Mastering The Art of Conscious Conversations With Chuck Wisner

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In this episode, I talk with Chuck Wisner, author of The Art of Conscious Conversations, to explore how conscious communication can transform our relationships and professional lives.

We discuss:

- The power of internal narratives in shaping our external interactions.

- How to use self-reflection to reveal and adjust our personal biases and judgments.

- Practical strategies for fostering better storytelling, collaborative, creative, and commitment-focused conversations.

Challenge: At [0:50:40], Chuck encourages us to write four key elements on a sticky note: desires, concerns, authority issues, and standards. Use this tool in your next conversation to investigate your own thinking and as a template to ask great questions.

Resources:

- Chuck's Website

- Chuck's LinkedIn

41 episodes

#Careers #Business #Self-Improvement #Christina Wenman #Podcasting Education #I Talk

Mastering The Art of Conscious Conversations With Chuck Wisner

Learning From Your World

published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

In this episode, I talk with Chuck Wisner, author of The Art of Conscious Conversations, to explore how conscious communication can transform our relationships and professional lives.

We discuss:

- The power of internal narratives in shaping our external interactions.

- How to use self-reflection to reveal and adjust our personal biases and judgments.

- Practical strategies for fostering better storytelling, collaborative, creative, and commitment-focused conversations.

Resources:

- "The Art of Conscious Conversations" Book

- Chuck's Website

- Chuck's LinkedIn

41 episodes

#Careers #Business #Self-Improvement #Christina Wenman #Podcasting Education #I Talk

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