The Courage to Speak: Reclaiming Power After Childhood Sexual Abuse

Hard Beautiful Journey - A Podcast For Healing, Personal Growth and Emotional Resilience

What if the truth you've never said out loud could be the very thing that sets you free? In this raw and powerful conversation, I’m joined by Kath Essing—author, speaker, and survivor of childhood sexual abuse. We talk about the body’s wisdom, what healing really looks like, and why speaking your truth—out loud—can be both terrifying and life-giving. Whether you're a survivor, a support person, or just human, this episode will change the way you listen, support, and show up.

Chapters:

0:00 – Introduction

2:10 – Who is Kath Essing today?

5:33 – How her body remembered the trauma

11:45 – Talking to kids about consent & safety

18:20 – Navigating family reactions

23:10 – When the legal system fails survivors

29:44 – Writing The Courage to Speak Your Truth

36:02 – What survivors really need from loved ones

41:00 – Somatic healing, breathwork, and embodiment

46:55 – Becoming an advocate

51:30 – Final thoughts + gratitude

Connect with Kath:

Website: https://www.bespeak.au

Instagram: @kath_essing

Facebook: BeSpeak Consultancy

Connect with me:

Instagram: @iamtiffcarson

Free Healing Meditation: https://www.tiffcarson.com/meditation

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