Unworthy of Love – Alex Devereux on Self-Doubt, Relationships & Fear of Failure

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What happens when you don’t believe you deserve love? Alex Devereux opens up candidly about how his deep-rooted feelings of unworthiness led to the breakdown of his relationships, leaving him stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage and heartbreak.

We also explore his chronic fear of failure and how it affected his professional life, keeping him from taking risks and truly believing in his own potential. But beyond the struggles, Alex shares the lessons he’s learned about self-worth, setting boundaries, and what a healthy relationship actually looks like.

In this powerful and honest conversation, we discuss:

• How feeling unworthy of love can sabotage relationships.

• The negative impact of always giving without expecting anything in return.

• Why healthy boundaries are essential and how to set them.

• What a healthy relationship truly looks like—and how to break free from toxic cycles.

• Overcoming the fear of failure and learning to show up fully in life and love.

Alex’s story is a reminder that putting yourself first isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, unhealthy relationship patterns, or fear of failure, this episode will give you the insight and inspiration to start putting yourself first and how believing in ability is necessary in order to follow your dreams and do what you love. Passionate about personal development and developing others, Alex is full of wisdom and intelligence who you'll want to listen to and learn from on repeat. An episode you won't want to miss.

You can find Alex on LinkedIn: Alex Devereux or through his website: ajdevereux.com

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https://www.relate.org.uk/