation of healing How to identify your personal “escape mechanisms” (like social media, work, food, or fantasy) Resources & Links : Inner / Middle / Outer Circle framework for sin and coping Jerrad’s 156-day truth-telling streak Scripture Reference: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the Kingdom Tools from addiction recovery and trauma therapy Upcoming “Garage Groups” and online healing spaces (in development) Dad Tired fundraising needs & support at dadtired.com/donate…

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Porn, Shame, and the Journey to Real Healing (with Nick Stumbo) |464 53:15

6 weeks ago53:15

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In this episode, Nick Stumbo (Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries) shares his personal story of battling pornography addiction while serving as a pastor—and how it nearly cost him his marriage. Nick and Jerrad unpack the cycle of shame, hidden habits, emotional coping, and why true healing for Christian men requires more than confession. If you've ever felt stuck in sin, numb to your marriage, or spiritually ashamed, this conversation offers a hopeful path toward recovery and freedom in Christ. What You’ll Learn: Why many Christian men deny the severity of their porn use The real difference between struggle and addiction How shame and secrecy keep men stuck Understanding your middle circle behaviors (the warning signs) Why confession alone doesn’t lead to freedom How to identify your escape patterns What wives need to know (and how to avoid trauma-based confessions) Episode Resources and Links : Pure Desire Ministries: puredesire.org Book: Setting Us Free by Nick Stumbo Recovery groups: Seven Pillars of Freedom (for men), Betrayal & Beyond (for wives) The “Three Questions” that define addiction Tools: Inner/Middle/Outer Circle framework, HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) Sponsor: Dwell Bible App – dwellbible.com/dadtired…

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What if You Stopped Hiding and Start Healing? |463 37:03

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In this episode, Jerrad Lopes returns after a four-month break. He shares how hidden sin, deep wounds, and a crisis of identity led him to the darkest season of his life—and how God met him there. Jerrad opens up about stepping away from ministry, entering a two-week counseling intensive, and why full healing is impossible without radical honesty. This episode is a call to Christian men: if you want your family to thrive, healing must begin with you. You don’t need more parenting tips—you need deep, soul-level transformation. And it starts by coming out of hiding. What You’ll Learn: Why secrecy destroys spiritual leadership The emotional cost of compartmentalized sin The moment Jerrad chose full healing over self-destruction Why counseling and community are essential for real change What it feels like to live with nothing hidden How Dad Tired is shifting focus toward men's healing ministry Episode Resources & Links: Dad Tired’s upcoming retreat: Register at dadtired.com Dad Tired's Mighty Networks Community for men (free) Episode Sponsor: World Watch News (sponsor for family-safe news) Episode 462 :“Important Ministry Update” & conversation with Kaleb and Chris…

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An Important Dad Tired's Ministry Update (Part 2) | 462 40:03

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In today's episode, Pastor Kaleb and Pastor Chris sit down with Jerrad to talk about the next season of Dad Tired.

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8 Marks of a Biblical Man: Part Two | 461 31:25

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What does it really mean to be a man of God? In this powerful follow-up to Part One of the Biblical Masculinity series, we explore 8 core traits of a godly man through the PRIME MEN acrostic: Peacemaking, Repentant, Intentional, Meek, Enduring, Moral, Empathetic, and Noble. With insight from scripture, stories of failure and redemption (from Adam to Jesus), and quotes from thinkers like C.S. Lewis, John Piper, and Voddie Baucham, this episode will challenge and inspire you to grow as a man of faith. Whether you're a dad, a husband, or a young man figuring out what biblical manhood really looks like, this one is for you. 🔑 Key Topics: Why meek ≠ weak (Jesus was both powerful and gentle) Endurance in suffering and fatherhood The cost of moral compromise How empathy and nobility set godly men apart Practical ways to grow in each area 📖 Scriptures Mentioned: John 8, 1 Timothy 3, Ephesians 6, Genesis 18, Numbers 20, Judges 16, Matthew 4, Luke 23, Philippians 2, Proverbs 24, Micah 6:8 🎯 Action Step: Grab a journal. Circle 4 areas you’re doing well, 2 that need growth, and 1 where you’re bleeding. Then invite a godly man to speak into your life. 👉 Join our free men’s community at: dadtired.com/community 🎧 Check out Dwell for 25% OFF: dwellbible.com/dadtired…

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What is Biblical Masculinity? Part 1 | 460 31:11

10 weeks ago31:11

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Is your view of masculinity shaped more by culture than Christ? In this first part of a two-part series, Chris Hilkin unpacks what the Bible really says about being a man. Drawing on personal stories, cultural contrasts, and Scripture, Chris introduces the PRIME MEN acrostic—a framework for understanding godly manhood—and walks through the first two foundational traits: Peacemaker and Repentant. This episode is a call for Christian men to unlearn shallow definitions of manhood and replace them with gospel-centered convictions. Whether you’re raising sons or seeking healing yourself, this message will challenge and equip you for deeper discipleship. What You’ll Learn: Why cultural masculinity often misses the mark What it means to be a peacemaker and why it matters in your home The difference between remorse and biblical repentance Why being a godly man starts with personal integrity, not dominance How to lead your children toward a Christ-centered view of manhood 📖 Scriptures References: Matthew 5:9 Romans 12:1 James 1:19 Acts 3:19 2 Corinthians 7:10 Proverbs 28:13 Luke 15 (The Prodigal Son) Luke 19 (Zacchaeus)…

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Two by Two: Why You Need Brothers in the Trenches |459 17:55

11 weeks ago17:55

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Why did Jesus always send His disciples out two by two—and why does it still matter today? In this powerful solo episode, Kaleb teaches the biblical principle of living life with godly brothers by your side. Drawing from Luke 10 and examples throughout Acts, he shows how isolation makes men vulnerable, while companionship strengthens our courage, witness, and joy. If you’re a husband, father, or follower of Jesus trying to carry the load alone, this episode is a call to lock arms with men who will walk with you in faith, accountability, laughter, and mission. What You’ll Learn: Why Jesus never sent disciples out alone 4 biblical reasons men need strong brothers in their lives How isolation leaves you spiritually vulnerable The power of shared testimony and mutual encouragement Why friendship isn’t a luxury—it’s a gospel value How to build meaningful brotherhood in everyday life 📖 Scriptures References: Luke 10:1 – Jesus sends disciples two by two Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 – Two are better than one 1 Peter 5:8 – Watch out for the prowling enemy 1 Samuel 23:16–17 – Jonathan strengthens David Proverbs 12:25 – A good word makes him glad 2 Corinthians 13:1 – Testimony established by two witnesses…

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The Third Traveler: Friendship, Faith, and the Presence of Christ |458 23:54

12 weeks ago23:54

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What if friendship is one of the most powerful tools God gives us to battle confusion, discouragement, and spiritual despair? Kaleb teaches the story of the Road to Emmaus (Luke 24) to show how the presence of Jesus is often revealed when two believers walk together through grief and doubt. Drawing from Scripture, Church history, and stories of Christian martyrs, this episode highlights how friendship is not a side benefit of the Christian life—it’s a core part of God's design for your healing and strength. If you’ve felt tired, isolated, or unsure where God is in your pain, this message will remind you: you were never meant to walk alone. What You’ll Learn: Why Jesus met two disciples walking and talking—not isolated The four spiritual benefits of gospel-centered friendship How the Holy Spirit enters conversations marked by honesty and humility The power of processing confusion with a godly friend Why real friendship requires transparency, not performance The image of “the third traveler” as the Holy Spirit in your walk 📖 Scriptures References: Luke 24 (Road to Emmaus) Ephesians 6 (Armor of God) John 15 (Greater love has no one...) John 14 (Spirit will not leave you as orphans) Proverbs 12:25, 1 Samuel 23, 2 Corinthians 13:1 Episode Mentions : The Dwell Bible App – Sponsor offering guided Lent reflections and devotionals- dwellbible.com/dadtired Perpetua & Felicity – Early Christian martyrs and friends. Robert Murray McCheyne Bible Plan – Recommended yearly reading plan. Dietrich Bonhoeffer, St. Bernard of Clairvaux, Augustine – Quotes and stories on friendship and theology.…

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Why Holiness Requires Friendship | 457 24:57

13 weeks ago24:57

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Can a man truly grow in holiness without growing in friendship? Kaleb challenges the individualistic mindset many Christian men carry—and shows how friendship is not just helpful, but essential for spiritual maturity. Drawing from John 15, the life of Jesus, and examples like Augustine, he unpacks the truth that holiness and friendship are inseparably linked. If you’ve felt isolated, self-reliant, or unsure how to build meaningful relationships as a Christian man, this episode reframes friendship not as a luxury, but as a command of Christ—and a taste of heaven itself. What You’ll Learn: Why Jesus commanded friendship on the night of His betrayal How real friendship is a path to Christlikeness, not a distraction from it The danger of isolated spiritual leadership Why holiness without friendship is often just masked pride The healing power of brotherhood in seasons of mental, emotional, and spiritual struggle How friendship prepares us for heaven’s ultimate communion 📖 Scripture References: John 15:12–14 – “Greater love has no one than this…” Psalm 41:9 – Betrayal by a close friend Romans 5:8, John 14, the Farewell Discourse Resources and Links : Missionary Flights International – Aviation ministry serving in Haiti, the Bahamas, and the Dominican Republic- missionaryflights.org Spiritual Friendship by St. Aelred of Rievaulx Augustine’s Conversion (Confessions)…

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Peace that Disrupts: Calm Your Storm | 456 24:08

14 weeks ago24:08

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In this episode Kaleb narrates how anxiety, looping thoughts, and self-condemnation can pull us away from the moments that matter most. While watching his son overcome fear at a waterpark, Kaleb found himself mentally stuck—replaying frustrations, doubts, and failures. Through John 14:27, he reflects on the kind of peace Jesus gives: not escape from life’s storms, but presence within them—a peace that interrupts fear and helps us stay grounded in what God is doing right in front of us. What You’ll Learn: How to break mental loops of fear, regret, and condemnation Why Jesus spoke peace to His disciples before His own suffering The difference between worldly peace and the peace of Christ How external perspective—God’s Word, a friend, or your spouse—can shatter inner turmoil Why recognizing God’s presence can restore joy in your fatherhood and faith 📖 Scripture References: John 14:27 – “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you…” John 13–17 – The Farewell Discourse Romans 8:28 – All things work together for good Matthew 28:20 – “I am with you always” (implied) Practical Advice: Memorize John 14:27 Talk to your spouse or a trusted friend to break the loop Allow God’s Word to “kick in your front door” when condemnation creeps in…

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Chris Hilken - Morality of God in the Old Testament - Part 3 | 455 29:27

15 weeks ago29:27

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Many wrestle with the image of God in the Old Testament—how can the same God who loves and weeps in the New Testament also command war and destruction? In this episode, Chris Hilkin tackles one of the hardest questions in the Bible: is the God of the Old Testament morally good? Chris walks through five biblical and historical reasons why the conquest narratives aren’t what modern readers often assume. You'll hear how ancient war language, the slow process of displacement, divine justice, and God's mercy all help make sense of these difficult passages—and why rejecting God on moral grounds requires a much deeper look at history and Scripture. What You’ll Learn: Why “utter destruction” often used hyperbolic war language, not literal commands How God’s judgment differs from human genocide or racism The role of divine justice in protecting future generations from corruption Why God has the moral authority to give and take life How to answer questions about Old Testament violence 📖 Scriptures & Ancient Contexts References: Deuteronomy 7, 20; Joshua 6, 10; Judges 1–2 1 Samuel 15; Exodus 23; Job 1:21; Romans 13 Revelation 7.…

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The Stewardship God Is Watching | 454 24:30

16 weeks ago24:30

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What has God entrusted to you—and are you stewarding it well? In today’s episode we unpack a powerful biblical theme woven throughout the New Testament: stewardship. From Jesus’ parable of the faithful servant to the Apostle Paul's letters to Timothy, we’re reminded that God is watching how we handle the things He’s put in our hands—especially our homes, marriages, and children. Plus, we share a wild church history story about the Apostle John chasing down a gang leader on horseback. No, seriously. Whether you’re a dad, husband, or just a guy trying to walk faithfully with Jesus, this episode will challenge you to reject passivity and embrace your God-given role as a steward. 🔑 Key Topics: What biblical stewardship actually means How Jesus contrasted faithful vs. wicked servants Paul’s urgent message to Timothy about responsibility A convicting story from early church history Why passion fades, but daily faithfulness endures 📖 Scriptures Mentioned: Matthew 24:45–51, 1 Timothy 1:11, 1 Corinthians 4:1–2, 1 Thessalonians 2:4, Galatians 2:7 Check out dwell for 25% OFF at: dwellbible.com/dadtired…

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Chris Hilken - Morality of God in the Old Testament - Part 2 | 453 35:48

17 weeks ago35:48

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Many Christians—and critics—wrestle with this difficult question: does the Bible support slavery? Chris Hilkin discusses the most misunderstood and controversial aspects of the Old Testament. He confronts the assumption that God condones slavery by unpacking what the Bible actually says about servitude, justice, and human dignity. Through historical context, Hebrew language insights, and careful biblical interpretation, Chris explains how God’s law placed boundaries on power, offered protections to the vulnerable, and called His people to reflect His justice and mercy—even in broken systems. What You’ll Learn: Why the Hebrew Bible doesn’t have a category for race-based slavery How biblical servitude functioned like voluntary indentured labor What protections the Mosaic law gave to servants—including freedom, fair treatment, and legal rights How the New Testament condemns slave trading as sinful 📖 Scriptures References: Exodus 21:16 Deuteronomy 23:15–16 Leviticus, Deuteronomy, Exodus – Laws protecting servants 1 Timothy 1:10 – All are one in Christ; serve others in love Isaiah 61…

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Chris Hilken - Morality of God in the Old Testament - Part 1 | 452 34:04

18 weeks ago34:04

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Many christians feel unequipped to handle the hard questions—especially when it comes to the Old Testament. Why does God seem so angry? Did He really command entire crowds to be destroyed? In this episode, Chris Hilkin opens a new teaching series by offering simple, powerful tools for reading Scripture faithfully. He walks through how to understand difficult passages, avoid common interpretation mistakes, and confidently answering the kinds of questions people might ask about God’s character in the Bible. What You’ll Learn: Why we must use clear Scripture to interpret confusing passages How to distinguish between biblical description and prescription Why not every story in the Bible teaches a moral or doctrine How context, authorship, and genre shape proper understanding Common interpretation errors that lead to misunderstanding God’s character Why Jesus must be the hero of every biblical narrative 📖 Scripture References : Psalm 82 vs. Isaiah 44 & Deuteronomy 6 Exodus, Deuteronomy, Leviticus – laws about slavery, justice, and culture 1 Samuel 15, Job 1:21, Romans 13 John 3:16, Ephesians 2:8–9 Deuteronomy 6:4–6 – The Shema Galatians 3, Philippians 2, Isaiah 61 Resources & Links : Podcast sponsor-Range Leather Use code DADTIRED at rangeleather.com/dadtired for 15% off custom hats Email for Notes: chris@dadtired.com Future Topics in the Series Ep 453- Chris Hilken- Morality of God in the Old Testament- Part 2| 453 Ep 455- Chris Hilken- Morality of God in the Old Testament- Part 3| 455…

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Patrick Miller - Joyful Outsiders: Living for Christ| 451 41:21

19 weeks ago41:21

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How do you lead your family with faith and conviction in a culture that no longer shares your values? In this conversation, Patrick Miller discusses the message of his new book Joyful Outsiders. Joyful Outsiders —a guide for Christian men learning to follow Jesus in a world that feels disorienting, even hostile. He explains why being an outsider isn’t something to avoid, but a biblical identity to embrace. Raising kids, discipling others, or navigating your own tension with culture, this episode offers practical wisdom for how to live faithfully, lead intentionally, and stay rooted in joy—even when the world pushes back. What You’ll Learn: Why Christians have always been cultural outsiders The difference between conforming, combating, cloistering—and joyfully engaging Six biblical archetypes for cultural engagement (e.g. Advisor, Protestor, Artist) How to parent kids through complex questions about faith, identity, and culture Why spiritual influence requires wisdom, not one-size-fits-all responses How calling, personality, and gifts shape your impact in the world 📖 Scripture References Hebrews 13 1 Peter 1 Ephesians 2, Philippians 2, Galatians 3 Daniel 2 Episode Resources& Links: Book: J oyful Outsiders : Six Ways to Live Like Jesus in a Disorienting Culture by Patrick Miller and Keith Simon → Available from major booksellers or at joyfuloutsiders.com Free Assessment: → Take the “Outsider Archetype” quiz to discover your primary role in cultural engagement- joyfuloutsiders.com…

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Kaleb Allen: Prayer, Perseverance,and New Year Spiritual Reset| 450 23:08

20 weeks ago23:08

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A new year often brings the desire to reset—not just with goals and routines, but in how we lead, parent, and connect with God. In this episode, Kaleb Allen reflects on the emotional and spiritual weight many men carry coming out of the holidays: feeling off-rhythm, spiritually dry, or unsure how to re-engage. In reference to James 5:17 and Elijah’s prayer life, he calls Christian husbands, fathers, and leaders back to the foundation—fervent, honest, consistent prayer. He urges you to show up before God with your whole heart and trust Him to work through your weakness. What You’ll Learn: Why James 5:17 matters for men struggling to pray How early church history describes James as a man of consistent prayer What it means to pray like Elijah—with faith, urgency, and expectation Why prayer is hard—and how to reengage your heart when you feel numb The role of fervency, persistence, and spiritual travail in breakthrough Why your emotions can’t be trusted to lead your prayer life How real prayer engages your whole being, not just your words 📖 Scriptures References: James 5:17–18 1 Kings 18 Daniel 7 Matthew 28, John 13, Luke 24 Romans 8 1 Thessalonians 5 Luke 18 Sponsor: Dwell Bible App Listen to the Bible on your schedule with flexible plans here: dwellbible.com/dadtired…

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Learning Grief with Hope- John Onwuchekwa | 449 48:32

21 weeks ago48:32

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What do you do when life falls apart—and you're still expected to lead, provide, and hold it all together? In this episode, Pastor John Onwuchekwa shares his story of unexpected loss, spiritual exhaustion, and the slow, grace-filled process of healing. Through raw moments of grief, relational strain, and a sabbatical that reshaped him, John shows why grief isn’t something to get over—but something we have to learn to carry. Together, John and Kaleb explore how Scripture, friendship, and deep honesty help Christian men navigate sorrow without losing hope. If you’re in a season of loss—or walking with someone who is—this conversation offers comfort, language, and direction. What You’ll Learn: Why grief isn't linear—and why it doesn't mean you're doing it wrong The difference between honesty and hopelessness How grief affects marriage, friendships, and spiritual rhythms Why isolation is more dangerous than tragedy How Ecclesiastes and the resurrection became anchors for John’s healing What to do (and not do) when walking with someone who's grieving Scriptures References: Ecclesiastes – Finding hope in hard truths 1 Thessalonians 4; 1 Corinthians 15 Acts 1 Isaiah 53 John 11 Episode Resources: 1. Book : We Go On by John Onwuchekwa – Available at major booksellers and wegoontour.com 2. National Tour : We Go On Tour — A live evening of music, film, comedy, and teaching on grief and hope-wegoontour.com 3. Sponsor : Dwell Bible App -dwellbible.com/dadtired…

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The Kinsman Journal's Mission with Peter Ostpako | 448 42:14

22 weeks ago42:14

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In this episode, Peter Ostapko shares how God called him out of banking and into a creative, countercultural ministry: Kinsman Journal. Built around the themes of faith, fatherhood, and work, the journal combines original photography, timeless essays, and deep storytelling to speak to the heart of Christian men. Peter also explains how Kinsman has grown beyond print into live gatherings like Kinsman Table, where excellence, hospitality, and intentionality create space for men to connect and grow- through presence. Listen in to hear more about deeper brotherhood, renewed purpose, or a new way to engage with the men in your life. What You’ll Learn: How a vision for “faith, fatherhood, and work” sparked a national movement Why the Kinsman Journal focuses on everyday men’s stories, not celebrity voices How beauty and excellence open doors for discipleship Why men need more than sermons—they need community and challenge The difference between programming and presence in men’s ministry How local gatherings and generosity can reshape modern masculinity Episode Resources: 1. Kinsman Journal – A premium print journal with original stories, photos, and essays on faith, fatherhood, and work Order or bulk-gift at: https://www.kinsman.org 2. Kinsman Table – Invite-only gatherings for men (3x/year), built around hospitality, reflection, and curated conversation 3. Kinsman Nights & Kinsman Forum – Public and discipleship-focused events happening monthly and in select cities 4. Kinsman Podcast – Audio version of the journal available for free on podcast platforms 5.Bonhoeffer’s Life Together . 6.Book: The Revenge of Analog . 7.Book: The Alternative to Futility by Elton Trueblood.…

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Daniel and Conviction: Living What You Believe| 447 20:25

23 weeks ago20:25

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Most Christian men want to be more consistent—more prayerful, more disciplined, more engaged. But what if the struggle isn’t really about discipline at all? In this episode, Kaleb Allen looks at the life of Daniel to show that lasting spiritual habits flow from conviction, not willpower. It’s not about trying harder—it’s about believing deeper. If you’re tired of starting strong and fading out, this message will help you reframe discipline as a response to what you believe about God, not just a task to check off. What You’ll Learn: Why discipline without conviction eventually fails How Daniel’s life shows the power of consistent devotion over decades The difference between spiritual guilt and genuine desire Why you may not have a “prayer problem”—you may have a belief problem How to write spiritual resolutions that actually shape your life Why the lion’s den was safer for Daniel than 30 days without prayer 📖 Scriptures References: Daniel 6 1 Kings 18 Romans 8, Revelation, John 13–17 Episode Resources: Jonathan Edwards’ Resolutions – 70 life commitments Edwards wrote at age 18 Challenge to List Your Own 10 Spiritual Resolutions Robert Murray McCheyne Bible Plan Sponsor- Range Leather - rangeleather.com/dadtired | Use code DADTIRED for 15% off…

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Praying Hyde - Kaleb Allen | 446 16:05

24 weeks ago16:05

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What happens when one man devotes his whole life to prayer? In this episode, Kaleb Allen shares the story of John Hyde—known as “Praying Hyde”—a missionary to India whose hidden life with God shook nations. Hyde’s devotion wasn’t loud or public, but it was deep, consistent, and marked by sacrificial love. Kaleb weaves Hyde’s story with Scripture, church history, and a connection to Joseph of Arimathea’s tenderness at the cross, inviting Christian men to step into a quiet, faithful life shaped by love, not performance. If your spiritual life feels tired or distracted, this episode calls you back to where true power begins: in the presence of God. What You’ll Learn: Why devotion is about consistency, not perfection How prayer shapes legacy—even across generations Why real intercession is born from brokenness, not pressure The story of John Hyde’s increasing burden for souls How sacrifice, fasting, and prayer brought revival in India What Joseph of Arimathea’s act of love teaches us about the cross 📖 Scriptures References: Matthew 9:37–38 Psalm 51:17 John 11, Isaiah 53 Mark 15 Episode Resources: Sponsor: Back Gate Prayers → Personalized prayer card sets for families- backgateprayers.com | Use code DADTIRED for 10% off…

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Life in the Secret Place With Bob Sorge | 445 43:58

25 weeks ago43:58

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What does it really look like to seek God in the secret place as a way of life? Bob Sorge shares how decades of vocal injury and physical suffering drew him deeper into intimacy with Jesus. Rather than walking away from his calling, Bob chose to lean in—learning to meet God in silence. Bob and Kaleb explore how the secret place forms men into spiritual leaders, how a father’s hunger for God can shape the atmosphere of a home, and why devotion rooted in desire—not duty—is what sustains us through every season. If you’re a husband, father, or ministry leader longing for something more than surface-level faith, this episode offers a personal call back to the presence of God. What You’ll Learn: The difference between duty-driven prayer and desire-fueled devotion How suffering can press us into God's presence—not away from it What it looks like to seek God in seasons of confusion, silence, or pain Why secret place discipline flows best from personal hunger How to teach your kids to build their own relationship with Jesus Why scheduled time with God is worth fighting for 📖 Scriptures References: Matthew 6:6 Song of Solomon 1:2 1 Peter 2:21 Galatians 6:8, Revelation 3, Hebrews 12, Psalm 51:17, Isaiah 53, Matthew 5:14–15 Episode Resources: Book: Secrets of the Secret Place by Bob Sorge Book: The Cross by Bob Sorge Book: Reset – A Personal Revival Guide (and companion site)→ Learn more: prayerreset.com Sponsor: Range Leather - rangeleather.com/dadtired | Use code DADTIRED for 15% off…

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An Important Ministry Update Part 1 | 444 21:47

26 weeks ago21:47

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Kaleb's Corner: A Man of Devotion 002 22:42

27 weeks ago22:42

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28 weeks ago41:08

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Q+A with Chris 006 25:21

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