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Living Without Fear - You Come First | With Esther Buerki
Manage episode 478732586 series 3242805
Have you been giving so much that you’ve forgotten how to receive?Do you feel what others need almost instantly, but when it comes to your own needs… you pause, hesitate, or even ignore them?
You’re not alone. Maybe you’ve been the strong one. The caretaker. The one who listens deeply and holds space for everyone else. But who holds space for you? If you’ve ever felt tired but kept saying yes… If you’ve ever picked up the phone when you wanted to rest… If you’ve ever put yourself last because it felt too hard to say no… I see you. Truly, I do.
But here’s the truth you might need to hear today:You are allowed to set boundaries. You are allowed to take a break. You are allowed to say, “I come first.” This doesn’t make you selfish—it makes you whole.
And yes, I know it’s not always easy. Especially when it comes to family. You might be afraid someone will be hurt, or think you don’t care. But setting boundaries isn’t about shutting people out—it’s about letting your truth in.
And if you ever need someone to walk beside you as you learn to say “no” with love and “yes” to yourself, I’d be honored to be that guide. You don’t have to do it alone.
BOOKS:
📕 Read LIVING WITHOUT FEAR (Biography & Self-Help Book):http://www.livingwithoutfear.ch
📕 Buy INSPIRED JOURNEYS (Amazon Bestseller): Go to Amazon 👉 search for Esther Buerki 👉 find INSPIRED JOURNEYS
Are you in Switzerland or Germany? Use this direct link:https://amzn.to/3gg1reG
DO YOU WANT TO GET COACHED BY ESTHER?
✨ Book a free Discovery Call:https://swissmadestory.ch/links
✨ Follow Esther on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/esther_buerki
✨ Join Esther on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/esther.buerki1
✨ Connect with her on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbuerki
DO YOU WANT TO START WRITING YOUR BOOK?
✍️ Take the free 5-Day Writing Challenge:https://www.estherbuerki.com/writing-challenge
✍️ Find free resources and online programs:https://www.estherbuerki.com
✍️ Join Esther on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbuerki
✍️ Get in touch with Esther through e-mail:contact@swissmadestory
271 episodes
Manage episode 478732586 series 3242805
Have you been giving so much that you’ve forgotten how to receive?Do you feel what others need almost instantly, but when it comes to your own needs… you pause, hesitate, or even ignore them?
You’re not alone. Maybe you’ve been the strong one. The caretaker. The one who listens deeply and holds space for everyone else. But who holds space for you? If you’ve ever felt tired but kept saying yes… If you’ve ever picked up the phone when you wanted to rest… If you’ve ever put yourself last because it felt too hard to say no… I see you. Truly, I do.
But here’s the truth you might need to hear today:You are allowed to set boundaries. You are allowed to take a break. You are allowed to say, “I come first.” This doesn’t make you selfish—it makes you whole.
And yes, I know it’s not always easy. Especially when it comes to family. You might be afraid someone will be hurt, or think you don’t care. But setting boundaries isn’t about shutting people out—it’s about letting your truth in.
And if you ever need someone to walk beside you as you learn to say “no” with love and “yes” to yourself, I’d be honored to be that guide. You don’t have to do it alone.
BOOKS:
📕 Read LIVING WITHOUT FEAR (Biography & Self-Help Book):http://www.livingwithoutfear.ch
📕 Buy INSPIRED JOURNEYS (Amazon Bestseller): Go to Amazon 👉 search for Esther Buerki 👉 find INSPIRED JOURNEYS
Are you in Switzerland or Germany? Use this direct link:https://amzn.to/3gg1reG
DO YOU WANT TO GET COACHED BY ESTHER?
✨ Book a free Discovery Call:https://swissmadestory.ch/links
✨ Follow Esther on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/esther_buerki
✨ Join Esther on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/esther.buerki1
✨ Connect with her on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbuerki
DO YOU WANT TO START WRITING YOUR BOOK?
✍️ Take the free 5-Day Writing Challenge:https://www.estherbuerki.com/writing-challenge
✍️ Find free resources and online programs:https://www.estherbuerki.com
✍️ Join Esther on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbuerki
✍️ Get in touch with Esther through e-mail:contact@swissmadestory
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