191. Unlock the Power of Intimacy with Melisa Keenan: Find the Freedom & Flow in Life & Business

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In a society that values external beauty, Melisa Keenan reveals how her journey to true attractiveness is an inner game of self-love, acceptance, and gaining intimacy with herself to define and claim her own happiness.

"It's an inner game. It's a lot of what you talk about, the self-love, and those pieces are actually what create attraction. Well, and I think it's not isolated to being married because at the end of the day when I feel disconnected and shut down, I'm showing up that way everywhere as a mother, as a wife, and also as a business owner.

Melisa Keenan is an intimacy coach and expert who helps people create better connections, more love, and more income in their lives and businesses. She helps people access their divine feminine and masculine energies to create a beautiful balance and flow in their lives. Trapped and hopeless, Melisa Keenan had no answers about her life.

In a moment of desperation, she found a sense of freedom and hope when she chopped off her long hair and prayed. At that moment, she realized the importance of intimacy with herself - feeling her feelings, understanding her values, and building trust.

Through this journey, she found her purpose and became an intimacy expert, inspiring others to find their divine feminine and to live in alignment with their highest and greatest good. She had discovered that true attractiveness comes from radiance within.

In this episode, you will learn the following:

1. What is the key to radiance and attractiveness from the inside out?

2. How can we balance masculine and feminine energy without relying on the traditional scales of measurement?

3. What does it take to create a deep connection with one's self to access their divine feminine?

ABOUT MELISA

Keynote speaker, International and USA Today bestselling author, Melisa Keenan is the go-to intuitive intimacy expert for the top 1%. She helps high-achieving business owners have more confidence, connection, ease and trust in their personal relationships through mastery of intimacy and masculine/feminine energy. More than just a 4-year coach or a certified master of the Gibson-Banning method, Melisa is a true expert on healing broken and strained relationships, starting with her own.
Having overcome separation from her husband and the hurt of betrayal and ultimately rebuilt and repaired her marriage, Melisa now has supported women, men and couples to feel seen, heard, cherished, appreciated and fully self-expressed in their relationships while expanding their business. When she is not in the middle of everyone's private lives, you will find her dancing, singing, working, and praying at her hobby-ranch in Northern Nevada where she lives with her husband, CJ, and their four children.

CONNECT WITH MELISA:

http://www.melisakeenan.com
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melisa-keenan-intimacy
Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH6hd89CHW1-Ac75aciUdww

Chapter Summaries:

[00:02:49] What is attractiveness? It's radiance from the inside out. It's an inner game. The self-love and those pieces are actually what creates attraction. It has so much little to do with the size and shape of your body.

[00:05:55] When I feel disconnected and shut down, I'm showing up that way everywhere as a mother, as a wife, and also as a business owner. So really, we're not compartmentalized. How do we combine those things?

[00:07:42] How do we find a balance between masculine and feminine energy? It's actually just about intimacy with yourself. It's about taking the time to identify what it is that you're thinking and feeling. And how do I then align that with the divine?

[00:15:03] Abundance: When was the moment that you realized intimacy was the key to finding freedom in your life? She says marriage is a magnifier of the difficulties that we don't understand. Abundance's journey ultimately led her to being an intimacy expert.

[00:21:16] Melisakin: The idea of intimacy with self is something that I think people don't realize. It really is about like a connection with self and also compassion for what it is that you find there. The journey is so important because our world is actually shifting and changing to a more feminine, embodied space.

[00:27:32] How intimacy can play a role in some of these strategies where there is gets to be both sides. Intimacy with self and intimacy in your relationships. People like us who have invested tens of thousands of dollars in strategies and burnout. What saved me in all of that was my intention and intimacy.

[00:35:20] Is there such thing as toxic feminine? Yes, for sure. But we don't see that necessarily as prevalent in terms of systems. There's a third thing, which is divine feminine or divine masculine. It's really about reclaiming both sides.

[00:38:20] How can you bring back some of that energy to be internal so that it doesn't affect the business aspect of your life while you're working on these other aspects? Divorce, as absolutely painful as it is, can also be seen as like a great reset button.