How to Talk About Money Without Starting a Fight

Marriage and Intimacy Tips for Christian Couples: Secrets of Happily Ever After

Money conversations don't have to lead to arguments—they can actually strengthen relationships when approached with the right communication tools and mindset. We explore three essential skills for talking about finances with your spouse that build connection instead of conflict.
• Understanding each other's money personalities and formative experiences around finances
• Learning to express your needs without blame or judgment
• Scheduling regular, low-pressure "money huddles" to stay on the same page
• Keeping financial discussions light and celebrating small wins together
• Remembering you're on the same team when financial differences arise
• Creating communication strategies that honor both partners' financial perspectives
• Walking or driving side-by-side can make difficult money conversations easier
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Chapters

1. Welcome and special coaching offer (00:00:00)

2. Why couples fight about money (00:03:10)

3. Skill 1: Understanding money personalities (00:06:49)

4. Skill 2: Suspending judgment and blame (00:12:52)

5. Skill 3: Regular money huddles (00:14:56)

6. Recap and bonus communication tip (00:19:14)