Reading the Room: How One Cafe Intervention Changed Everything

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Have you ever felt that unmistakable pull in your gut telling you to speak up, even when it's uncomfortable?

That moment when your intuition screams so loudly you can't ignore it? In this episode, I share a powerful, real-life story from a quiet morning at my local cafe that reminded me what it means to trust that inner voice.

This wasn’t about being polished or perfect—it was about presence, compassion, and interrupting energy that needed to be redirected. I talk about what it means to speak up with clarity and conviction, and why sometimes fire is exactly what cuts through the noise. If you've ever wondered whether your voice matters, this one’s for you.

Timeline Summary:

[0:00] - Why I’m dropping back-to-back episodes before heading to Bali.
[1:49] - A moment that reminded me to trust my gut.
[2:53] - A tense cafe encounter and choosing to speak up.
[6:25] - The power of compassion and presence.
[8:17] - Reading the room and shifting energy.
[11:03] - A surprising apology and the energy shift that followed.
[11:59] - A reminder to use your voice—even when it shakes.

Listen to Ep. 69: There Are No Rules HERE

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Chapters

1. Introduction Before Trip to Bali (00:00:00)

2. Podcast Welcome and Premise (00:01:07)

3. Meeting Luke at the Cafe (00:02:15)

4. Confronting Luke's Behavior (00:04:03)

5. The Importance of Speaking Up (00:08:56)

6. Closing Thoughts and Call to Action (00:12:43)