How to Make the Right Recruiting Decision (And Actually Feel Good About It)

NXTVB

Making a decision about your future shouldn’t feel like pressure—it should feel like power.

In this episode, Susan walks athletes and families through one of the most pivotal parts of the recruiting journey: how to make a decision you won’t regret. Whether you're weighing D1 offers, choosing between club teams, or wondering if it’s too late to change your mind—this is the mindset shift you’ve been missing.

Learn how to separate desire from obligation, tune out external noise, and get clear on what YOU actually want. Because when your decision is aligned with your values, your vision, and your why—you show up with energy, motivation, and long-term success.

Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome: The real reason decision-making feels hard
01:30 – Why athletes struggle with ownership in big choices
03:15 – What most families miss about the “pressure” of offers
05:00 – Desire vs. obligation: how to check your reasons
07:30 – How to know if you’re making a choice out of fear or alignment
10:45 – Staying close to home? Make sure it’s your decision
13:20 – Why loving your reasons = more success and motivation
16:00 – What to do if you feel unsure about your decision
18:00 – “Can I change my mind?” (Yes. Here’s when and how.)
21:30 – The difference between immaturity and growth
24:00 – Verbal commitments, coaching changes, and new info
27:15 – Final thoughts: how to stay grounded in your choice

Connect with Susan:
Check out the website: www.heysusank.com
Follow on Instagram: @hey.susank

P.S. If you’re an athlete with big goals, a parent who wants to support the journey, or a coach who cares deeply about your players, this podcast was made for you. Hit subscribe and come grow with us.