What Makes a Marriage Work? Insights from Jarai's Journey

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Imagine walking down the aisle at a young age with no real expectations for your future marriage. This is the reality for our guest, Jarai, who joins us to share her 16-year journey through love, compromise, and patience. From learning to understand her partner's background and values, to navigating societal pressures and discovering her non-negotiables, Jarai gives us an intimate look into her experiences.
How do you keep a marriage strong and healthy for over a decade? Jarai and her husband reveal their secret - open communication. They delve into the practice of writing out their feelings and maintaining an ongoing dialogue to resolve conflicts. They also emphasize focusing on Allah's pleasure and making beneficial compromises. But what happens when societal pressures start to take a toll on your relationship? Jarai gives us insightful advice on how to manage these pressures, adjust our expectations, and concentrate on finding solutions.
In an era where social media narratives can profoundly impact relationships, we explore the importance of premarital counselling and understanding the concept of Rahmat - a sense of mercy and understanding in a relationship. Jarai shares how this sense of mercy has been a cornerstone in her marriage, helping minimise negative interactions and fostering understanding. This episode is packed with wisdom and insights that will leave you reflecting on your perceptions of love, marriage, and everything that lies in between. Get ready to tune in and be inspired.
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Chapters

1. What Makes a Marriage Work? Insights from Jarai's Journey (00:00:00)

2. Perspectives on Marriage and Relationships (00:00:03)

3. Navigating Non-Negotiables in Marriage (00:13:13)

4. Maintaining a Strong and Healthy Marriage (00:25:48)

5. Navigating Societal Pressure in Relationships (00:35:35)

6. Love and Understanding in Marriage (00:40:23)

7. The Importance of Premarital Counseling (00:54:27)