The Art of Pretending: Unmasking Con Artists with Javier Leiva

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Javier delves into the motivations behind con artists' actions, revealing how their charm and charisma can easily ensnare unsuspecting victims. He discusses the blurred lines between cults and con artists, emphasizing the similarities in their tactics of control and manipulation. Through captivating anecdotes, he illustrates how individuals can become entangled in these webs of deceit, often questioning their own reality and self-worth.

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The Art of Pretending: Unmasking Con Artists with Javier Leiva

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