276 How To Help A Footballer Who Focuses Too Much On Other People

Demystifying Mental Toughness

Today marks the start of an 8-episode series where David Charlton is joined by a colleague. Gerard Fitzgerald features in this episode, as well as the next 3 episodes. They go on to discuss a case study of a young female footballer, 11 years old with a pseudonym name called Carly who is a sensitive soul who worries too much about other people (team-mates specifically in this case).

We go on to normalise emotional sensitivity in young athletes, highlighting that it can be a strength if managed properly. We also talk about the challenges of emotional sensitivity where young athletes often face mental drain and self-doubt. David and Gerard then go on to share some advice for parents and coaches to manage emotionally sensitive players who can focus too much on their team-mates.

Key Learning Points:

· Explore ways to normalize the emotional experiences of young athletes and help them manage the mental demands of the sport.

· Develop strategies to shift the focus from negative self-criticism and comparison to a more positive, responsibility-based approach.

· The conversation explores how a neutral third party can provide a fresh perspective and help both parents and children understand each other better.

· Constant comparison to teammates can lead to self-doubt and criticism in young athletes and footballers.

· The discussion concludes with a reminder that the win-at-all-costs attitude can sometimes drive young athletes away from sport emphasising the need for fun and enjoyment.

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