The Truth About Dreams and Reality - Happy Fathers Day (28)

Faith Journey | Rev. Kenn Blanchard

Acts 2:15 says And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams:

The Truth About Dreams and Reality

We all dream of doing better, reaching higher, and following what ignites our souls. But what happens when a dream turns out to be more fantasy than foundation? What if, over time, it proves unprofitable, unsustainable, or even harmful to our well-being?

This question is especially relevant for anyone striving to live out their “passions,” sometimes without embracing the responsibilities of adulthood. While chasing your dreams can be fulfilling, it’s equally important to recognize when a dream needs adjusting—or when reality demands a shift in perspective.

Signs Your Dream Might Need a Shift

1. Financial Instability That Never Improves – If your passion constantly drains resources with no realistic plan for sustainability, it may be time for reassessment.

2. Mental or Physical Health Decline – A true passion should energize and uplift, not lead to burnout, chronic stress, or emotional exhaustion.

3. Ignoring Basic Responsibilities – If pursuing a dream means neglecting financial stability, relationships, or personal well-being, a more balanced approach might be needed.

4. Lack of Growth or Learning – Dreams should evolve. If you find yourself stuck, repeating the same mistakes with no progress, it’s worth asking why.

5. No Market or Real Demand – Some passions bring personal joy but aren’t viable as careers. Recognizing this can help you integrate them into your life in a sustainable way.

Finding Balance Between Passion and Reality

- Passion Thrives with Adaptability – Rather than clinging to a single vision, allow yourself to grow and adjust. Sometimes the dream is right—but the path needs tweaking.

- Test the Waters Before Diving In – Small, incremental steps toward your goal can prevent unnecessary financial or emotional strain.

- Success Isn’t Always About Money or Fame – Some dreams are about fulfillment, but even those require sustainability.

- Embrace “Adulting” – Growth comes with responsibility. Managing finances, relationships, and obligations doesn’t kill passion—it supports it.

- Learn from Those Who’ve Been There – Seek mentors and real-world examples from those who have pursued similar paths. Their insights could help you navigate blind spots.

Beware of Social Media Illusions

In today’s world, it's easy to be influenced by people with large followings who seem to be living their dream. But numbers don’t equal wisdom. Just because someone has an audience doesn’t mean they have common sense—or that their advice is right for you.

You can’t base life decisions on a video from someone you don’t truly know. Social media thrives on engagement, not truth. Many influencers sell a lifestyle that may be unsustainable, unrealistic, or outright misleading. Your dreams deserve thoughtful planning—not impulsive influence.

Dreams don’t need to disappear—but they do need to evolve. Recognizing when to pivot isn’t failure—it’s wisdom. The key is knowing when to push forward, when to adjust, and when to let go in order to build something better.