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Choosing The Right Handle
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This week on Navigate the Day, I'm diving into Epictetus's powerful metaphor: "Every event has two handles—one by which it can be carried, and one by which it can’t." It's a profound reminder that how we choose to approach life's challenges makes all the difference. We often grab the "wrong handle"—like anger or resentment—making a heavy situation impossible to lift. But with the "right handle"—perspective, understanding, and our values—we can move forward.
I've been reflecting on how deeply ingrained negativity has become for me, and how much harder it is to shift now than when it was just a spark. I tend to retreat when faced with challenges, but I'm realizing that my perceived weaknesses are often just a "wrong handle" keeping me stuck. It's time to choose differently.
A Shift in Perspective
We'll explore the Stoic strategy of pausing before reacting, actively seeking perspective, and aligning our actions with our values. I'll share how I'm learning to manage strong emotions like anger and grief, recognizing that my reactions often cause more lasting harm than the initial event. It’s about taking back control of my internal state, rather than letting external circumstances dictate my well-being.
I'm also grappling with the importance of adaptability. Life is full of curveballs, and clinging to rigid plans only leaves us unprepared. True discipline, I'm finding, is about being flexible and driven by virtue, not just habit.
Reclaiming My Role
Ultimately, this episode is about understanding that we have the power to choose how we carry life's burdens. I'm actively working on correcting past patterns, improving my finances, and finding new motivations to build a future I can be proud of. It’s about showing up like a soldier on the battlefield of life—with courage, integrity, and purpose—instead of passively drifting.
Join me this week as we discuss how choosing the right handle can transform even the heaviest loads into opportunities for growth.
Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery!
Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books
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