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Why can't they stick with a hobby? | Nicole Bateman
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In this episode, Mark takes a typically sideways look at the idea of hobbies – those wholesome after-school activities that see neurotypical kids flourish… but which, for many neurodivergent families, are either a logistical nightmare, a sensory minefield, or a fast track to public meltdown.
Joining him is the brilliant Nicole Bateman – podcast host (Conversations with a SEND Mum), former teacher, trainer, and founder of The Friendly SEND Advisor and Super Sensory Squad. Together, they explore the myths, pressures and downright ridiculousness of what “having hobbies” means when your kids are autistic, ADHD or PDA.
They cover what actually works, what definitely doesn’t, and the benefits of learning to follow your neurodifferent child's lead, so you can meet them where they're at, rather than where you want them to be.
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STUFF WE COVER:00:00 – Intro & Meet the Guest: Nicole Bateman
03:00 – The fantasy of hobbies vs the reality
08:00 – Issues with trust and accessibility
13:00 – After-school clubs
18:00 – The Summer holiday hobby void
25:00 – Trying to force your neurodivergent children to have a hobby
33:00 – Social disconnect in group settings
39:00 – When your best intentions fail
44:00 - Environmental barriers to adopting a hobby
47:00 – Competitive Sport: Gift or Curse?
53:00 – Caesar-or-Nothing syndrome & hobby avoidance
59:00 – Drop-off disasters
1:07:00 – What *does* work?
1:12:00 – It's not all rubbish: A look at the positives
1:15:00 – Neurodiversity Champions
1:23:00 – Tiny Epic Wins
1:26:00 – What the Flip? Moments
1:29:00 – Wrap-Up & Where to Find Nicole
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LINKS TO STUFF WE MENTION IN THIS EPISODE:- Nicole Bateman’s Website – Friendly SEND Advisor and Super Sensory Squad: https://nicolebateman.co.uk/
- Conversations with a SEND Mum – Nicole’s podcast: https://conversationswithasendmum.buzzsprout.com/
- Super Sensory Squad Book – ‘Buzz’s Birthday’ and other penguin-based sensory tools: https://www.thesupersensorysquad.com/
- Cub Scouts: https://www.scouts.org.uk/cubs/being-a-cub/joining-cubs/
- Lisa Lloyd reel - Neurotypicals watching what their parents watch: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIzCFBxNzxT
- “Why Can’t I Just Enjoy Things?” by Pierre Novellie – Caesar-or-nothing brains and comedy insight: https://amzn.eu/d/dSZA4dC
- Minecraft Club - Online Social Group for 7-14 year olds: https://minecraftclub.co.uk/
- Press Play - Stop frame animation workshops in Sussex: https://pressplayfilms.co.uk/
- Boogie Beat - Music and movement classes: https://boogiebeat.co.uk/
- Sam Mills – Disability Tennis Brighton: Email [email protected] for information
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