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We demolish the detrimental mindset of withholding your story and explain why your experiences are valuable to others, even if you think they're unremarkable or too personal.
• You have something unique to offer this world, and someone needs to hear your particular story
• Even if your story helps just one person, it's worth sharing
• Your life experiences aren't just yours to keep - we're a collective community
• Despite divisions promoted in media, humans thrive through connection and mutual growth
• When we share authentically, we create environments where everyone benefits
• Stop collecting wisdom from countless gurus without applying it
• Focus on actively and consistently supporting the few authentic voices that truly resonate with you
• The authentic teachers you follow might need your support as much as you need theirs
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We demolish the detrimental mindset of withholding your story and explain why your experiences are valuable to others, even if you think they're unremarkable or too personal.
• You have something unique to offer this world, and someone needs to hear your particular story
• Even if your story helps just one person, it's worth sharing
• Your life experiences aren't just yours to keep - we're a collective community
• Despite divisions promoted in media, humans thrive through connection and mutual growth
• When we share authentically, we create environments where everyone benefits
• Stop collecting wisdom from countless gurus without applying it
• Focus on actively and consistently supporting the few authentic voices that truly resonate with you
• The authentic teachers you follow might need your support as much as you need theirs
Please rate, review, and share this podcast if it resonated with you today. Your support helps others find these encouraging messages.
Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.
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Chapters
1. Introduction and Main Promise (00:00:00)
2. You Have Something to Offer (00:01:54)
3. The Community Connection Principle (00:02:39)
4. Finding Authentic Support (00:04:15)
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1 Aaron Gambel - "Turning Pain Into Purpose - Stories of Surviving Divorce, Suicide, and Abandonment" 43:23
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedWhat happens when generations of men are taught to suppress their emotions? Aaron Gambel knows firsthand. After a childhood marked by trauma and neglect, he built a successful 15-year career in Hollywood—using the high-stress environment to stay in "survival mode" rather than confronting deeper issues. Until it all came crashing down. Five days before his 43rd birthday, Aaron found himself holding a bottle of pills, contemplating ending it all. The image of his children playing downstairs saved his life and launched him on a journey of profound transformation. His "mental health college experience"—30 days in treatment—gave him tools that would not only heal himself but also help other men struggling with emotional disconnection. Aaron's story illuminates a silent crisis: suicide is now the second leading cause of death for men under 45. The root cause? Generations of men raised by war veterans, taught never to speak about their experiences or emotions. "You can't open up emotionally, you're not truly connecting with another human being," Aaron explains. This epidemic of loneliness is literally killing men. Through his men's groups and life coaching, Aaron now helps others break these destructive patterns. He shares powerful insights about fatherhood, co-parenting after divorce, and the importance of modeling emotional intelligence for the next generation. His practical approach combines meditation, breathwork, and physical movement to help men "get out of their heads and into their hearts." Aaron's vulnerability offers a roadmap for other men seeking authentic connection. Discover how creating safe spaces for brotherhood can transform lives, break generational trauma, and perhaps even save lives. Visit aarongambel.com to learn more about his work with men and fathers. • Growing up with childhood trauma and neglect shaped Aaron's understanding of parenting and relationships • Working in the film industry for 15 years kept Aaron in "survival mode" but ultimately distracted him from addressing deeper issues • Men struggle with emotional presence because they're conditioned to "fix" rather than feel • The alarming statistic that suicide is the second leading cause of death for men under 45 • How generational trauma creates patterns of emotional disconnection among men • The power of brotherhood and men's groups in creating safe spaces for connection • Aaron's mental breakdown and 30-day "mental health college experience" transformed his approach to life Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 Faith, Sex, and Theater - Dr. Bruce Chalmer 45:28
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedThe real problem in troubled relationships isn't poor communication – it's what couples are actually communicating to each other. Dr. Bruce Chalmer upends conventional wisdom about couples therapy in this eye-opening conversation that challenges everything you thought you knew about relationship struggles. Drawing from over 30 years as a psychologist and couples therapist, Dr. Chalmer explains why the traditional advice to "communicate better" misses the mark entirely. "The couples are communicating perfectly effectively," he notes with gentle wisdom. "They're just communicating that they don't like or trust each other." This profound insight forms the foundation of his approach to helping couples reconnect and rediscover intimacy. At the heart of relationship challenges lies the tension between stability and intimacy. While stability requires predictability, intimacy demands vulnerability and risk. Most couples, especially those with established lives together, prioritize stability so heavily that they avoid anything that might "rock the boat" – including honest conversations. Over time, this avoidance creates emotional distance that extinguishes the spark that originally brought them together. The conversation takes unexpected turns as Dr. Chalmer discusses his journey from statistician to therapist, explains how infidelity affects nearly half his clients, and shares his concept of "sacred sex" as a transcendent connection that reaches beyond the couple to something larger. His compassionate approach acknowledges men's common reluctance toward therapy – not from lack of caring, but from fear of being judged or blamed. Whether you're struggling in your relationship or simply curious about human connection, Dr. Chalmer's insights offer a refreshing perspective that honors the complexity of intimate partnerships while providing practical wisdom for navigating their challenges. In his words: "Be kind, don't panic, and have faith." PARENTAL GUIDANCE ALERT: (Some language used in this interview may not be fit for minors or some adults may find objectionable so please advise with my apologies!) Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 From Seed To Significance - Building Big With Little - (Part 3) 17:33
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedWe conclude our "Seed to Significance: Building Big with Little" series by exploring how to stay committed through quiet seasons of growth while focusing on the legacy we're quietly planting today. • Overcoming the fear of starting small requires understanding that everything significant starts with a seed • Learning to endure the "darkness" of growth seasons when progress feels invisible • Recognizing that quiet seasons aren't isolation - you're in development, not abandonment • Finding a community that lifts you up rather than holds you back • Taking wisdom from Steve Jobs: "Don't lose faith when life hits you with a brick." • Starting humble with limited resources can still yield extraordinary outcomes • Building from your existing skills rather than waiting for perfect conditions • Your dream is valid regardless of your current resource limitations • The Wright brothers created flight with limited tools, shaped into extraordinary outcomes Check out our website at theycallmemistayu.buzzsprout.com to continue the conversation about your seed to significance journey. I'd love to hear about where you're trying to build big with little resources! Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 From Seed To Significance - Building Big With Little - (Part 2) 23:09
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedWe're exploring the journey from seeds to significance in our continuing series on Building Big with Little. Diving deeper into overcoming the fear of starting small and recognizing the value in your current resources, we examine why these mindset shifts are crucial for success. • Everything that is of greatness begins with a seed • How we view our resources determines how we treat them • The fear of starting small often comes from limited vision and experience • Changing your community is key to pushing beyond your current limitations • Surrounding yourself with people doing what you aspire to do creates immersion learning • Your current resources hold more value than you realize • Simple tools can build monumental achievements (pyramids, Great Wall of China) • Limitations can become invitations for growth when properly perceived • Wealth only amplifies who you already are - generosity starts now, not later • Your vision determines how far your resources can take you Join us for the final episode in this series, where we'll complete our exploration of staying committed through quiet seasons of growth. Don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel at youtube.com/theycallmemistayu and share your thoughts on this series! Find all past episodes at theycallmemistayu.buzzsprout.com and follow Mista Yu on all major social platforms. You are growing. You are becoming. And you are not alone. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 From Seeds To Significance - Building Big With Little (Part 1) 15:51
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like Liked“From Seed to Significance: Building Big with Little” Welcome, beautiful souls. In today’s episode, we explore the sacred truth that everything great begins with a seed. From David’s humble beginnings as a shepherd to the mustard seed of faith that moves mountains, history and Scripture remind us: small starts birth great legacies. No matter your resources, your dream is valid. Like the Wright brothers who built flight in a bicycle shop, your limited tools can still shape extraordinary outcomes. We’ll explore how to: 🌱 Overcome the fear of starting small 🌱 Recognize the value in your current resources 🌱 Stay committed through the quiet seasons of growth Plus, we’ll reflect on: 🌱 What seed has God already placed in your hands? 🌱 How can limitations become invitations for growth? 🌱 What legacy are you quietly planting today? Find all past episodes at theycallmemistayu.buzzsprout.com and follow Mista Yu on all major social platforms. You are growing. You are becoming. And you are not alone. We explore the sacred truth that everything great begins with a seed and how small starts can birth great legacies regardless of your current resources. • Overcoming the fear of starting small instead of waiting for ideal circumstances • Recognizing the value in your current resources rather than waiting for future ones • Staying committed through the quiet seasons of growth when progress isn't visible • King David's story as an example of humble beginnings leading to significant legacy • The Wright brothers making "a bicycle fly" with limited tools yet extraordinary outcomes • Understanding God's perspective where "little is big and big is little" in the kingdom • Identifying what seeds God has already placed in your hands that remain undeveloped • Many great ideas die because we let discouragement or time pass without nurturing them • The best things in life grow at their proper pace, just like fruit needs the right time to ripen Join us for the next episodes as we dive deeper into overcoming these three challenges on your journey from seed to significance. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 Mista Yu is on the Dad Hat Shenanigans - "The Power of a United Front" 50:47
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedWhat happens when your children turn your household into a battleground? For Yusef Marshall, known as "The Incredible Mr. Yu," the solution came through a radical shift in perspective that transformed his family dynamics forever. Join us for a candid, eye-opening conversation with a father of three grown daughters who made it through nearly 30 years of marriage by discovering the power of the united front. Mr. Yu shares the turning point when he and his wife realized they were "winging it" through parenthood and how their decision to prioritize their marriage above everything else changed everything. "They can be a prince or princess, but they can't be the king or queen," Mr. Yu explains, challenging the common notion that children should be the center of family life. With remarkable honesty, he reveals how this commitment helped them weather manipulation attempts, intense resistance, and even moments when they wondered if their marriage would survive. This episode offers practical wisdom about creating a family strategy instead of just reacting to daily challenges. You'll hear how establishing clear boundaries prevented their children from playing parents against each other and how maintaining unity provided stability through tumultuous times. For fathers who feel caught in the day-to-day struggles of parenting, Mr. Yu's perspective offers both encouragement and a roadmap. Beyond parenting strategies, the conversation touches on the importance of community for fathers, the reality that loving your children doesn't always mean liking them in every moment, and how modeling a strong partnership sets children up for future relationship success. Whether you're just starting your parenting journey or navigating the complexities of older children, this episode provides honest, sometimes uncomfortable truths about what it takes to build a family foundation that lasts. Connect with The Incredible Mr. Yu on his YouTube channel or through his website to continue the conversation and discover resources for strengthening your most important relationships. • A united front between parents is crucial to effective parenting • Prioritizing your marriage over your children creates a stronger family structure • Children will naturally try to divide parents to get what they want • Having a family strategy prevents "winging it" through challenging situations • A healthy marriage provides modeling for children's future relationships • Working through difficult parenting Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 From Pool Shark to Spiritual Guide: The Reinvention of Gina Economopoulos 41:29
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedGina Economopoulos didn't plan to become an author or an end-of-life doula—these callings found her through a lifetime of struggle, surrender, and eventual transformation. Born into a large Italian-Greek family on Long Island as one of eight children, Gina's early years were marked by physical limitations that left her comparing herself unfavorably to siblings and feeling like "the black cloud" of an otherwise loving home. Despite growing up surrounded by unconditional love and the warmth of New York hospitality (contrary to popular stereotypes), young Gina struggled with self-acceptance. Everything changed when her mother died from cancer when Gina was just 23. Having no personal spiritual foundation—she describes her parents as having been "her God"—this loss sent her spiraling into a decades-long search for meaning. Her journey took remarkable turns: becoming a Catholic nun seeking peace within convent walls, returning to civilian life as a bartender, falling in love with an alcoholic who later died from the disease, and finally confronting her own alcoholism after hitting what she calls her "dark pit" of complete surrender. The most powerful revelation in Gina's story isn't just her ten years of sobriety, but how her personal healing transformed naturally into a calling to help others. Now working as an end-of-life doula, she brings presence and peace to those transitioning from life—offering what she herself lacked when watching her mother die: faith, hope, and spiritual support. Her understanding of forgiveness as a choice that frees the forgiver rather than the forgiven demonstrates the depth of her spiritual evolution, including her process of forgiving God himself for what she once perceived as abandonment. Through her memoir "Shake the Dust Off Your Feet," Gina offers hope to anyone walking through addiction, grief, or spiritual disillusionment. Her message is clear: sometimes our deepest pain becomes our most profound purpose, and the very experiences that break us can ultimately become the foundation for helping others heal. Download the first chapter free at ginaecon.com and discover how surrendering to what seems like darkness can sometimes be the first step toward an unexpected light. Visit www.ginaecon.com to download the free first chapter of Gina's memoir "Shake the Dust Off Your Feet and Walk: Faith, Sobriety, Self-Discovery and Healing." Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 The Power of Critical Thinking: Barbara Mojica on Education, History, and Authorship 39:36
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedDetermination and curiosity can transform a life. Just ask Barbara Mojica, who grew up in a modest New York City apartment to become the first college graduate in her family, an accomplished educator, historian, and author of children's books that inspire critical thinking through historical exploration. Throughout our conversation, Barbara transports us to the breathtaking Hudson Valley where she now lives, painting vivid pictures of a region steeped in American history. From the spot where Henry Hudson first met native children (giving Kinderhook its name) to Martin Van Buren's residence and buildings bearing plaques of their original purposes, this living historical landscape provides the perfect backdrop for her writing. For anyone fascinated by American heritage, Barbara's insider perspective on this Dutch settlement founded in 1665 is worth the listen alone. What truly distinguishes this episode is Barbara's passionate defense of historical literacy and critical thinking in an age of instant information. She articulates how modern education's focus on standardized testing has compromised students' ability to discern fact from opinion—a skill traditionally developed through historical inquiry. Drawing from her transition from general education to special education, Barbara offers thought-provoking insights about how different learning styles require flexible teaching approaches, something increasingly restricted in public education. Her motto, "If you don't know your history, you don't know what you're talking about," encapsulates her mission to equip children with tools to uncover truth beyond the algorithm-driven answers they typically accept without question. Have you considered whether your child's education develops true critical thinking? Subscribe now to hear Barbara's recommendations for alternative educational approaches that might better serve your family, and discover how her "Little Miss History" book series is teaching children to explore forgotten historical facts while forming their own solutions to complex problems. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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We demolish the detrimental mindset of withholding your story and explain why your experiences are valuable to others, even if you think they're unremarkable or too personal. • You have something unique to offer this world, and someone needs to hear your particular story • Even if your story helps just one person, it's worth sharing • Your life experiences aren't just yours to keep - we're a collective community • Despite divisions promoted in media, humans thrive through connection and mutual growth • When we share authentically, we create environments where everyone benefits • Stop collecting wisdom from countless gurus without applying it • Focus on actively and consistently supporting the few authentic voices that truly resonate with you • The authentic teachers you follow might need your support as much as you need theirs Please rate, review, and share this podcast if it resonated with you today. Your support helps others find these encouraging messages. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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What does authentic leadership truly look like? It starts with a hard look in the mirror, not with comparisons to others around you. The difference between genuine leadership and merely holding a leadership position lies in three critical practices. First, authentic leaders invest time in truly knowing their people—not just names and titles, but histories, challenges, and potential. Many supposed leaders focus more on impressing their superiors than developing their teams, creating environments of hollow, performative care rather than genuine connection. Second, real leadership demands relationship development. "The stronger the relationship, the greater the potential for leadership." When leaders fail to duplicate themselves in others, it reveals a white-knuckle grip on position rather than a commitment to organizational growth. Contrast this with General Norman Schwarzkopf's practice of "walking slowly through crowds"—deliberately slowing his pace to create space for meaningful interactions with those under his command. Perhaps most revealing is the podcast host's personal story of leadership failure. After delivering an exceptional presentation, his longtime mentor responded to his resignation with, "I didn't know you had that in you"—exposing years of missed opportunity for genuine mentorship. This powerful example demonstrates how leadership without prayer, investment, and genuine care ultimately fails everyone involved. If you're too busy to appreciate the small details of people's lives, you might be enslaved to systems rather than practicing authentic leadership. Share your own leadership successes and failures in the comments—we're listening and would love to continue this conversation with you. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more insights on leadership and personal growth. • Real leaders take time to assess who they're leading – understanding their history, talents, and challenges • Authentic leadership requires developing genuine relationships with those you lead • True leaders duplicate themselves in others rather than clinging to their positions • Effective leaders initiate connection rather than waiting for others to approach them • General Schwarzkopf's practice of "walking slowly through crowds" demonstrates valuing connection with people • Personal story reveals how leadership fails when leaders don't truly know or invest in those they mentor • Leaders who are too busy for the details of people's lives are likely not authentic leaders Please show some love on our YouTube channel and hit the subscribe button. Share your leadership stories in the comments - whether successes or failures - we'd love to hear from you. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 Inspiration Station - Have You Heard The Bitter Cry? 13:57
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedExperiencing abandonment creates a distinctive pain unlike any other—a "bitter cry" that changes the trajectory of your life and requires more than human relationships to heal. • The sound of a truly abandoned person differs dramatically from someone temporarily in need • Biblical example of Esau's "exceeding bitter cry" when his blessing was stolen • Personal story of chasing a father who was never truly present • Heart-wrenching experience at a men's retreat when the pastor had no blessing left • The breakdown point that led to an uncontrollable "bitter cry" in public • Understanding that abandonment creates wounds that can't simply be "shaken off" • The only true healing comes from recognizing God as the Father who never leaves • Years-long journey to freedom from abandonment's grip Trust in the Father who is in heaven, who is also in you, who will never leave you nor forsake you. Don't put your trust in people who might abandon you. The bitter cry of abandonment has a sound unlike anything else—distinct and unmistakable once you've heard it or experienced it yourself. I've been there, buckled over in the corner of a church during a men's retreat, wailing uncontrollably as I watched others receive spiritual blessings while I stood empty-handed before my pastor who had nothing left to give me. This raw, vulnerable episode takes you through my personal journey with what I call "the greatest snare known to man"—abandonment. For years, I chased my absent father, finally connecting with him only to have him pass away before our relationship could truly develop. The unresolved questions and deep sense of rejection created a void that human relationships simply couldn't fill. Drawing parallels to Esau's biblical story of having his birthright stolen, I share how abandonment wounds don't just hurt—they fundamentally alter your life's trajectory. They create a spiritual and emotional hunger that casual connections can't satisfy. This is why so many men struggle silently with father wounds that manifest in countless ways throughout their lives. The breakthrough came when I realized only one relationship could heal this profound wound: my connection with my heavenly Father. While people may leave—going "to the store for cigarettes" and never returning—God promises to never leave nor forsake us. This divine constancy became my anchor and salvation from abandonment's destructive power. If you've experienced rejection, abandonment, or the bitter taste of being overlooked, this episode offers not just sympathy but a pathway toward genuine healing. Share this with someone struggling to overcome abandonment wounds, and together let's discover the Father whose love never fails. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 Inspiration Station - Proof That Introverts Have A Problem With Pride 13:03
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedPride can manifest in unexpected ways among introverts through self-protection and isolation that limits our growth and connection with others. By examining three key indicators—lack of accountability, limited expression of love, and rejection of community—we can identify when our introversion crosses into pride and make positive changes. • Introverts often isolate themselves as a form of self-protection • Without accountability, we lack the "mirrors and friends" needed to see ourselves clearly • True love requires bearing others' burdens and being present in their difficulties • Isolation prevents us from experiencing the weight-bearing aspect of authentic love • Community provides perspective by showing us others who overcome similar or worse challenges • When we see others' struggles, we lose excuses and gain appreciation for our blessings • The goal isn't to change personality but to ensure introversion isn't rooted in pride • Growth happens in the balance between comfort and connection Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section. I'd love to hear your stories and respond back to you as soon as possible. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 One On One with Mista Yu: Faith Meets Crisis: Fight For The Prodigal (Debra McNinch) 40:05
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedDebra McNinch shares her journey from a small-town Kansas upbringing to founding Battle Cry Moms, a prayer movement supporting mothers of prodigal children that now includes over 1,200 participants worldwide. • Growing up in a single-parent household in the 1970s and experiencing poverty shaped Deborah's perspective on family and faith • The absence of a father figure created challenges in understanding God as Father and initially in her marriage relationship • Her life changed dramatically when her oldest child came out as transgender, forcing her to navigate between rejection and affirmation • Battle Cry Prayer Movement emerged from her personal struggle to find a balanced approach to loving her child while maintaining her faith convictions • The five-step Battle Plan provides practical guidance: focusing on Scripture, worship, consistent prayer, declaring God's promises, and finding community • Parents facing similar challenges are encouraged to find supportive communities rather than facing their struggles alone • Photography, particularly of birds, serves as both a creative outlet and ministry opportunity for Deborah If you're struggling with a prodigal child, remember Deborah's motto: "No one fights alone." Connect with her at debramcninch.com or find her book "Battle Cry: Love Goes to War" on her website or Amazon. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 Isolation or Solitude: The Veteran's Crossroad with Nick Furloni 42:54
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedNick shares his journey from military kid to service member to faith-based coach, revealing how global experiences shaped his view that people matter above all else. • Growing up as a military dependent, moving internationally and gaining appreciation for diverse cultures • Formative childhood experience in Peru witnessing extreme poverty that taught him to count his blessings • Military service triggered by 9/11, serving 11 years active duty including combat deployments • Distinguishing between healthy patriotism at its core versus misuse for personal gain • Post-military identity struggles and finding new purpose through faith and community • Difference between isolation (running from pain) and solitude (purposeful reflection) • Importance of community for veterans and all men facing life transitions • Brain health coaching approach that addresses physical brain health alongside mental wellness • Encouragement for veterans to pursue VA benefits despite tedious processes • Finding purpose through helping others and building meaningful connections Find Nick at valorvisioncoaching.com and join his Men of Valor group for accountability, goal-setting, and community. Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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1 Inspiration Station - The Tower of Babel Building Project 11:45
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedSomething radical happens when we challenge the cultural narrative that making a name for ourselves should be our life goal. This episode digs into a counterintuitive truth that could transform your approach to success and legacy forever. The Tower of Babel story provides a powerful lens through which we examine modern ambition. Those ancient builders, motivated by pride and fear of irrelevance, created an extraordinary structure – all to elevate their own reputation. Sound familiar? We explore four problematic motivations that drove their project: the desire to create a lasting name, the tendency toward isolation, the shortcutting of established methods, and the disobedience of divine guidance. Each of these motivations resonates with today's achievement-oriented culture. What makes this conversation so compelling is how it exposes the subtle ways pride infiltrates our ambitions. Pride convinces us that our name should be paramount, that our methods are superior, and that isolation is preferable to community. Yet as the Babel story demonstrates, even remarkable unity and engineering prowess can't overcome the fundamental flaw of pride-centered motivation. When our projects are built on the foundation of self-promotion, they're destined to create confusion rather than lasting impact. Are you constructing your own Tower of Babel? We offer three penetrating questions to help you identify pride-driven ambition in your life. Do you regularly take shortcuts because you believe your approach is better? Do you prefer isolation to community engagement? Does your name and recognition matter more than the accomplishments of those around you? Your answers might reveal whether your ambitions are building something meaningful or merely monuments to pride. The choice is yours – will you pursue making your name great, or will you align with purposes greater than yourself? We explore the dangerous allure of making a name for ourselves and why it might be one of the worst life decisions we can make. Using the biblical Tower of Babel story, we examine how pride-driven ambition leads to division and failure rather than true fulfillment and legacy. • The Babel Tower project was driven by pride and fear of irrelevance • Four motivations behind Babel: creating a name, separating from others, circumventing established methods, and disobeying instructions • Pride is a dangerous enemy we must guard against • The power of unity and agreement was demonstrated even in this misguided project • God responded to their pride by confounding their language and stopping the project Are you building your own Babel Tower? Ask yourself: Do you take shortcuts because you think your way is better? Are you prone to isolation rather than community? Do you prioritize your name and legacy above others? Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new…
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