99. In the Driver’s Seat: Taking Control of Your Divorce

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the process. Many men fall into the trap of thinking their attorney is in charge, directing every move—but that’s not how it has to be. In this episode, host John Nachlinger, Esq. shifts the perspective and helps you understand that you are the one in control. Your attorney is there to guide and support you, but ultimately, you’re the decision-maker, shaping the course of your future.

John draws from his experience as a seasoned divorce attorney and mediator to shed light on how clients can take charge of their divorce process. This empowering conversation is filled with actionable advice, practical strategies, and valuable insights that will help you see divorce not as a situation happening to you, but as a phase where you hold the power to create the best outcome for yourself.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why the attorney is a navigator, not the driver, in your divorce.
• The importance of understanding the legal process and setting your own goals.
• How to identify what matters most to you and advocate for it effectively.
• Why letting go of a “win-at-all-costs” mentality can lead to better results.
• Tips for keeping your emotions in check to make clear-headed decisions.
• How to partner with your attorney for a more collaborative, productive approach.
• Examples of how taking control can save time, money, and unnecessary stress.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to reclaim their power during a divorce. Whether you’re at the start of the process or in the middle of it, John’s insights will help you approach divorce with a sense of purpose and direction.

Tune in to learn how to embrace your role as the driver of your divorce and take the first steps toward creating a future that’s yours to shape. Your destiny is in your hands.

Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!