Reflections: Podcast Status Update (March 2025) Jeffrey Van Leeuwen podcast

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In this revealing episode, adult content creator Harper The Fox takes us from a wholesome Midwest childhood to the cutting edge of digital entrepreneurship. Harper explains how a lifelong love of theater, music, and being seen led her to experiment on Chatroulette, pioneer live webcamming, making the move to OnlyFans, and building her other creative projects. Along the way she addresses stigma around sex work, shows why empathy and authenticity matter most, and reveals the human stories behind an industry too often judged at arm’s length. You’ll learn Harper’s path from performance dreams to adult-entertainment innovator, the “aha” moment that led her to OnlyFans, why she calls it the “anti-loneliness business,” the marketing techniques she used (like “Spin the Wheel” and viral parody songs) that fueled her growth, and how she balances privacy, parenting, and her public persona. This is a must-listen for anyone curious about human desire, digital creativity, and forging genuine connection in a judgmental world. Thank you for listening. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Reddit Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn OUTLINE: 01:10 Harper’s Early Life 09:41 Exploring the Roots of Harper’s Interest 14:34 Disgust, Openness & Breaking Stigmas 17:28 Good vs Bad Faith Conversations About Adult Entertainment 21:43 Entering the Adult Entertainment Industry 28:41 Early Days on Webcam: New Opportunities & Unexpected Adventures 42:41 Navigating Risk & Safety 45:54 The Good & Bad of Webcam Sites 59:27 Dopamine, Instant Gratification & Healthy Consumption 01:08:55 Youth, Porn Addiction & Parenting Responsibilities 01:19:49 Harper’s Journey onto OnlyFans 01:21:02 OnlyFans vs Patreon 01:30:50 Building an Audience: Marketing & Social Media 01:41:22 Authenticity, Humor & Acting 01:44:09 Harper The Fox: Persona or Reality? 01:50:21 Final Reflections & Thoughts HARPER THE FOX LINKS: Harper's YouTube Channel Harper's Instagram Harper's X Harper's OnlyFans (NSFW / 18+) Harper's Movie (NSFW / 18+) CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason. This episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.…

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#33 - Philosophy Professor: Why Postmodernism Rejects Absolute Truth | Anthony David Vernon 1:57:15

11 days ago1:57:15

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In this episode, Jeffrey van Leeuwen talks with adjunct philosophy & ethics professor Anthony David Vernon about the significance of postmodernism, fascism, and nationalism in today's society. Anthony explains how understanding multiple narratives helps combat dangerous ideologies and why recognizing different perspectives is crucial for meaningful discussions. Key areas that are covered: * The real meaning of postmodernism * How fascism and hyper-nationalism gain traction * The relationship between religion, science, and truth * Practical approaches for societal reconciliation * The challenge of fairness and historical accountability SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Reddit Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn OUTLINE: 01:12 Defining Postmodernism & Grand Narratives 03:40 Postmodernism's Relationship with Religion & Science 11:18 Friction Between Postmodernism & Grand Narratives 13:53 Emotions & Rationality in Decision-Making 16:57 Postmodernism as a Historical Tactic 22:05 Religion Through a Postmodern Lens 31:23 Navigating Multiple Narratives & Avoiding Overload 34:34 What is Fascism, Nationalism & Nazism 49:02 Immigration Policy: Myths, Realities & Reforms 01:01:41 The Attractiveness of Nazism & Hyper-Nationalism 01:18:01 Apologies, Reparations & the Quest for Fairness 01:35:40 What Is Fair? 01:49:06 Final Thoughts & Future Hopes CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason. This episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.…

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#32 - Wealth-Building Expert: Make Money Work For You, Not Against You! | Daniel C. Rodgers 1:38:48

18 days ago1:38:48

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In this powerful episode, former project manager Daniel C. Rodgers reveals exactly how he overcame over $100,000 of debt to retire early and achieve financial independence. Daniel shares practical insights on budgeting, saving, investing, and explains why most people remain financially trapped despite earning a steady paycheck. You’ll learn Daniel’s strategies for escaping debt, why he fired nine financial advisors, and how to build genuine wealth through disciplined investing and smart decision-making. This is a must-watch for anyone who wants more control over their money, financial freedom, and the ability to retire early. Thank you for listening. EPISODE LINKS: Buy Escape The Clock (book) Visit Escape The Clock Website Listen to Escape The Clock Podcast (Spotify) Listen to Escape The Clock Podcast (Apple) By using this link, we earn commission from qualifying purchases. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Reddit Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 07:04 Family Expectations 11:51 Family Struggles 17:04 College Debt & Skill Development 24:51 Escape The Clock 27:26 The Power of Good Storytelling 35:11 Retirement vs. Financial Independence 48:02 Taking Control: Spending, Saving & High-Yield Accounts 55:19 "Boring" Investing: ETF's, Dividends & Passive Income 01:08:58 Exploring the FIRE Movement & Financial Advisors 01:21:57 Empowerment Through Self-Education 01:25:30 Fatherhood, Storytelling & The Value of Time 01:36:22 Final Thoughts DANIEL C. RODGERS LINKS: Daniel C. Rodgers on LinkedIn CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason. This episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.…

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#31 - Natural Introvert: This is How I Learned To Speak With Confidence | Nick Field 1:42:45

25 days ago1:42:45

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In this episode, I speak with Nick Field, an investment manager based in Sydney, Australia, who began with a fear of public speaking. We chart his journey from awkward school debates and scripted speeches to founding speaking clubs to help others speak with confidence. Nick shares his top takeaways: how layering technical expertise with simple metaphors wins over any audience; the balance between obsessive preparation and playful improv; using stories to create empathy; and negotiating from genuine curiosity, not force. By the end, you’ll have concrete tools to find your own voice—introverts, this one’s for you. Thank you for listening. EPISODE LINKS: Buy Never Split The Difference By using this link, we earn commission from qualifying purchases. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 01:08 Nick’s Background & Passion for Public Speaking 04:52 Early Struggles with Communication 07:32 Turning Points & Realizations 08:37 Childhood Experiences & Public Speaking Anxiety 15:19 Learning to Speak Confidently 23:17 The Power of Playful Communication 24:34 Why Facts Alone Don’t Engage Audience 28:02 Preparation vs. Improvisation 39:18 Dealing with Mistakes & Speech Anxiety 44:29 Practical Tips for High-Pressure Speaking 47:19 Audience Engagement Strategies 52:50 Simplifying Complex Ideas for Diverse Audiences 59:08 Personal Approaches to Public Speaking 01:03:26 Understanding the Audience & Telling Effective Stories 01:10:15 Handling a Hostile Audience 01:21:05 Navigating Personal Criticism & Resistance 01:26:48 Emotional Management & Deflection 01:39:57 Closing Thoughts CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason. This episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.…

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#30 - Ex-Israeli Soldier: Here’s What People Don’t Understand | Danny Orvomaa 1:32:00

5 weeks ago1:32:00

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In this episode, former Israeli soldier Danny Orvomaa opens up about his experiences serving on the tense border with Gaza. Through a deeply personal and candid conversation, Danny sheds light on the realities of military life and the complex dynamics of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Danny explores the dangers of societal complacency, and how being unprepared can lead to devastating consequences, as exemplified by events in Europe and Israel. He reflects on his time in uniform and the challenges of safeguarding communities from terrorist threats. This episode also delves into topics often avoided: the misunderstood narratives around Zionism and the intricate geopolitics involving Gaza, the West Bank, and Hezbollah. Thank you for listening. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn DANNY ORVOMAA LINKS: Listen to Talking Ass Podcast (Spotify) Listen to Talking Ass Podcast (Apple Podcasts) OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 01:13 Who is Danny Orvomaa? 05:49 The Dangers of Complacency 10:58 Israel’s Complacency & October 7th 17:06 What Is Israel’s Endgame? 20:40 Solving the Middle East Conflict 26:03 Gaza, Hamas, and Indoctrination 30:57 Serving in Two Armies 40:32 Life as a Soldier on Gaza’s Border 52:57 What is Zionism? 59:28 The Complexity of Picking Sides 01:08:24 Beauty Amid Conflict 01:12:19 Podcasting & Speaking Publicly 01:22:49 The Risks of Speaking Publicly 01:30:35 Closing Thoughts CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason.…

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#29 - The Art of Negotiation: Lessons from Decades of Experience | George van Houtem 41:28

7 weeks ago41:28

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In this episode, I speak with George van Houtem, a negotiation expert and author of multiple books, including The Dirty Tricks of Negotiation and The Psychology of Negotiation. In our conversation, we explore the art of negotiation, discussing practical techniques, their effects on people, and how to recognize and handle manipulative tactics (or “dirty tricks”) effectively. George reveals why successful negotiation is not simply about compromise but about genuinely understanding the other party’s motivations, collaborating with them, and working towards deals that work for everyone. By listening to this episode, you’ll gain practical insights to enhance your own negotiation skills, so that you can work towards creating true win-win outcomes. Thank you for listening. EPISODE LINKS: Buy The Dirty Tricks of Negotiating Buy The Psychology of Negotiation By using these links, we earn commission from qualifying purchases. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn GEORGE VAN HOUTEM LINKS: George van Houtem on LinkedIn OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 02:28 Why Should People Learn To Negotiate? 03:22 When is Something a Negotiation? 07:28 Techniques To Understand The Other Party 10:52 Common Misconceptions About Negotiation 13:26 Compromise vs. Collaboration 16:23 Navigating Conflict in Negotiations 19:05 Handling Stubborn Negotiators & Power Dynamics 23:42 Knowing When to Walk Away 25:32 When Does a Negotiation Actually Start? 29:30 How Can Silence Be Deployed? 32:13 Avoiding the Trap of Too Much Talking 36:04 Ethical Lines: Real Negotiation vs. Dirty Tricks 38:52 Recognizing Manipulation 40:12 Closing Thoughts & Outro CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason.…

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#28 - Words Can Destroy You, or Save You | Huguette Bourgeois 2:16:47

8 weeks ago2:16:47

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Huguette Bourgeois is a poet and writer from the small Canadian town of Rogersville, New Brunswick, where she grew up during the early 1950s. Known for her deeply reflective and profoundly personal style, she has published multiple works, including Alysse: An Acadian Refugee, a collection of short stories capturing the memories of her childhood and teenage years. Her recent work, Raw Sweets, is a collection of poems exploring life’s harshness, beauty, and unfiltered truths. In this deeply personal conversation, Huguette shares the profound impact poetry and language have had on her life—guiding her through moments of intense personal tragedy, including her son’s diagnosis with schizophrenia, and leading her toward self-discovery and authenticity. She reflects openly on her complex relationship with faith, spirituality, and the existential questions that arise from hardship, ultimately suggesting there may be dignity in living—and dying—with uncertainty. Throughout the episode, Huguette reveals how embracing life’s darkness, doubt, and solitude can become a source of strength, creativity, and profound human insight. Thank you for listening. EPISODE LINKS: Buy Huguette Bourgeois' Raw Sweets Buy Huguette Bourgeois' Alysse: An Acadian Refugee Buy Huguette Bourgeois' Le bleu de Mon Ile (French) Buy Dostoyevsky's Crime and Punishment Buy Dostoyevsky' The Brothers Karamazov By using these links, we earn commission from qualifying purchases. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 01:45 What is Poetry? 09:10 Stories of Writing Poetry 19:37 Poetry as a Path to Spirituality & Meaning 23:54 Finding Your Voice 35:27 The Dark Side of Agreeableness 43:50 The Importance of Asking Questions 48:56 Authenticity & Identity 56:21 Echoes of Rejection & Love in Childhood 01:03:54 Love, Loss, and Happiness 01:08:32 Youngest Son’s Schizophrenia Diagnosis 01:17:03 Believing in God 01:33:52 The Danger of Blind Faith 01:44:06 Does Poetry Find the Poet, or Vice Versa? 01:48:06 The Endless Possibilities of Words 01:55:22 Can Words Fully Capture The Human Experience? 02:02:34 Fiction, Dragons, and The Human Experience 02:09:52 Closing Thoughts 02:15:17 Outro CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason.…

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#27 - How Jiu-Jitsu Builds Confidence, Discipline, and Humility | Clifford Edwards 1:42:00

10 weeks ago1:42:00

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How do you respond when life gets tough? Clifford Edwards chose Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. In this episode, Clifford shares powerful stories from his own journey, revealing how martial arts can teach confidence, humility, and focus. Discover how Jiu-Jitsu prepares you for challenges on and off the mats, and why it’s never too late to start. Thank you for listening. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn CLIFFORD EDWARDS LINKS: Clifford Edwards' Instagram Jiu Jitsu Labs The ABC's of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (Online Course) OUTLINE: 02:20 Growing Up in Aruba & Early Chess Experiences 07:52 Family Situation 10:58 Discovering Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 16:46 Mindfulness & Mental Clarity Through Jiu-Jitsu 21:21 Safety & Focus of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 26:21 Definition: Structures & Frames 28:55 Advice For People Interested In Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 37:42 Training Intensity 47:01 Progression & Skill Building 55:17 The Blue Belt Clichés 01:00:37 The Importance of Structured Learning 01:06:39 Definition: Specific Sparring 01:13:08 Injuries 01:21:43 Belt Progression & Experiences at Each Level 01:28:16 Benefits Beyond Jiu-Jitsu 01:35:23 Distance Management 01:37:21 Clifford’s Future Plans 01:38:44 Final Thoughts & Outro CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason.…

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#26 - Your Choices Define Who You Truly Are | Joseph B. Barbosa 2:18:55

11 weeks ago2:18:55

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In this episode, we dive into the fundamentals of ethics and morality, exploring how ancient philosophies like Aristotle’s virtue ethics, Kant’s deontology, and utilitarianism shape our modern decisions. We talk about ethical dilemmas, confront tough questions about intentions and consequences, and offer practical insights on developing personal ethics. Thank you for listening. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn JOSEPH B. BARBOSA LINKS: Joseph B. Barbosa's Instagram OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 02:21 Exploring Ethics and Morality 05:42 Aristotle, Beauty, and the Pyramid of Ethics 11:06 Ethics as an Upward Aim 16:35 Aristotle & Virtue Ethics 20:48 Vices, Virtues, and the Concept of Sin 25:58 Deontology: Rules and Human Dignity 29:54 Utilitarianism & the Trolley Problem 35:57 Can You Justify Sacrificing One for Many? 40:58 The Paralysis of Decision-Making 48:18 Good Intentions and Ethical Decisions 56:52 Pursuing Truth and Shared Responsibility 01:08:49 Meaning, Purpose, and Telos 01:14:39 How to Develop Personal Ethics 01:19:43 How to Know if You Truly Believe Your Ethics 01:27:05 Law vs. Morality: What if the Law is Wrong? 01:34:24 Can You Change Your Intention? 01:39:00 Is Every Action Ultimately Self-Serving? 01:49:38 Negotiation as Ethical Collaboration 02:01:22 Is it Ever Ethical to Lie? 02:09:28 Bringing Ethics into Daily Life 02:15:40 Final Thoughts & Outro CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason.…

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#25 - Introducing Our Original Podcast Music | Sofia Lasa 1:19:54

12 weeks ago1:19:54

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In this very special episode, I’m excited to introduce something brand new and deeply personal to the podcast—our very own original music! Composed by the incredibly talented Sofia Lasa, this beautifully crafted sound marks a significant milestone for the show. Throughout the conversation, you’ll hear the music as we dive into Sofia’s creative process, the inspiration behind the composition, and what this music means for the podcast moving forward. Please enjoy the music, and join me in discovering the story behind the sound that will become synonymous with the podcast. Thank you for listening. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn SOFIA LASA LINKS: Sofia Lasa's Music on Youtube Sofia Lasa's Music on Spotify Sofia Lasa's Music on Apple Music Sofia's IMDB Page Sofia's Instagram Account CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason.…

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Reflections: Podcast Status Update (March 2025) 16:38

14 weeks ago16:38

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In this episode, we’ll discuss the upcoming changes to the podcast and what you can expect in the near future. I’m excited to share plans to get new interesting guest on, along with updates to our production process and overall quality. Thank you for listening. CONTACT LINKS: To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact/ PODCAST LINKS: Podcast Website: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/ Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/4lLpEXA Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYy YouTube Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG RSS: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/feed.xml SOCIAL LINKS: X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwen Patreon: https://patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwen…

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Reflections: How Video Games Both Enriched & Derailed My Life 30:38

16 weeks ago30:38

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In this episode of Reflections, Jeffrey van Leeuwen takes you on a personal journey through 30 years of video gaming. He shares nostalgic memories—from tinkering with early Windows 3.1 computers and playing games off floppy disks, to the more sophisticated adventures of MS-DOS classics, console classics, and finally the immersive and thought-provoking world of Silent Hill. Rather than making a case for or against video games, Jeffrey offers an honest look at how gaming has shaped his life, and opened doors to unexpected opportunities (and pitfalls). Thank you for listening. CONTACT LINKS: To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact/ PODCAST LINKS: Podcast Website: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/ Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/4lLpEXA Spotify: https://spoti.fi/42kcOYy YouTube Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOv56NTjNAeK7cUVamIPioSCsr06-vSGG RSS: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/feed.xml SOCIAL LINKS: X: https://x.com/RealJvanLeeuwen Patreon: https://patreon.com/JeffreyPvanLeeuwen…

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#24 - Emotional Presence: Empathy’s Promise & Peril | Adam Ayala 2:04:40

17 weeks ago2:04:40

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In this episode, Jeffrey and psychoanalyst Adam Ayala delve into the intricate dynamics of empathy and emotional presence, drawing insights from John Madonna’s work and tactical empathy techniques. They explore the fine lines between sympathy, empathy, and pity, while unpacking complex concepts like transference and soul murder. The conversation offers practical and thought-provoking guidance on navigating the promise and peril of empathy in both personal and professional contexts. Thank you for listening. EPISODE LINKS: Buy Never Split The Difference: https://amzn.to/4hFEgom Buy Emotional Presence in Psychoanalysis: https://amzn.to/3EBE5we By using these links, we earn commission from qualifying purchases. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn ADAM AYALA LINKS: Find Adam Ayala on Rumble Listen to Adam Ayala on Spotify Book Adam Ayala OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 02:40 Emotional Presence & Empathy 13:59 Sympathy vs. Empathy 31:17 Misguided Empathy & Soul Murder 45:16 Balancing Assumptions & Inquiry 01:18:47 Philosophy in Psychoanalytic Training 01:28:31 Genuine Empathy vs. Manipulation 01:46:24 Suffering Well 01:50:03 Modern Perspectives on Freud & Jung 02:03:18 Final Thoughts & Outro CONTACT LINKS: To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact/ This episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.…

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#23 - Individuation & Alchemical Transformation of Personality | Wyatt Chabeniuk 2:12:01

18 weeks ago2:12:01

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In this episode, Wyatt Chabeniuk and I explore the profound connections between alchemy, Jungian psychology, and personal transformation, discussing how the process of individuation mirrors the alchemical journey from base metals to gold. We dive into themes of sin, virtue, transmutation, and balancing the masculine and feminine within ourselves to achieve wholeness and purpose. Through rich metaphors, ancient wisdom, and modern insights, we uncover how understanding the unconscious can guide us toward becoming the highest versions of ourselves. Thank you for listening. SHOW LINKS: Support the Show Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn OUTLINE: Not available CONTACT LINKS: To come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any reason, visit: https://podcast.jeffreyvanleeuwen.com/p/contact/ This episode has been co-produced by Kate van Leeuwen.…

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Reflections: How Empathy Transforms Our Communication 22:22

19 weeks ago22:22