216: Most Men Have No Idea What Happens in Divorce Court Until It’s Too Late

Hustle Over Everything

In this candid conversation, Alex Whitfield sits down with Ontario divorce lawyer Justin Lee to unpack the realities of marriage, divorce, and what entrepreneurs often overlook when it comes to love and legacy. From legal strategies to cultural taboos, this episode dives deep into the personal and professional consequences of modern relationships.

Topics covered include:

• How divorce courts really work in Ontario

• Common mistakes entrepreneurs make before marriage

• The truth about prenups — who they protect and who they don’t

• Why men often lose in court and how to prepare

• Real stories of million-dollar divorces in Toronto

• How to protect your business and assets before it’s too late

• Cultural taboos in the Black community around marriage and divorce

• Advice for young entrepreneurs who want love and legacy

Chapters:
00:00 Intro
03:08 Understanding Divorce Law and Its Impact
05:54 The Importance of Prioritizing Relationships
08:55 Cultural Perspectives on Marriage
11:49 Men's Roles and Expectations in Relationships
14:51 The Subtle Signs of Relationship Decline
18:11 Personal Experiences with Divorce
21:13 Reconciliation: Is It Possible?
24:03 The Nature of Love and Marriage
27:06 Prenuptial Agreements: A Necessary Discussion
30:05 Financial Considerations in Marriage
33:06 Long-Term Projections in Relationships
41:16 The Emotional Disconnect in Professional Advice
44:07 The Irrationality of Divorce Decisions
46:14 Understanding Legal Strategies in Divorce
49:40 The Cost of Legal Representation
52:28 The Underlying Reasons for Divorce
56:36 The Role of Love Languages in Relationships
01:00:51 The Impact of Financial Disparities on Relationships
01:05:09 Navigating Business Partnerships in Marriage
01:09:11 Accountability and Faults in Relationships
01:14:16 Cultural Influences on Divorce Perspectives