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54: Bad Relationship Advice and How to Avoid it-Part 1
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Ellen Dorian kicks off Season 2 of Make More Love by addressing bad relationship advice, categorizing it into vague, dumb, and wrong. This episode focuses on vague advice, highlighting its ineffectiveness and offering practical alternatives.
Part 1: The Problem with Vague Advice
- Ellen introduces three types of bad relationship advice: vague, dumb, and wrong.
- She emphasizes the importance of proper diagnosis in relationship issues.
- Ellen introduces the Make More Love Relationship Dynamics quiz as a diagnostic tool.
Part 2: Analyzing Vague Advice
- "Communication is key" - Ellen explains why this advice is insufficient without context.
- "Your partner always comes first" - She discusses the challenges of balancing this with real-life obligations.
- "Just be supportive" - Ellen highlights the ambiguity of this advice and offers better approaches.
Part 3: Practical Solutions
- Ellen provides specific questions to ask when facing relationship challenges.
- She emphasizes the importance of defining what "putting your partner first" means in your relationship.
- Ellen shares personal strategies for being supportive without defaulting to problem-solving mode.
Key Takeaways:
- Vague advice can lead to misunderstandings and frustration in relationships.
- Clear communication and agreed-upon definitions are crucial for relationship success.
- Balancing work and relationship priorities requires open dialogue and mutual understanding.
Call to Action:
Ellen encourages listeners to try her suggestions and share their experiences. She also invites them to take the Make More Love Relationship Dynamics quiz for personalized insights.
Closing Thoughts:
Ellen emphasizes the importance of moving beyond vague advice to create meaningful connections and understanding in relationships.
Support & Resources:
Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
Disclaimer:
The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.Support & Resources:
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