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077: When Your Mindset Changes Your Behavior Changes
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What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage wasn’t about changing your partner—but shifting your own mindset?
In this energizing episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money reveal the hidden power behind lasting change in relationships: your mindset. Prepare to be surprised by why New Year’s resolutions, grand romantic gestures, or even willpower alone won’t sustain growth or joy in your marriage. Instead, Evan and Susan break down the “frameworks” (not formulas!) that real couples have used to shift their thinking—and how these small mental tweaks create huge behavioral transformations.
Key Highlights:
- Mindset Before Behavior: Susan opens with a powerful truth—sustainable behavior change in marriage starts with a changed mindset, not the other way around.
- Lessons From Real Couples: Dive into insights from six inspiring couples, including a fighter pilot who had more confidence in the cockpit than in his marriage, a couple who turned gratitude into a movement, and Montel and Kristen Jordan who share the life-changing practice of “daily dating your mate.”
- Replace to Renew: The episode challenges you to reconsider “sacrifice” by swapping out old habits—just like swapping unhealthy foods for nourishing ones—to make space for growth in your relationship.
- Intentionality and Growth: Evan and Susan discuss why it’s less about grand gestures and more about daily, intentional actions—think tiny notes, meaningful eye contact, or simple acts of service—that piece together the “puzzle” of a great marriage.
- Quality Questions: Learn powerful self-coaching techniques like asking “What am I afraid of?” or “Where is this coming from?” to break free from old patterns and choose a new path forward.
Put It Into Action:
- Reflect: Which mindset from the featured couples resonates most with you? Write it down and explore how you might apply it today.
- Experiment: Replace one small, unhelpful habit with a positive action for your spouse—no matter how tiny.
- Ask: Use the “quality questions” discussed to flip self-defeating loops into empowering dialogues.
- Connect: Try “daily dating” by finding a new way each day to show love or appreciation—think outside the box!
- Stay Inspired: Follow Marriage of Greatness on Instagram and revisit the highlighted episodes for deeper dives.
Listener Challenge:
Susan closes with a practical call to action—how will you put these mindset shifts into practice? Jot down even one change you want to make and take that step today.
For more, subscribe to the Marriage of Greatness podcast and follow Evan and Susan’s journey to 100 weddings at evanlovesusan.com and marriageofgreatness.com.
Timestamped Overview
00:00 Marriage: God's Design for Greatness
03:14 "Couple Mindset Frameworks"
09:04 "TEDx Marriage Renewal"
12:16 "Creating Your Marriage Puzzle"
15:14 "Recalibration Through Lent"
16:40 "Filling Dietary Voids Healthily"
20:01 Thriving Beyond Adversity
23:38 Navigating Relationship Challenges
27:47 Achieving Greatness in Marriage
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