Episode 8: Legacy Over Likes Why Authenticity & Your Story Outshines Going Viral
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I used to measure my worth in how many likes my Instagram posts got.
I’d overthink every single post – was I saying too much? Not enough?
And then I’d hit post and keep refreshing, waiting to feel seen.
But I’ve recently had the realisation that my story isn’t content – it’s a calling.
And the moment I stopped sharing for validation, and started sharing for impact – everything changed.
Because real visibility isn’t about being viral – it’s about being remembered.
In this episode of Diary of the Search Queen, I’m sharing the honest truth about showing up online – especially when your life, your kids, and your business are all on display.
The boundaries, the ego, the raw moments no one sees – and the power of staying true to your message even when it’s tempting to chase what performs.
If you’ve ever felt caught between wanting to be seen but not wanting to share everything – this one’s for you.
In this episode, I share:
- The train station moment that made me stop sharing my girls online
- How to tell the difference between authentic storytelling and attention-seeking
- Why I ditched performative vulnerability and built real boundaries instead
- What truly builds legacy online (hint: it’s not follower count)
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Consider this your reminder that your story matters – even if it never goes viral.
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