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166. You Need These 3 Qualities To Be Good At Dating (And Why It Matters)

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In this episode, I'm breaking down the three C's of being good at dating: character, curiosity, and confidence. I'll share how each one plays into being a great date, and why that matters in the first place. Even though we're dating to ultimately stop dating, your skills in this area will 100% affect your outcome. This episode will guide you through the qualities that truly matter, how to work on them, and what happens when you have two, but not all three.

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In this episode, I'm breaking down the three C's of being good at dating: character, curiosity, and confidence. I'll share how each one plays into being a great date, and why that matters in the first place. Even though we're dating to ultimately stop dating, your skills in this area will 100% affect your outcome. This episode will guide you through the qualities that truly matter, how to work on them, and what happens when you have two, but not all three.

PARTNERS!

Armoire is giving DI listeners 50% off their first month!

Get an extended free trial of Dipsea!

Get a discount on your Galatea membership!

CONNECT WITH ME:

Ask a question for me to answer on the pod

Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally!

MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT

Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide

Get more dating advice from me on YouTube

Dating Intentionally on TikTok

Read more on the blog

DATING COURSES

Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps

How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class

https://dating-intentionally.mykajabi.com/offers/2NMTrWo4/checkout

SUPPORT THE POD

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