How to Give Praise That Builds Real Confidence in Kids

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Does your child's inner voice say "I can't do this" or "I'm not good enough"?

Ever wonder if those automatic "good job" responses are actually helping build the confidence you want for your child?

Hi, I'm Natalie McCabe. In this episode, we're talking about specific praise, why generic compliments fall flat and how to give feedback that actually builds lasting confidence and resilience. I'm sharing the eye-opening classroom story that changed everything I knew about kids and self-talk, plus the exact formula for praise that transforms your child's internal voice.

Here's what we cover:

• The shocking discovery: Why half the kids couldn't name a single strength about themselves
• The difference between "empty calorie" praise and praise that nourishes confidence
• How to become a "strengths detective" and identify your child's unique gifts
• The simple 3-part formula for giving strength-based specific praise
• How to use praise to build resilience during challenging moment
• Why your voice becomes their internal voice (and how to make it count)

This isn't about perfect parenting or praising everything your child does. It's about recognizing the unique constellation of strengths your child already has and helping them see those gifts in themselves. Less generic "good jobs." More meaningful recognition. Real confidence building.

Ready to help your child develop that inner voice that says "I can handle this"?

Join our FREE, non-Facebook community and grab the strengths survey to identify your child's unique gifts. Just head to nataliemccabe.com and click the Community tab.

📞 Want personalized help building your child's confidence? Let's figure it out together. Book a FREE coaching call at nataliemccabe.com.