Hinge expert shares dating advice for ambitious nerds

My First Million

Episode 709: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) talk to Logan Ury ( https://x.com/loganury ) about how young men can be more successful in dating.

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Show Notes:

(0:00) Intro

(6:28) The secretary problem

(14:43) What's happening with men right now

(21:07) How to do the apps right

(27:32) Meeting someone IRL

(30:03) The power of weak ties

(36:56) How to be a better date

(40:37) Date like a scientist

(45:44) Fuck the spark

(49:02) What's your tendency

(51:00) AI partners

(57:15) Pro tip: join a mens group

(1:03:23) Mental Health vs Mental Fitness

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Links:

• Want Sam's Company Research Playbook? Get it here: https://clickhubspot.com/wve

• Logan Ury - https://www.loganury.com/

• 3 Tendencies Quiz - https://www.loganury.com/quiz

• The School of Life - https://www.youtube.com/@theschooloflifetv

• Mating in Captivity - https://tinyurl.com/bddrnw9c

• How to Not Die Alone - https://tinyurl.com/mupe2ntc

• Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work - https://tinyurl.com/jvz9hhu6

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Check Out Shaan's Stuff:

• Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com

• Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents.

• Mercury - Need a bank for your company? Go check out Mercury (mercury.com). Shaan uses it for all of his companies!

Mercury is a financial technology company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N.A., and Evolve Bank & Trust, Members FDIC

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Check Out Sam's Stuff:

• Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/

• Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/

• Copy That - https://copythat.com

• Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth

• Sam’s List - http://samslist.co/

My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano