It's Time to Detach

It's Time with Jillian Melissa

Welcome to It’s Time with Jillian Melissa. In this soul-expanding episode, Jillian dives into the deep and tender terrain of attachment, detachment, and the spiritual lessons that lie beneath both. From cinnamon roll metaphors to tunnels under Harvard, she weaves personal story with sacred insight, offering a transformational perspective on how attachment shows up in relationships, manifestations, and identity.

You’ll journey through the lens of twin flames, attachment theory, and intuitive manifestation, gaining clarity on why detachment isn’t apathy—but a deeper surrender to divine timing. Jillian explores how attachment is often rooted in early wounding and how it keeps us spiritually stagnant, blocking the flow of true love and abundance.

Whether you're navigating a soul connection, questioning your attachment style, or feeling stuck in obsession or longing, this episode offers a loving, truth-filled tunnel to the other side.

What You’ll Discover:

• The difference between detachment, avoidance, and healthy unattachment
• How to spot spiritual bypassing in manifestation culture
• Twin flames vs. toxic obsession
• Understanding anxious, avoidant, and secure styles
• The connection between discipline, nervous system regulation, and real love

Chapters

00:00 – It’s Time: A Portal of Love and Truth (spiritual awakening, podcast intro, soul evolution) 00:29 – Cinnamon Rolls & Manifestation Timing (manifesting with patience, divine timing, spiritual metaphor) 01:56 – Why We Struggle With Waiting (energy healing, nervous system regulation, surrender practice) 04:33 – Attachment as a Tunnel to Transformation (emotional healing, inner child work, identity shifts) 06:58 – Let’s Talk About Attachment Theory (anxious attachment, avoidant dynamics, secure love) 13:08 – Manifestation, Desires, and the Lie of Detachment (spiritual bypassing, new age traps, twin flame wounds) 17:09 – Codependency vs. Divine Love (trauma healing, relationship patterns, codependent behaviors) 24:11 – Unattachment vs. Detachment (emotional clarity, mindfulness, energy codes) 30:10 – Healing Identity-Based Attachment (ego death, self-worth, transformation) 35:15 – Attachment Theory & Mother Hunger (attachment wounds, childhood trauma, inner safety) 49:20 – Twin Flames, Obsession & Letting Go (twin flame journey, divine union, spiritual tests) 56:09 – How Attachment Blocks Wealth & Abundance (money mindset, spiritual wealth, detachment) 01:06:43 – Final Blessings: Love is What Prevails (channeling love, faith in divine order, spiritual guidance)

spiritual attachment healing, twin flame obsession, how to detach from outcome, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, codependency in relationships, manifestation and trust, divine timing, healing attachment wounds, spiritual growth podcast, detachment vs unattachment, mother hunger, healing inner child, how to heal your attachment style, secure attachment practices, nervous system and manifestation

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