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1 Edita Birnkrant and Tracy Winston: The Horse Who Collapsed in the Street 37:03
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“I could be walking in Central Park and come up on one of these horse and buggies. I don't think twice about it because I see it as part of the New York attraction. You know, you have the Statue of Liberty, you have Times Square, and you have these romantic horse and buggy things where people get married in the park and they ride these carriages. And tourists, they take these rides in Central Park. It's romantic, it's something beautiful to see. But I never thought for one second that these horses are abused.” – Tracy Winston, juror from Ryder’s trial New York City has a big, visible animal cruelty issue: horses forced to pull carriages, carrying heavy loads for long hours in all types of weather in the middle of chaotic traffic. Three years ago, a carriage horse named Ryder was a victim of this cruelty. He collapsed on a Manhattan street after being worked for hours in the summer heat. Two months later, he was euthanized. His story sparked global outrage. Ryder’s driver, Ian McKeever, was charged with animal cruelty The trial took place a few weeks ago, but McKeever was ultimately acquitted. This conversation is with Edita Birnkrant, the Executive Director of NYCLASS and Tracy Winston, one of the jurors from Ryder's trial. New York’s weak and outdated animal protection laws have not changed since Ryder died— and because of this, another avoidable death that occurred just a week after we recorded this interview. On August 5th, a horse named Lady died while pulling a carriage in Manhattan. This conversation is about accountability, about corruption and about what happens when justice fails the most vulnerable. It's too late for Ryder and Lady. But it is not too late to act. If you live in New York, please call your City Council members and tell them it’s time to bring Ryder’s Law, Intro 967, up for a vote and pass this vital bill to protect carriage horses from suffering and death on the city’s streets. To find your council member, go to: https://www.speciesunite.com/ny-horse-carriage-petition NYCLASS: https://nyclass.org/…
Craziest Thing in School
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What's the craziest thing you were allowed to do in school? Was is it as crazy as being allowed to play with real swords? Plus, what your voice really says about you.
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Ridiculous Excuses For Missing Work A new Reddit thread is reminding us that people will say just about anything to get out of work. What is your story? "I was once late to work because I was glued in my apartment. They replaced the carpet in the common hallway overnight, and were too enthusiastic with the glue by my door. I had to wait until maintenance arrived at 8 a.m., so they could body slam the door from the outside." "My grandparents had a medical emergency years ago where one got stuck on the toilet, and when the other tried to help, they fell and knocked themselves unconscious. " "Flushed my car key down the toilet. It was me, and I certainly did." "Got bit on the finger by a squirrel while tossing a coffee cup into a parking garage trashcan." "A guy I worked with in retail 15 years ago called in to say he had a nightmare and didn't think he'd be able to get back to sleep and come in to work five hours later." "I was running a shift and had a girl call in sick, saying she was too distraught to work because Zayn had left One Direction." "I had to call in late once because my stairs were gone. Of course, it was a huge violation by the condo, and we had no way out of our second-story walk-up. Absolutely ridiculous, and fortunately, the photos I sent my boss were enough to excuse my tardiness." Coupes Who Gossip Together Are Closer Most couples gossip, and it turns out, that can be good for their relationship. According to a new study from University of California, Riverside, couples who gossip together are happier and more satisfied in their romance and share a deeper bond. Researchers tracked 76 couples using a portable listening device and found they spent an average of 29 minutes a day gossiping with their partner and those who did more frequently reported higher levels of happiness and better relationship quality. Cleaning Is My Love Language Forget words of affirmation or physical touch, a new survey finds that 54% of Americans say cleaning is their love language. The research from Seventh Generation also finds that 85% consider cleaning up for someone else an act of love. Nearly two in three respondents admit they’ve been turned off by someone’s messy home and a third have even ended a relationship because of a partner’s lack of cleanliness.⠀ Second Date Update Taylor met Harper met on Tinder. They went to dinner; food was good, the drinks were good. After one follow-up text, she has ghosted.…
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Habits People Picked Up After Visiting Other Countries A post in the travel subreddit asks, “What’s something you adopted into your lifestyle after visiting another country?” Nearly a thousand Redditors responded with the habits and products they’ve added to their routine after learning about them while traveling abroad. From a bidet discovered in Japan to individual comforters for each partner after a trip to Denmark, these things are now a part of travelers’ lives. Worst Pick-Up Lines For Online Dating “Hey” or “Hi” - Nothing screams generic laziness like typing two or two three letters and nothing else. “You’re hot” - Some people may consider this a compliment, but it’s objectifying and inappropriate for a first message, and it shows no respect. “What are you doing right now?” - You wouldn’t greet a stranger in a bar like this, so don’t do it online either. “Why are you on here?” - there’s no point in asking this, as it sounds kind of judgy and can make someone defensive. Quiet Firing There are some clear signs of quiet firing and these are the most common, according to HR and career experts. Being excluded from meetings - If you’re suddenly not invited to meetings you were once a key part of, that’s a serious red flag they may be passively letting you go. Shifting responsibilities - Sudden changes in your workload, whether they’re piling it on with unrealistic goals or sticking you with meaningless projects, that could be a bad sign. If you get vague or no answers, that’s a red flag. Support decreases - They may pull back on support, leaving you feeling abandoned or alone, and making it tougher to handle your workload. If you feel like it’s unbearable and you just can’t do it, then you’ll quit and that’s the idea. Development stops - If your future at the company used to be discussed, but now you’re passed over for promotions or raises for no apparent reason, that’s a clear sign of quiet firing. And in some cases, this can drag on for years. Policy-driven quiet firing - Employees being required to return to the office can be a form of quiet firing, as some employers expect some workers to decide to leave the company instead. Second Date Update Damon met Bridget online. They both games of any kind from cards to cornhole. They picked a board game cafe to have their first date. Now, she has ghosted.…
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Corey Has Psychic Anxiety At least three times in my life, I have had crazy emotions the day before something bad happens. In high school, after a cross country run I started crying for no reason. The next day, my parents announced they were getting a divorce. The day before the guy I thought was the one dumped me, same thing. I had crazy anxiety Monday...my dad had a bad fall Tuesday morning. (He's okay) How do we cash in on this? Sleep Maxing More Americans are investing in better rest through products, routines and lifestyle changes, reshaping both bedrooms and behaviors along the way. This includes redesigning bedrooms to tracking sleep with wearable devices . The most popular sleepmaxxing tools Americans are using include white noise machines or soundscapes (38%), blackout curtains (36%), melatonin or sleep gummies (34%), and following a strict sleep/wake schedule (24%). Over 40% say they’ve given up or at least cut back on scrolling, caffeine and late-night drinks. Four C's Of A Strong Relationship Communication. Talk things over…even what makes you angry. Cooperation. It extends to everything from chores to the bedroom. Compromise. You don't have to change who you are to compromise on something. Consummation. Intimacy is such a vital part of a happy marriage, but don't ever use intimacy against them. Second Date Update Damian and Valerie met online and found that they both really enjoy trying new wines. They pick wine-tasting in Petaluma for their first date. What could cause Damian to ghost?…
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1 Why Is Handwashing More Important In The Summer? 35:09
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Things To Get You Going Besides Coffee Sun exposure - getting sunlight it in the morning is actually energizing on a neurological level. Movement - a quick stretch, some yoga poses, or a brisk walk outside can boost energy by improving circulation, increasing dopamine and helping you feel less groggy. Meditation and breathwork - Even five minutes of meditation can help boost energy, quiet mental noise and help with focus. Vocal vibe shift - the practice of just humming, singing or light vocalizing, which stimulates the vagus nerve and regulates the nervous system. Cold water - Splash a little cold water on your face to boost mood, help with alertness, improve focus, and even boost stress tolerance. Hobbies That Make Men More Attractive Reading Learning a foreign language Playing a musical instrument Cooking Woodworking Painting Writing Gardening Swimming Photography Handwashing Is More Important In Summer Using public restrooms and shared toilets - Whether it’s at an outdoor festival, a gas station stop during a road trip, or a beach bathroom, these high-traffic areas can be breeding grounds for bacteria like E. coli, salmonella, coronavirus and more. Cooking and eating outside - Barbecues and picnics are a lot of fun, but if food is left out in the sun or meat isn’t cooked thoroughly, someone could easily end up with food poisoning. Swimming and water play - Lakes, rivers, swimming pools and oceans can all contain harmful germs and parasites, which can be resistant to chlorine. Beach sand and seawater can even carry fecal bacteria. Camps, playgrounds and festivals - Kids are at higher risk of infection during the summer thanks to group settings like summer camps, playgrounds and soft play centers. But doesn’t getting dirty help build kids’ immune systems? - Yes, early exposure to natural microbes in soil, from animals or the environment can help support immune development, but this isn’t the same as skipping handwashing after using the toilet or preparing food. Second Date Update Armie and Melinda met on Hinge and she felt so comfortable, they had their first date at his place. Now she is being ghosted.…
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1 Has Corey Outed Herself As A Terrible Person...Again? 34:03
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Corey Is A Terrible Person...Again. The previous owner of my home wrote me note asking if she and her brother could come visit the house over the weekend. I never got back to her. I didn't want to give out my number. Am I awful? How To Sneak In More Movement Do some squats or wall sits while your food is heating up Bike or walk to errands Take the stairs Walk while you talk on the phone Get active while watching your favorite show Use a desk treadmill or walking pad Do calf raises while brushing your teeth Tips For Getting Back On The Fitness Track I started exercising again. I tried not to overdo it. Until my knee gave out and I was on the floor. Any tips for getting back into the groove? Any embarrassing workout stories? Second Date Update Caleb met Roxanne on Tinder. Their first date is cocktails in Berkeley. He can't believe she is ghosting.…
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1 What Does The Perfect Day Break Down To Be? 27:40
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Marcus and Corey discuss the formula for a perfect day, college versus just getting a job and what reminds you that you are not young anymore.
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Marcus and Corey talk about Gen Z using AI to save money and grab great hacks, Saturday self care and the new trend, "Dilly-Dallying."
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Marcus and Corey discuss the "Coffee Nap," romanticizing your workout and how to keep your kids safe in an AI world.
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1 Do You Ever Forget Why You Walked Into A Room? 25:41
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Marcus and Corey discuss wedding etiquette, why you might need brain camp, healthy eating habits and more.
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Marcus and Corey tackle Second Date Update, good news and What You Know 'Bout that.
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1 Could You Turn Your Side Hustle Into A Full Time Job? 35:08
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Mic Drop Moments Sometimes, life hands you a standing ovation for opening a stubborn jar, and honestly, that’s the kind of energy we need more of. A recent study finds that every day “mic drop moments” are all around us. What is one of yours? Knowing the answer to a quiz show Discovering when you go to pay for something it’s actually discounted Making someone laugh with a perfectly timed joke Sailing through multiple green traffic lights in a row Ticking off everything on your to-do list Catching something which has been thrown at you quickly Fixing a tech issue for someone Life Before My Spouse/ My Kids As much as you love your significant other, what is something you miss from being single: The lack of responsibility and obligations. The rush of 'firsts' — that first date rush/nervous feeling. Holding hands for the first time, first kisses, the first time having sex with someone. Not ever having to be accountable for random stuff I do around my own house. Being able to come home from work and not speak a single word. Deciding on what to have for dinner without a second opinion. Side Hustles That Could Lead To Full Time Work According to a recent Gallup poll , more than 60% of Americans want to be their own boss. While a full-time job pays the bills and has benefits, it doesn’t give you the freedom to be in charge, and that’s what makes side hustles so appealing to some people. Tour guide - Being passionate about parts of your city and knowing how to show people around is the key and you can use sites like Facebook, Upwork and Viator to market yourself. Some tour guides report making an average of $100 to $300 per tour, sometimes much more. AI Services - Know your way around ChatGPT or similar tools? There’s a demand for those skills. Online courses - Whether you’ve had some business success others can learn from or have hobbies or skills people are interested in, think about putting together an online course to sell on Etsy, Skillshare or Udemy. Medical coding - If you’re properly certified and know how to review records for accuracy and help with data entry, this income stream can become a full-time job. Fashion designer - Several clothing and jewelry brands started as side hustles, so why not yours? One success story is Kate Sullivan, founder of Sage Vintage, who started the handmade jewelry company as a side hustle and brought in over $500,000 in revenue last year. Graphic design - Know your way around Canva or Photoshop? Sites like PeoplePerHour and 99designs can help you find your client base and as you build a portfolio and establish a reputation, your business could take off. Second Date Update Felicis calls about Nolan. They met on Hinge. They decided to go for burgers in Alameda After the date, Nolan ghosted.…
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Why We Forget Things...AKA Brain Fog Medications - Drugs known to impact memory include (anxiety meds like Xanax and Valium, statins (used to control cholesterol), anti-seizure meds, beta blockers, antidepressants, opioids and a certain class of sleeping pills. Depression or anxiety - When you’re depressed, your brain is not working at 100%. It’s not paying attention to things as well as it usually does, and the memory areas are not doing what they usually do. Diet - Research links ultraprocessed foods with cognitive decline and an increased risk of dementia. Sleep - Not getting enough sleep can make it harder to concentrate, learn new things and create new memories, according to the National Institutes of Health . Trouble hearing - New research suggests a connection between hearing loss and brain health, but hearing aids can help. The study links hearing aids with a 19% lower risk of long-term cognitive decline. Multitasking - Being distracted affects your ability to focus and remember things, and one study finds that multitaskers often have trouble recalling information. And they were young people. Restuarant Red Flags It’s dirty The place is empty - If it’s a Monday night, this isn’t concerning, but if the dining room is empty during peak hours on a weekend... There’s no management presence - Managers are visible in the dining room, greeting customers, talking to tables and helping servers when needed, but if you can’t tell who’s in charge, it might be because no one is. It’s overloaded with social media influencers - Sure, they can help get people in the door, but they might be getting special treatment and freebies to promote a restaurant. The staff argues with you - Mistakes will be made, but staff members should own it and try to make it up to you when that happens. It doesn’t matter how good the food is, if the staff argues with you, it ruins the experience. Servers don’t know the menu - It shows poor training and “a lack of pride in the product.” You’re being upsold aggressively - When it feels like a script or they’re harassing you, it’s a sign the restaurant is struggling and doesn’t care about hospitality as much as sales. New Cheating Emojis According to private investigator Paul Jones from ARF Private Investigators, there are some random, innocent-looking emojis that aren’t really so innocent. Jones says that if you find your partner texting the croissant or padlock emojis, they’re probably cheating on you. “On the surface, it might look innocent, but there’s usually a deeper meaning,” Jones explained. “We’ve had people using a croissant emoji as a way of saying ‘meet me for breakfast,’ or the letter emoji as a subtle ‘text me when you’re free.'” Second Date Update Dean and Ariel met on Hinge, and after a fun back-and-forth over messaging, they decided to meet in person. Their first date was sushi and sake bombs in Fremont. She has pulled a Casper.…
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1 Smart People Ignore These Phrases During Work Meetings 33:02
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Tsunami Warning After the earthquake in Russia, we got tsunami warning. We talked about what you should really worry about and what to stay away from. Things Smart People Ignore In Meetings The obvious blame shift Buzzwords with no substance Recycled ideas presented as new ones Passive-aggressive digs When someone is constantly interrupting others People who talk a lot just to be heard Vague promises with no timeline A humble bragger The unrealistic deadlines The endless tangent Credit misdirection How Do You Tell Someone They Wear Too Much Perfume At Work? Second Date Update Lorenzo and Heather went for Italian in Mountain View on Castro St. She thought he was charming and the date was awesome, but he has vanished.…
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1 How Much Is Too Much When It Comes To Cyberstalking? 34:48
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The Right Amount of Cyberstalking Experts say this is how to decide on the right amount of pre-first-date research: Focus on sensible “cyberstaling” - Start with verifying what you already know about them. Confirm they work where they say they do by checking out their LinkedIn and get a feel for their personality by scrolling through their Instagram. When it becomes overkill - Things like running a paid background check or combing their social media profiles to do a deep dive into their past and looking at their ex’s tagged photos are definitely too much. Check for red flags - Not having an online footprint is a major one. Even if they don’t like social media, most people have a LinkedIn profile, if they don’t and you feel like something is off, you may want to reconsider meeting up in person. Don’t overprepare - This is a date, not a job interview, so don’t spoil the genuine way you get to know someone by researching more than you need to. Feeling Financially Comfortable We are not talking annual salary, this is total. Americans don’t need a million dollars to be financially comfortable, just $839-thousand will do it, according to new research from Charles Schwab. Their survey reveals that figure is much lower than the $2.3-million people consider wealthy. When asked to define what “wealthy” means to them, respondents’ top three are happiness (45%), “amount of money I have” (44%) and physical health (37%). Corey's Brain When I am trying to sleep, it is like three movie screens are playing. One is playing music from the 'Mary Poppins' soundtrack, another is questioning whatever happened to my college boyfriend...this third is me counting back from a 100, version of counting sheep. Does anyone else have a multiplex churning when they just want to rest? Second Date Update Maya met Eric online. They are both into fitness and health, so take a yoga class for their first date. They even enjoyed smoothies afterwards. Why would he ghost?…
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What Would You Do For Million Dollars? For the chance to score a seven-figure payday, 43% of Americans would ditch their romantic partner, according to a new survey. More than half (59%) would disappear and start a new life for a million bucks, while 41% would give up sex forever and 27% would marry someone they didn’t love. Nearly half (46%) of the 2-thousand respondents would even participate in a real-life “Squid Game” competition for a shot at winning $33-million.⠀ Wildest Things Kids Brought To School “A baby opossum — in his backpack that he found at the bus stop that morning.” “Sixth grader brought ‘brownies’ and gave them to the ENTIRE grade level. There were students sitting against the walls on both sides of the hallway in the main office waiting to get interviewed by law enforcement.” “A life-sized cardboard cut-out of Ruth Bader Ginsburg. We propped her up in the window of the door overnight and scared extended-care folks and the janitor.” “Fifth grader brought weeks-old Jello shots from Mardi Gras.” “A kitten he found on his walk to school.” “Aztec death whistle.” “An expired Twinkie they had found on the bathroom floor.” “First grader brought his mom’s copy of ‘Kama Sutra’ and asked me to read it to the class.” “All the rent money from a mom’s purse.” “Student ... unzips hoodie to reveal a boa constrictor snuggled around her neck.” “Grandma’s wig. The good one. Gave it to me for Christmas.” “Fuzzy handcuffs that she said her mom loves.” Kids Embarrassing Their Parents “I made the mistake of telling my kid that if he didn’t eat, he wouldn’t grow. He told a person with dwarfism in the checkout line at the store that they needed to eat so they would grow.” “My son at 5 years old dropped a deuce in the toilet display at Lowe’s.” “Just paid for an item at Walmart and walked out without it in a bag. My kid said loudly, ‘Are you stealing that?? We have to pay!’” “My daughter would ask every man she saw if they were her dad. Me and her dad were, and still are, together. She saw him daily, she just insisted on asking every man .... she even asked people when her dad was with us.” “When my daughter was 4, we were having breakfast in a restaurant and she asked the elderly lady next to us why she wasn’t in heaven yet.” “I told my son he couldn’t eat chips until we got home. He responded loudly, ‘But Mom, we don’t have a home.’ We very much did, and everybody at the store started offering housing resources.” “Walked into Wendy’s and my 2 and 1/2 year-old looks at a lady and said in her loud, squeaky voice, ‘That lady is OLD. She’s going to die soon.’ Every head turned to look at said woman. We did not eat at Wendy’s that night.” “My 5-year-old son asked if the gas station guy with the turban was a genie.” “My son loved to fake drown at water parks.” “My son told the pediatrician when he was 7 or 8, ‘My mom doesn’t make us wear seatbelt and we duck if we see a cop.’ NEVER HAPPENED and I was so speechless, I couldn’t even react.” “My daughter asked the .... cashier (who was missing some teeth) if she ever brushed her teeth before.” Second Date Update Amanda calls us about Eli. They went out for drinks in Mountain View after meeting online. She thought he was attractive and smart, and they had a few hours of great conversation. Now nothing.…
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Red Flags You Are Getting Scammed Between AI, texts, DM's...scams are around every corner. Emergency Overload: Scammers love to trigger your panic response with emergencies like“Your grandson’s in jail!” or “You owe the IRS!” and that’s because freaked-out people don’t ask questions. Too Fast, Too Furious: That “limited-time offer” or urgent request? It's likely a scam in disguise. Whether it’s fake tech support asking for authorization or a “can’t-miss” investment, scammers know pressure equals poor decisions. New Number Who This?: Just met someone who suddenly needs cash? Yikes. Badge of Deception: If an “officer,” “lawyer,” or “FBI agent” you’ve never met is suddenly in your business, it’s probably a con. They Ask You To Pay? You Say “No Way!”: If someone’s asking you to pay with a gift card, crypto, or Venmo for tech support or bail money, run. Tips To Make Yourself Instantly Likeable Image – Present yourself as a “person worth knowing” by looking clean, put together, wearing clothes that accentuate your positive vibes and intentions, and pay attention to the body language you’re emitting Authenticity – People can sniff out insincerity a mile away…and they’re way more attracted to someone who is authentic and the real deal Empathy – There aren’t enough people in this world willing to show they give a damn about more than themselves and their self-interest. Taking a genuine interest in others makes them feel special and cared about Positivity – We can all agree there’s too much negative crap out there, so don’t contribute to it…people flock to positivity Speak Like You Want To Lead – Stay away from slang and cursing, remember names, and don’t be afraid of sincere compliments Leave A Better World – Leave people smiling, and leave them laughing, inspired, and eager for their next experience with you What We Love About Summer This is according a survey of 2000 adults. The smell of a grill (87%) Spending time at the beach or lake (68%) Swimming in a pool (68%) Driving with the windows open or the top down on a car (58%) Going to fairs or festivals (52%) Staying up late at night (49%) The smell of sunscreen (45%) Chasing fireflies (24%) Second Date Update: Devon and Marissa met in real life waiting in line at a food truck. They exchange numbers and plan a first date at a bar hosting a trivia night. What could have gone wrong?…
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Jacob & Maggie went for drinks and appetizers in Walnut Creek. They were only supposed to have drinks, but things were going so well...they ordered food. But now she has ghosted.
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1 Would These Phrases Actually Help You Avoid Extra Work? 38:32
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Phrases To Use To Avoid More Work: How do you think your boss would respond to these? “I'd love to help, but my plate is full right now” “Let me check my schedule and get back to you” “I don’t think I’m the best fit for this but I’d be happy to support you in another way” “Let me revisit this at a later date” “That’s outside my current scope, but I can help brainstorm ideas” “I’m stretched pretty thin right now. Can anyone else jump in?” “I’d hate to slow things down. Maybe someone else would be a better fit?” “This isn’t something I can take on right now, but let me know how I can help in another way” “If it’s urgent, you might want to check in with someone who’s available” “I’m not going to be able to take that on today” “I have other urgent priorities right now” Vow Of Silence Summer Gen Z women are swapping “hot-girl summer” for “vow-of-silence summer.” Instead of beach trips and dating apps, many are booking week-long stays at Catholic convents and monasteries, where they communicate only by writing notes or using simple hand signs. TikTok clips by early participants show peaceful gardens, structured prayer times, and long stretches of quiet that help them unplug from burnout, something researchers say hits about 250,000 Americans before age 30. The clips have sparked viral curiosity, filling guest lists months ahead and prompting jokes about an Airbnb-style app for convent beds. Commenters say the retreats feel like “therapy you can afford” and praise the nuns for welcoming visitors who just want stillness. Plus, the nuns are recruiting. Interesting Observations in Paris I forget how many people smoke in other countries...tons of smoking and vaping. It was really weird hear the Pirate of the Caribbean sing Yo ho, yo ho in French. No top sheets. Its the mattress cover and a duvet. Really stingy on ice and it was 98-degrees. Second Date Update: Christian and Anna met through mutual friends. He even picked her up for the date. Did he pull a move in the car she didn't like?…
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1 Corey Recaps Her Paris Trip & Did Something That Surprised Marcus. 36:46
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Corey Pulled A Marcus On Vacation The heat was the only drawback; they were breaking records for the heat which slowed us down just a bit. So, when we were in Disney...my husband crashed. I wasn't going to waste our fast passes or the fireworks show. So, I went solo. I was so happy I didn't miss it. Wandering Off When Traveling A father on Facebook posed this question: For the first time, we’ve decided to put together a vacation for the entire family. Not only are my wife and kids going, but our parents, siblings and their families are all going. It sounded like a great idea, at first, but I soon learned that I was the only one that wanted to do things like hiking and scuba diving. Everyone else just wants to sit on the beach and drink. So, now I’m debating how much of a “family” guy I’m willing to be. After all, it’s my vacation, too, right? What’s a reasonable amount of time during a week to break off and do my thing without coming off as a total a-hole to the rest of the family? Jeff Isn't Built For Europe Well, Disneyland Paris. Every time he had pull a harness down on a ride, all I would hear is "owwwweeeee." He said he ducked on the darker roller coasters in fear of being decapitated. He was a trooper though. Second Date Update: Jeff and Heather had such a great first date that they ended up at her place for a little hot tubbing. Did Jeff do something in the tub to turn Heather off?…
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1 Do You Have Specific Nicknames For Your Co-Workers? 7:41
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We have realized that we have a terrible habit of nicknaming our colleagues and they are not that nice. For example: Big Nose and American Pyscho.
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A conversation on Reddit caught our eye. A man is claiming after being on Ozempic, he has "gained some inches down there."
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How To Declutter Your Social Life Bad Habits We Are Guilty Of What Does Dad Really Want? Second Date Update: Jesse and Vanessa had 3 zoom calls before actually meeting in person. What did Vanessa observe in real life that made her ghost?
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Surprising Things You Had To Teach Your Husband, For Ex: "I taught my husband that simply letting the water rinse the soap off his body wasn’t cleaning his feet. He had never actually 'washed' his feet." Things Happy Couples Do Without Their Phones Try each other's hobbies Schedule regular check-ins Engage in parallel play Create rituals and routines Cook together Laugh Take long walks Play board games Have deep conversations Sit in silence Talk about their days How To Recharge Within 5 Minutes, This Helps. Second Date Update: Keith and Sandra went on a date, turns out they live in the same apartment complex. He invited her in, what did she see at his place to make her ghost?…
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How Do We Get The Jeff To Declutter? Corey's in-laws are coming in town on Saturday, and she is desperately trying to get the house in order. She has her areas maintained, but Jeff's stuff is everywhere. He has a million pairs of Nike shoes, his hot rod tires, a tire jack, miscellaneous stuff everywhere, etc. How does she approach the subject without treating him like a child? She doesn't want to feel like his mom. How Much Would You Spend For Peace & Quiet? According to the poll of 2-thousand U.S. adults, the average American would pay $2,521 for just one day of peace and quiet. Sure, that’s a huge amount of money, but parents would be willing to shell out even more - $1,147 more, on average. The average person only gets 9.5-hours a month to themselves. The biggest things standing are work (50%), family commitments (32%), financial constraints (24%), and social obligations (22%). But 13% admit they actually feel guilty when they finally get free time. More than half (53%) say they need more alone time than they’re getting now, and it turns out, they’re not above being dishonest to get it. More than a third (38%) confess they’ve lied to friends, family, or even their partner to get some time to themselves. “I’m not feeling well” is the most common lie told (54%), followed by “I have a lot of work to do” (40%), “I have a headache” (33%) and “I have an appointment” (33%). To have just a lazy morning to themselves, parents would pay an average of $325, and people would be willing to spend $339.80 just for one extra hour of sleep. Crazy Wedding Dress Mom Everyone knows that only the bride should wear white to a wedding. It seems one mother of the groom didn’t mind making this major faux pas when her son tied the knot, but she took it to the next level and showed up in a full bridal gown and veil to match. A now-viral Reddit post from someone claiming it happened at their cousin’s wedding. "Everything was going smoothly until the groom's mother walked into the hall in a full-length white gown. Lace sleeves. Sparkly belt. Veil," the guest writes. “She looked like she was about to walk down the aisle herself.” As you’d expect, everyone was shocked by her attire, even the bride and groom, and the mom reportedly told people it was “tradition” in their family for the mother of the groom to wear white. “To make things worse, the groom’s mom tried to stand next to the bride and groom during the vows, and even held the bride’s bouquet at one point,” the post explains. During the reception, the mother was introducing herself to people as “the first woman in his life.” Despite her mother-in-law’s fashion choice, the bride managed to remain calm and her new husband reportedly kept telling her, “I’m so sorry” over and over. Let’s just hope this mom let the newlyweds go on their honeymoon alone! Second Date Update: Amber calls us about Craig. She says they had a lovely meal together and now he's ghosting. Did she do something to his food?…
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1 Did Marcus Finally Man-Splain To The Wrong Person? 34:58
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Marcus Finally Got Got In Vegas, Marcus was doing his typical man-splaining to bartenders. He is very specific about his cocktails. Well, he finally met his match when he ordered a traditional Spanish cocktail at a nice Spanish restaurant. It's called carajillo and it is made with espresso and Liquor 43. However, he asked to add a premium tequila. She was taken aback and clearly unhappy he was messing with this classic drink. When he got the bill, she charged him not only for the cocktail, but for an extra shot for the tequila. Total? $40 for one drink. How would you ask? Would you explain what you want or ask how they make it? Little Things That Annoy Us When they see someone that they don’t want to talk to - 46% A knock on the front door when they’re not prepared for guests - 44% People talking to them when they want silence - 43% When their Wi-Fi is lagging or cuts out - 40% Listening to someone chewing loudly - 40% Phone calls when they’re not expecting one - 34% Someone near them heavy breathing - 25% Their alarm clock/alarm - 21% Text message alerts - 16% Their phone/notifications going off during a meeting - 15% What Dad Really Wants For Father's Day A new survey reveals what dads want most for Father’s Day this year and it couldn’t be easier to shop for it. It turns out, nearly 60% of dads just want to spend time with their kids for their special day. While 15% of fathers say they don’t want anything at all, 28% of those who would like a gift say they’d prefer one that’s simple and heartfelt, like something handmade.⠀ Second Date Update: Al & Cynthia are both divorcees looking for a second chance. However, Cynthia has ghosted. Did Al say something to turn her off?…
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1 Marcus Had Some Highs & Lows In Vegas This Weekend 37:45
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Vegas Was Roller Coaster of Emotions Marcus was in Vegas this weekend. The good news is that he came home a winner. The bad news was the turmoil on his flight home. They literally had to turn the plane around to remove a passenger. When Riding in the Car, What Are The Rules for Being a Passenger? Passengers complaining, followed by blocking the mirrors and reaching for the invisible brake. Drivers also don’t like it when the people throw wrappers on the floor or mess with the radio. Watching loud videos on their phone or sticking their feet on the dashboard Passengers having loud phone conversations and not giving accurate directions are frustrating, too. The poll finds that 17% of women think their partner is an annoying passenger and a “backseat driver,” but 69% of men feel they’re a good passenger. Nearly two-thirds (62%) of men prefer being in the driver’s seat and 42% admit they like being in control. Close to half of men (45%) believe they’re a better driver than their partner, but 32% of them confess that changes when they need their partner to be the designated driver. Among the guys who prefer to be the driver, 15% admit they don’t like the way their partner drives. But in 20% of couples, men do the driving as part of their relationship “chore split” they agree to. And for 43% of couples, car trips regularly end in arguments, and some are so bad, 19% don’t speak to each other for a while afterwards. Corey Threw Something Out She Might Regret Later I have moved a lot, and I am trying to declutter. One of the things I purged was something that cannot be replaced ever...cuz I burned it. Second Date Update: Amy calls about John. She liked him a lot. However, did she admit to being related to a killer?…
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Things In Your Bathroom To Throw Out Now Product packaging: Put cotton swabs in glass jars, instead, and you'll turn your bathroom into a spa-like experience, just by decluttering. Free cosmetic samples: They sit in cabinets or drawers for much longer than they should. Duplicates of anything: we're talking about having duplicate hot tools and toiletries. You don't need one hand soap dispenser, not multiple. The same goes for shampoos and hair products, too. Abandoned toiletry products: Don't let it just sit on your counter or in your cabinet, though. Ask a friend if they want to try it; they may like it! Expired medications and beauty products: Medications especially will lose its effectiveness and could even be harmful if used when expired. Beauty products, too, can irritate you or harbor bacteria when expired. Old bath towels and wash clothes: As a rule of thumb, hand towels, bath towels and wash clothes should be replaced every two years. Most likely, your toothbrush: Experts say you should replace it every three months, so if it's been longer than that, throw it out. 2025 Summer Trends Rustic Farmhouse - Rustic aesthetics and farmhouse cottage interiors are becoming more popular, with searches for “farm cottage aesthetic” soaring by 911% . “Thrifted home decor” is also very trendy, searches for it have increased 488%. Digital Detox Summer - People are ready to ditch their screens and embrace nature this summer. Interest in nature travel is on the rise, including searches for” nature retreats” (up 72%) and “relaxing in nature” (up 32%). Urban Farming and Garden-to-Table Cooking - Pinterest users are taking inspo from an expert in these areas, Martha Stewart, with searches for “Martha Stewart aesthetic” skyrocketing 2,889%. Crafting Ideas - people plan to get crafty, with searches for “cute summer crafts” rising 106%, “summer knitting projects” jumping 64% and “book club crafts” up 558%. Nostalgic Fashion - The boho trend from the early 2000s is back in style. Searches for “boho chic summer outfits” have soared 1,071%, “crochet short dresses” climbed 2,030%, and those for “2000s summer dress” are up 483%. Things Dating Your House Word Art - Trade out those “live, laugh, love” signs with real paintings on your walls. Contemporary abstract painter. Use coastal artwork in calming colors like white, sea blues and greens as a replacement for that statement art. Matchy-Matchy “Themed” Accessories - Take your time curating a collection of things you love from traveling, family heirlooms and things that mean something to you. Bowl-Shaped Light Fixtures - According to designer Liz Goldberg, “Nothing screams 90s rental builder grade more than this light fixture!” She advises switching to anything other than glass bowl-shaped flush mount lights, sometimes called “boob lights.” Cold Neutrals - The time for playing it safe with cool grey and greige neutrals has passed, and designers suggest updating your home with warmer neutrals for everything from walls to bedding. Neutral Linen Furniture - Design experts also recommend swapping neutral linen furniture pieces for furniture in deep hues or printed jacquard. If you love your current pieces and they’re still in good condition or new furniture isn’t in your budget, consider reupholstering what you have. Second Date Update: Eduardo and Christine met at a party and even made out. Now, she has ghosted. Was it something he called her?…
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1 How To Change Your Perspective By Shifting Your Thoughts 36:41
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Thoughts Shift That Will Change Your Perspective: Perspective really is powerful. We can be our own worst enemies and get in our own way. All it can take is a different way of thinking to help us overcome that obstacle. Instead of saying “I’m not ready” say “No one really is” Stop calling it procrastination, start calling it fear Ditch the guilt spiral Instead of saying “What if it goes wrong?” say “What if it’s worth it?” Drop the idea that self-sabotage is about “low self-esteem” Stop romanticizing the struggle Stop defining yourself by past mistakes Stop thinking you need to “find your purpose” Consider fear a sign you’re close to something big Let go of the idea that “consistency” means doing it perfectly Questions To Ask Before Traveling With Your Pet : If you’re planning on traveling with your pup this summer, there’s a lot of planning involved. It’s a popular trend with globalvetlink.com finding that “78-percent of American pet owners travel with their pets each year.” Are there dog-friendly accommodations? Would my dog enjoy this destination? Is the climate safe and comfortable for a dog? How long is the trip and how will they handle the transportation there? Can I bring everything I need to keep them safe and happy away from home? Is transit accessible to dogs? What are the rules, requirements and restrictions? Will there be easy access to veterinary care and other canine services? Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater A study followed close to 2-thousand participants over three years, having them play a series of games that measured dishonesty. According to the results, cheating isn’t just the result of a mistake, it’s a part of someone’s personality that never goes away. When participants played games they were told study authors couldn’t check to see whether their response was truthful or not. They could get away with lying about their answers and no one would know, and it turns out, many of them did. Over and over again over the three-years. Researchers found that if someone cheated in the first game, they were way more likely to cheat in the second and third games. Those who cheated were a lot more likely to do it again, no matter what the stakes or context were. But the reverse was also true, those who were honest in game one were much more likely to be honest in the other games. Study authors found two big predictors of chronic dishonesty: low scores in something called “Honesty-Humility” and high scores in the “Dark Factor,” which is a combination of narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy personality traits. They also found if someone lies easily and often, it might just be who they are and not a momentary lapse in judgment. Second Date Update: Reagan and Tim had dinner in downtown Martinez. Reagan can't think of anything that would have turned Tim off on the date. However, she may have done something after the date.…
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How To Kick the Snooze Button Habit: Waking up several times interrupts and fragments sleep, which means you’ll cycle back and forth between light, non restorative sleep and being awake, which isn’t restful. It can leave you feeling tired and groggy when you finally get out of bed. It reinforces bad sleep habits On top of not feeling rested, alert and at your best, the sleep expert points out that consistently not getting enough sleep can raise the risk of weight gain, cardiovascular disorders, metabolic disorders and even dementia. Fortunately, you can break the sleep-snooze cycle by: Making sure you’re getting enough sleep to feel truly rested, which is between seven and eight hours a night for most folks. Sticking to a consistent sleep schedule, which Auckley notes is easier if you time to rise to when your internal body clock starts to wake you up. In the morning, try to resist hitting snooze and get up as soon as your alarm goes off. Getting morning light exposure as soon as possible when you wake up, which helps keep your internal clock in sync and improves alertness. Have a positive morning ritual to look forward to, whether it’s enjoying freshly made coffee on your porch or catching up on sports scores. Things You Are Still Wasting Your Money On: ATM Fees In 2025, paying ATM fees is almost a fool’s errand. With so many online banks offering free ATM withdrawals and brick-and-mortar banks offering a large network of free ATMs or ATM fee reimbursement, paying several dollars a month is seemingly avoidable. Simply put, there’s no reason to waste money on fees just to access your own cash so even if it takes planning ahead, make sure you omit this expense. Bottled Water Shockingly, people continue to spend money on bottled water, even given both the financial and environmental downfalls. If you don’t trust your tap water, even the cost of installing a filter or having one in your fridge can make it worth your money in the long run. Stop paying for something you can essentially get for free and invest in a quality reusable water bottle for when you’re on the go. Brand-Name Medications Unless you’re specifically advised by your doctor, opting for brand-name medications over their generic counterparts is a pointless expenditure. Generic drugs have the same active ingredients and undergo the same quality control as their branded counterparts. Switching to generics can save you hundreds or even thousands of dollars annually without compromising on health. Cable TV Subscriptions The world has moved on from traditional cable television, but many are still holding onto it — along with its hefty bill. Streaming services like Netflix, Hulu, and Disney+ offer customizable viewing options for a fraction of the price and even bundling options. If you’re still paying for a bloated cable package, it’s time to cut the cord and switch to more budget-friendly entertainment options. Extended Warranties Retailers love to upsell extended warranties, but the truth is, they’re seldom worth it. Most products are built to last for at least the length of their original warranty, and by the time they break, chances are you’d be looking to upgrade anyway. Instead of shelling out for extended warranties, set aside a small emergency fund for when things really go wrong. Fast Fashion Cheap, trendy clothing may seem like a good deal, but fast fashion is a money pit. These clothes are usually poorly made and fall apart after just a few wears, forcing you to constantly replenish your wardrobe in a never-ending cycle for your closet and nearest landfill. Instead, invest in quality, timeless pieces that last longer. You’ll not only save money but also reduce your environmental footprint. Premium Gas for Non-Luxury Cars Unless your car specifically requires premium gasoline, you’re throwing money away by filling up with it, especially when gas prices are already so high. Modern engines are designed to run efficiently on regular unleaded gas, and using premium won’t give you any added benefits in performance. Stick to regular gas and watch your fuel expenses drop in what you pay at the pump. Overpriced Online Shopping on Amazon Name-brand phone chargers, headphones, and other items can cost up to three times as much on Amazon when compared to other retailers or the product’s own website. Check reviews before you add something to your cart as many will let you know if it’s worth the cost. Don’t be afraid to shop around, as varying sticker prices could shock you. Unused Gym Memberships In 2025, no matter your fitness resolutions, there’s no reason to pay for a gym membership you’re not using. With the explosion of online workout platforms, free YouTube fitness channels, and affordable apps, staying in shape no longer requires an expensive gym pass, particularly if you don’t go regularly. If you’re still paying for a membership you rarely use, it’s time to cancel and explore the world of free digital fitness. What ER Doctors Bring On Vacation: Anti-nausea medication - “Always pack Zofran, just in case,” said Dr. Cedric Dark, associate professor of emergency medicine at Baylor College of Medicine. “The feeling of nausea and vomiting is one of the most hated things you could ever imagine and there’s nothing over-the-counter that is that helpful.” Zofran is only available by prescription, but it dissolves under your tongue, so it works even when you can’t really keep anything down. A bug zapper - Dr. Dark says standalone mosquito traps or a mosquito zapper racquet like the one he uses are must-haves for traveling somewhere tropical, where the insects can carry serious diseases like West Nile virus, Zika virus and dengue fever. Tweezers - They’re a fix for the far more simple, but common problem of splinters, and that’s why tweezers are a travel essential for Dr. Joy Crook, associate professor of clinical emergency medicine at Vanderbilt University Medical Center. Compression socks - The CDC warns that traveling for more than four hours by air, car or bus raises the risk of developing blood clots, but wearing compression socks can help lower that risk. That’s why they’re a go-to for Dr. Erin Muckey, associate professor of emergency medicine at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School. A portable charger - Dr. Eric Adkins, an emergency medicine physician at the Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center, points out that you can’t call for help or look up where the nearest pharmacy or hospital is with a dead phone battery, so he packs a portable charger. A carbon monoxide detector - Dr. Crook says this is a recent addition to her travel bag, since several stories of travelers dying from carbon monoxide poisoning have happened this year alone. Melatonin - Not sleeping well can weaken the immune system, which can make you more likely to get sick, but melatonin supplements can help “reset your internal clock,” according to Adkins, so you can snooze. Second Date Update: Dalia and Reggie go to the Mountain Winery to see Chris Isaak. She loved every minute. He has disappeared...was it her dancing?…
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Little Luxuries: Peace and quiet High-speed Internet Good quality coffee Next day delivery Grocery delivery Good quality skincare A TV show with no ads Robot vacuum cleaners Having an after-dinner treat Air fryer Letting Your Kids Plan Your Vacation New research suggests that allowing your kids to have a say in planning a family vacation is the way to make it better. According to a new survey, 82% of parents say their best trips happened when their kids helped with planning it. That may be why 22% have actually let their school-age child plan every detail of a vacation.⠀ Moms and dads have learned that when kids are involved in planning, they help with activities (89%), and restaurants (54%), and make sure that the trip involves things their kid likes (76%). And the kids are up for the task, as 86% of them want to be more involved in planning family vacations and 53% want to plan as much of the trip as possible. So, what would a kid’s dream vacation look like? It would include having a meet-and-greet with their favorite celebrity (34%), sitting in the front row of their favorite artist’s concert (29%) or having backstage access at that show (27%). Riding on an amusement park parade float is another top choice (26%), along with having a meet-and-greet with their favorite cartoon characters (24%), or sitting in the front row at a professional sports game (20%). To turn a regular trip into a dream getaway, kids also want to go to fun restaurants (54%), have a chance to swim (51%), and do outdoor activities (49%). Some kids dream big, with their ultimate dream trip including a 13-day-journey across six states and five countries on an epic road trip (60%), a flight (57%) and a cruise (33%). Even parents who aren’t letting their kid plan an entire vacation want to get their input and 84% say they try to take inspiration from their kids’ imagination when creating a vacation. How To Avoid Post-Vacation Blues Before you leave - Tidy up your home. Clean your sheets, empty the trash, and clear the fridge, so you get to return home to a welcoming space instead of chaos. After you return - Give yourself a day (or two) to unpack and reset before diving back into work and obligations. Keep the joy alive - Plan little treats like a night out, a new recipe, or a cozy evening at home to recreate those memorable vacation moments. Listen to the blues - If your mood lingers or you think it might be a sign of some bigger issues, consider what changes you might need to make, and reach out for help if it feels like it’s more than just a passing slump. Second Date Update: Greg takes Lissa on a date in Soma. The weather was great, eh even wore shorts. Did that have something to do with her ghost?…
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