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We tackle the complex dynamics of preserving Oromo identity while raising confident children who can thrive in American society. Our conversation explores how parents can cultivate strong cultural roots at home while preparing kids to succeed in spaces where they might be the only Oromo in the room.
• Creating an intentional Oromo-speaking environment at home to preserve language across generations
• Using music, art, and stories to build emotional connections to Oromo heritage
• Understanding how historical divisions between Oromo tribes continue to impact community relationships
• Addressing the scarcity mindset that prevents many Oromos from supporting each other professionally
• Recognizing that cultural identity isn't something to prove but something you inherently possess
• Moving beyond survival mentality to intentionally preserve and celebrate our culture
• Increasing Oromo visibility in diverse professional fields beyond traditional career paths
• Finding the courage to be the first to reach out and build connections in professional spaces
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Chapters

1. Welcome and Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Cultivating Oromo Identity in the Home (00:02:53)

3. Breaking Down Tribal Divisions (00:11:26)

4. The Psychology of Resource Hoarding (00:18:21)

5. Building Visibility in Professional Spaces (00:35:21)

6. Diversifying Careers and Supporting Each Other (00:49:41)

7. Action Steps and Closing Thoughts (00:58:41)