Being You Is Best: Nelly and her Barbies

Ever Wonder

In this gentle first episode of Ever Wonder, we meet Nelly—a fun, imaginative girl who loves playing with Barbies. But after her friend shares this at school, Nelly finds herself being laughed at and suddenly feels like she has to hide what she loves. Through storytelling, Nelly's experience helps young girls explore what it feels like to shrink themselves to fit in—and how to find the courage to stay true to who they are.

This episode is perfect for girls aged 6–10 who are navigating early friendship pressures, teasing, or the desire to be liked. It offers simple tools to respond to teasing, build confidence, and learn that being yourself is always enough. Includes a calming affirmation in the show.

Parent Conversation Guide

Conversation Starters:

• What did you think about Nelly’s story?
• Have you ever stopped liking something because someone made fun of it?
• Why do you think Nelly said the Barbies weren’t hers?
• What do you think it means to be “true to yourself”?
  

Phrases You Can Use:

• It’s okay to like something even if others don’t.
• I love that you’re confident in your own likes and interests.
• You don’t have to change who you are to be accepted. The right friends will like you for you.
• When people tease others, it usually says more about them than about the person they’re teasing.
  

Ways to Model This as a Parent:

• Share a story from your own life about something you loved that others teased you for — and how you handled it.
• Celebrate your child’s individuality regularly: “I love the way you think differently” or “You’ve got such a fun imagination.”
• Avoid mocking or joking about others’ hobbies or interests, even casually — your child is listening.
• Let your child see you confidently owning your preferences, even when they’re not “cool” or popular.
• Show them how to stand kindly and calmly in their own choices: “I know it’s not for everyone, but I like it.”

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