Why Do Men Cheat? Can They Change? What Makes Them Change?

Finding Love Podcast w/ Jenni & Stephen

Why do men cheat—even when they love you?
This episode will change the way you look at infidelity, ego, and emotional validation in relationships.
In this powerful conversation, Jenni & Stephen Hendrix break down the root causes of cheating—going beyond the surface excuses to explore male identity, insecurity, emotional immaturity, and the generational pressure to seek validation through women.
From men who cheat out of deep insecurity… to men who step out even while loving their partner… this episode uncovers the internal battles that so many women are blamed for—but didn’t create.
🎙️ Whether you're dating, married, or healing after betrayal—this is required listening.
In this episode, we cover:
• Why cheating is rarely about the other woman
• The difference between ego-driven and emotionally driven infidelity
• Why a man can love you, but not honor you
• The two types of cheaters—and which one you must walk away from
• How women internalize the betrayal and lose themselves in the process
• What “healing” looks like when you realize it wasn’t your fault
⏱️ Chapter Timestamps:
0:00 – Why So Many Women Want to Know Why Men Cheat
1:35 – A Disclaimer: This Isn’t Excusing Cheating
2:32 – The History of How Men Are Taught to See Women
4:06 – Can One Woman Ever Be Enough?
5:55 – The Role of Ego & Emotional Immaturity
7:00 – Two Types of Cheaters: One-Off vs. Relationship-Based
9:15 – When He Chooses to Cheat Again and Again
10:34 – It's Not You: Stop Carrying the Weight of His Choices
12:17 – The Woman He Settles For vs. The One He Honors
14:04 – The Role of Ego in Marriage (And Why It Has to Die)
16:00 – A Man Who Will Die For You… But Won’t Live For You
17:24 – What Makes a Man Change? Only One Thing
19:10 – Why Sexual Fulfillment Isn’t the Root Problem
21:02 – Predators vs. Partners: Knowing the Difference
22:38 – Final Thoughts + Toast to the Women Holding Their Worth
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Your story, your growth, and your healing matter. Don’t let someone else's brokenness make you question your worth.
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