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57: Have You Fallen for the Worst Relationship Advice?
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Ellen Dorian challenges the popular notion that "all you need is love" in relationships, arguing that this oversimplified view can lead to failed marriages. She discusses why love alone isn't sufficient for building resilient partnerships and outlines what's truly necessary for long-term relationship success.
Part 1: The Problem with "All You Need is Love"
- Love is not enough to sustain long-term relationships
- Believing love is all you need can cause you to ignore real issues
- Love is not a strategy for solving relationship problems
- This belief can lead to disillusionment when love doesn't solve everything
Part 2: What Love Really Is
- Love is an ongoing choice to prioritize and care for another person
- It includes affection, emotional intimacy, and shared investment
- Real-world love requires multiple elements working together
Part 3: Three Pillars of Successful Relationships
- Inclusive purpose: shared values and goals while honoring individual dreams
- Intentional presence: giving full attention and being attentive to your partner
- Intrinsic passion: maintaining a consistent undercurrent of intimacy and attraction
Key Takeaways:
"All you need is love" is good for songs, not real life
- Bad advice sets you up for failure when love doesn't fix everything
- Smart couples invest in their relationship continually and seek expert help
Call to Action:
Book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com to address specific relationship issues and develop a customized plan.
Closing Thoughts
Relationships need a customized foundation built on purpose, presence, and passion, supported by skills, systems, and strategies.
Support & Resources:
Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and In Your Life'" - Ellen Dorian
Disclaimer:
The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations.
Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show
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