If You’re Not Your Biggest Fan, You’re Doing Life Wrong

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You’ve been told self-obsession is toxic. That it’s vain, selfish, arrogant. That you need to be humble, selfless, and always available. But I’m here to tell you the opposite. Being self-obsessed—in the right way—might be the greatest thing you ever do for yourself.

This episode isn’t about becoming a narcissist. This is about flipping the script on years of conditioning that taught you to shrink yourself, to constantly give, to apologize for taking up space. This is about becoming your own biggest fan. Because if you don’t back yourself, who will?

Let’s talk about what it really means to be self-obsessed:
It means prioritizing your goals like your life depends on it—because it does.
It means treating your mental health, your peace, your time, and your body like royalty.
It means setting boundaries so hard they echo.
It means being so locked in on becoming your best self that the noise of the world fades out.

In a world that profits off your insecurity, self-obsession is rebellion.
It's not selfish to say no. It’s not rude to want more. It’s not wrong to choose yourself.
What’s wrong is wasting your one shot at life trying to be liked instead of being legendary.

In this episode, I’ll break down how to practice self-obsession in your daily life—how to curate your habits, your people, your energy, and your routines around becoming her/him/them. I’ll give you real talk, no fluff. We’ll unpack the guilt, the hesitation, and the fear—and then I’ll walk you through how to drop all of that and move like you’re the main character… because you are.

Let the world call it selfish. I call it strategy.

Tune in. Take notes. And prepare to become obsessed—with you. #selfobsessed #maincharacterenergy #personaldevelopment #chooseyourself #levelupmindset

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